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Smooth_daddy

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Do we miss ramadhan or we are happy for it be gone?
Posted 28 Oct 2004

I am usually sad bcuz I feel guilty of not doing enough and promise to do it better next time. I miss fasting after ramadhan.
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Freddy says
i miss ramzan not because i didn't get enough sawab in that month just because the change attitude of the peoples....


sara shehar aik he wakt mein khana khata hai.....loog aik dosray ki madad karnay ki kosish kartay hain.... chehroon pei khushiyaan hoti hain...
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Shaitan is chained and I feel freedom his constant aggression.
Serenity in the heart that prevails in this month something I really cherish and want to keep all year long.
Posted 28 Oct 2004

Ashii says
wot abt the shetan sitting inside our hearts
he s neverr chained
Posted 29 Oct 2004

sahee kaha aap sab ne lekin eid rozay rakhnay ka inam hoti hay
Posted 29 Oct 2004

Do we completely forget what we learned in Ramadhan.
I think most people don't get anything out of it. Bcuz at iftaar time people jump in food in such a mannar that fasting was wasted. people really don't care about other fellow muslims in the mosques, whether others get to eat at all or not, they should get it stomuch full. I think most people are happy when its over.
Posted 29 Oct 2004

Here's the eid joke:

A guy was crying after Eid prayers. Some people praised him that he love ramadhan so much that he couldn't see it going away. One person said it loud. while praising he also sympathized with the sobing guy. Guy said I am not that sad about the ramadhan going away as much as the next one is less than a year away!
Posted 29 Oct 2004

SALL said:

wot abt the shetan sitting inside our hearts
he s neverr chained



that's the one we train to control in ramadhan bcuz the big one is chained.
whether we do succeed or not is another story.
Posted 29 Oct 2004

Ashii says

good one SD


yar i know,, ramadan ka matlab yehi hai,,, learn to controle our desires
but we dont even try
Posted 29 Oct 2004

Fairl_Girl says
we will wait for ramzan
Posted 29 Oct 2004

cld we promise ourselves that we will giveup bad habit in this month forever and will pick-on a good one instead?

This ain't that hard!
Posted 01 Nov 2004

Posted 02 Nov 2004

i dont want Ramzan to go !!!
Posted 02 Nov 2004

Rmazan main routine acchi ho jatee hay agar pak main hoto
Posted 02 Nov 2004

it straightens up routine in US too. I hope to continue with the routine. Except that I don't like to eat that early in the morning.
Posted 02 Nov 2004

Bush_Blasta said:

i dont want Ramzan to go !!!



I don't either!

but you know it will lose its importance and people will not respect it as they do now.
Posted 02 Nov 2004

faradiya said:

i miss ramzan not because i didn't get enough sawab in that month just because the change attitude of the peoples....


sara shehar aik he wakt mein khana khata hai.....loog aik dosray ki madad karnay ki kosish kartay hain.... chehroon pei khushiyaan hoti hain...



bcuz our understanding is that Allah only exists on "holy days", in "Masajid" and when we want to invoke him like on death, marriages, birth ...
Our believes are weak and confused bcuz we want to mold them by our desires.
Posted 02 Nov 2004

Freddy says
who is responsible for all that ??????? why our peoples imaans are so weak ?????????

do you have an idea how can we solve this problem ?
Posted 02 Nov 2004

Ashii says
i can see just one reason
we are afraid of dying,,
but we dont even think abt life after death
Posted 03 Nov 2004

faradiya said:

who is responsible for all that ??????? why our peoples imaans are so weak ?????????

do you have an idea how can we solve this problem ?



We found "Ilahs" other than Allah.
now yu wld ask me how is tht! rit!

Do we really believe that Allah is the provider? If we do than why do we steal? why do we cheat, dissuade others?

Do we believe tht no one can benefit or harm anyone with Allah's permission and no1 can save some1 from something Allah has decreed? We don't, otherwise we wldn't b affraid of consequences.

Do we really believe in the last day? If we did we wld long for it, we wld trade the bounties of life and world for akhira. we'r doing the opposite. Result - unending greed, competition for petty wordly things, goals of life blind us from the goal of life after this life. Impatience and unhappiness are also virtues of ir.

Fix for it - No quick fix, but in the lng run, start correcting self, develop strength to resist temptations and to offer sacrifices. Present an example in self and encourage members of immediate family.

did I answer ur quest faradiya
Posted 03 Nov 2004

Freddy says
both didn't get me.......i want to know why peoples don't believe on aheraat ??????????????????


Posted 03 Nov 2004

They know it but reject it bcuz it restrains people from doing wht they r doin.

Prophet (pbuh) said (roughly translated): Iam a person trying to shield you from running into the fire hell. You are insisting on falling into just like a moth flies into it.
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Ashii says
paaarrrrrrrrrrr kyuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn



Posted 04 Nov 2004

Freddy says
good!
        next question ........kon sei waja hai loog aesay ho geye hain.......woe akheraat kay baray mein sochana he nahi chahtay ku itnay materialistic ho geye hain .........kya apnay jesay dosray insanoo ko dekha kay ???? matlab jesay dosray kaar rahay hain hum be kartay hain un ko agar kuch nahi hoa tu hameen be nahi ho ga..................they see peoples who are greedy and get money from najaeez source are more happy then a person who's life is full with emaan ..jo rishwat nahi leta....dhooka nahi karta..jhoot nahi bolta.........you know een ki zindagi kitni hard hoti hai ?????kya kya problem nahi aati un pay.........why is that ?????? ye kaha ka insaaf hai.......aik insaan agar khuda kay tarekoo pay chalta hai tu ussay zindagi mein kya kya musebateen nahi uthana parti ...............dosri taraf ess kay ult chalnay walay mazay sei zindagi guzaar rahay hain.........ye nainsaafi kue ?????


