Marriage vows

okie alot of topics have been raised about marriage so i want to make thisone diffrent and find out the views of ALL JANUBABA members, the three types of marriage are:

arranged
Perents pick a male/female for son/daughter with consent of daughter.

LOVIE DOVIE
by self find someone special, and settle down, (now alot of people comfused love with eham eham consumating, i do not agree with this before marriage, to me it's not moral) so it's just loving someone for their personality and their punny habbits

Forced
this is when they get a bakra either from UK/PK to marry someone, because he/she perents have done naughtie things in their jawanie, so find the need to be controlling inferdels who make a important life decision for their child all for the sake of community izzat (TO HELL WITH THAT IZZAT I SAY, I ONLY KEEP IZZAT INFORNT OF ALLAH AND FAMILY)

but forced and arranged often get comfused, i want to know what is your choice of marriage and why?

if you want to stay single fair enuff but still state why