would you trust your mum dad to get you married. i mean know days dughters sons get they self sort out without talking about it with they parents. would you choose your husband/wife by your self. or let your mum dad do that for you.
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i would trust my parent's judgment, they not only want the best but also know the best. they know my choice by now and would always ask for my input. so in a way we'd both arrange the rishta
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Well, jahan tak lerkiyoon ki baat hai So i think, no one's parents(I hope) would make a bad decision for their children’s lives. And they should and some parents do ask for their daughter’s opinion because she is the one who have to spend her whole life with the person they are gonna choose. but as u all know some parents never do that.
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paki_fan said:
Well, jahan tak lerkiyoon ki baat hai So i think, no one's parents(I hope) would make a bad decision for their children’s lives. And they should and some parents do ask for their daughter’s opinion because she is the one who have to spend her whole life with the person they are gonna choose. but as u all know some parents never do that.
Paki the parents who don't ask their daughter's choice are wrong and should be ashamed of themselves.
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BadShaH1 said:
I think its difficult for girls becuz parents take it to their respect, but ud rather select ur life partner urself.
Some stupid respect that must be - if respect at all. your kids are more important than some superfecial etiquettes imposed by your local paki community
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every mum dad should ask they son and sughetr before GETTING THEM married our mum dad had they married life u know what i mean they got married had kids and its our life we should trust our mum dad but our mum dad should trust us too and they should ask us what do we want they can say its right and wrong but they are not too sure are they? one ly ALLAH knows that
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depends on where your parenrts were born and what the fmaily traditions are and so on. Also another factor is how strong the parent and child relatrionshipo is. If they trust there children enough. Then sometim es grandparents uncles and aunts effect the situation also.
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when your mum dad talk about they kids wedding then all the family come in they start talk about your wedding when they should not they have no right but still they come in whch gets bad and worse u know its like sh*t mum dad should never listen to anyone apart from they own family i mean they kids and no one else
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Jia_ka_chand said:
BadShaH1 said:
I think its difficult for girls becuz parents take it to their respect, but ud rather select ur life partner urself.
Some stupid respect that must be - if respect at all. your kids are more important than some superfecial etiquettes imposed by your local paki community
ask how it feels when a parent or brother or loved one gets to listen something bad abt their girls
and should be ashamed of themselves.