Haam kehtay hain masjidoon mein namazi nahi aatay........jub aik he mohalay mein 5 masjidiin ho gey tu kaha ayeen gey namazi ?????

molvi kehtay hain....chanda doeeeeeee masjid kay Gumbad ko ore unchaa karna hai.........essay banvaoo gey tu junaat mein makaan milay ga................ore loog apni jaebeen hali kartay jatay hain........


paar unhoon nein kabi ye nahi socha kay .....masjid kay eridgird kay elaqay kay logoon ko dekheen...unn mein sei kisi ko madad ki zaroorat tu nahi.......koi bhooka tu nahi soyaa aajj.......koi bemar tu nahiiiiiii....kesi ki beti bina shaadi kay bhuri tu nahi ho rahi............haam kue socheen ....hameen tu janat mein makaan chahiyee...........


ma kay paet sei koi kuch be sikh kay nahi aata...........agar tum aik bachay koi kisi kamray mein bund kaar doe........ore sari zindagi usay uss kamray sei bahir na nikaloo tu ussay kabi pata he nahi chalay ga .....duniyaa mein koi khuda be hai ......koi musalman be hai ....koi hindu be hai....koi aesayee be hai.........koi duniyaa be hai.....woe ye sub kuch janay bina he mar jayee ga.................

ye sub kuch jo aaj kaal ho raha hai ye hamara apna he keya hoa hai .........haam apnay eridgird sei he sub sekhtay hain.....................aik molvi jis kay pechay hum namaz partay hain..............jo hameen din samjata hai.........jub uss ki neyaat he theek nahi ho gey tu hamara kya hashar ho ga???????

hoorn kay lalach dei kaar bachay ko pehlay he haam sikha detay hain ...kay beta ...agar kuch karoo gey tu uss kay badlay kuch milay ga........phir woe haar baat pei pochta hai ...agar mein ye karoo ga tu mujay kya milay ga.......agar kahoo kuch nahi milay ga tu woe kehta hai phir mein ye kue karooooo......


bachpan sei he hamaray dil mein khuda kaa daar betha dea jata hai.......beta aesa nahi karna warna allah mian marieen gey......bacha seham jata hai kay pata nai allah mian kya hai jo sirf martay he hain.......kabi hum bachoo ko ye nahi sekhtay kay woe hamara dost be hai........woe ghafoor be hai ......woe raheem be hai..........



hum bachpan sei he apnay gharoon mein dekatay ayeen hai kay Quran ko uncheen jagoo pay rukha jata hai.......ya suba suba talavaat ki jati hai ore sawaab kamayaa jata hai...............ya phir koi fooat ho jayee tu halvay shalvay paka kay quran para jata hai uss ki rukh ko swab pohanhay kay leye.......yahi sei humaray dil mein ye beth jata hai quran parnay sei sirf sawab milta hai ore hameen ess ka ehtaram karna chahiyee.......loog sari zindagi sawab kamatay rehtay hai paar itna nahi jaan pata ye jo likha hai ess ka matlab kya hai.............


fact tu ye hai Hum sub Matlabi hain.......bina matlab kay hum kisi ko pani be nahi pelatay........pelatay hain tu dil mein ye matlab hota hai kay sawab milay ga.......jis mein kuch na milay woe cheez hamaray leye fazool hai....behakeekat.......................namaz partay hain.....................kue kay janat ki kunji milay gey.............kya hai ye sub ..........hamari soch ............hamaray zindagi guzarana kuch be tu natural nahi.............


Posted 04 Nov 2004

Ashii says
freddy yar tang na kar
pehle hi taiyat theek nahi hai



(weekend pe)
btw yeh aap ko bhi daura par gaya,, mujhe to kya kuch keh rahe the...
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Freddy says
nasebay-dostaan kya ho geya tabeyaat ko...........



ye tu haar wakt undeer he hota hai......paar jub bardasht sei bahir ho jata hai tu ugal deta hoon
Posted 04 Nov 2004

SALL said:

paaarrrrrrrrrrr kyuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn





becuz they fail to master their desires, instead let desires be their master. This is when ones' own nafs becomes the Ilah (God) ov oneself.
When this Ilah is challenged, the body responds with rage because it is subserviant to it. When ayahs of Allah are openly opposed, body and mind are not even moved or even dislike such act.

Desesitivity creeps in
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Ashii says
just one thing,,,
i read that day in Quran paak,, HARAAM KHANE SE NAMARDI AATI HAI.. namardi means buzdili
aur haraam bohot tarha ka hota hai,, khane mei, rozi mei, amaal mei

hum logon ne jo apne baron se paya hai wohi apni aulad ko de rahe hein,, that s y khud aik choti si burai karte wakt hum jab yeh kehte hein na k,,, it s okk yarr iss se kya fark parta hai,,, fark parta hai, keep one thing in mind, hamesha,, k hamari next generation hum se 4 haath agay hi hogi
it s like a vicious circle,, par kissi na kissi ko to pehel karni hogi yeh movement torne liye..


ab humein ninu i hai,, iss se pehle k hum patri se utrein,, hum chale,,, baki phir kabhi,, zindagi rahi to
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Ashii says
oaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..
donooo
plzz chup kar jao,, warna me chair se gir jau gi



im soooo tired yarrrrrrrrrrrrr
chuppppppppppppp
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Freddy says
mera be jee chah raha hai dewaar sei takreen maroo









yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar ye tu sab jantay hain imaan ki kamzoori hai ya fala hai wagera wager................hameen ess ki jhaar ko pakarna hai ......ye sub kuch kue haiiiiiiii.....ye emaan ki kamzori wagera wagera
Posted 05 Nov 2004

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