Bazigaar said:someone summarize plz
SohniKuddi said:You see one side, the other is hidden but revealed to others. the face you see is alien to others. bitter backbiting......ouch!
SALL said:dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)
djeedja lotta said:
SALL said:dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)
i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.
to topic:
only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.
djeedja lotta said:
SALL said:dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)
i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.
to topic:
only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.
djeedja lotta said:i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.
to topic:
only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.
SohniKuddi said:How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)
All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away
Smooth_daddy said:
SohniKuddi said:How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)
All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away
Boy! that's a good one
SK, I don't know anything about you, but my response will only help you if your understanding syncs with ...you will find out.
Know that, when someone backbites you, they are gifting you their good deeds for free and taking your bad ones in trade-off. So you be content to find it saved with Allah if you are patient and hopeful of meeting your Lord.
One time, a great scholar found out about a person who spoke ill behind his back. This knowledgeable person prepared a nice present for that person and took it to his house. Person asked the scholar of reason for the present, he presented his gratitude to him for scrubbing his sins with ill speech.
Secondly, those who talk bad behind you, they are not your friends becuz they thrive on your flesh. If you are close to them, try to correct them with politeness. Confrontation without insult or public outburst may bring about desireable changes. Insha-Allah
One who speaks ill of others to you, rest assured, 'll speak ills of you to others. So, discourage and resist gossip of others in your presence.
Gossip is a disease of heart and tounge is its tools.
Last but least, pray alot and ask Allah to forgive and guide such persons who backbite, angels will make the same dua for you.
Smooth_daddy said:
SohniKuddi said:How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)
All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away
Boy! that's a good one
SK, I don't know anything about you, but my response will only help you if your understanding syncs with ...you will find out.
Know that, when someone backbites you, they are gifting you their good deeds for free and taking your bad ones in trade-off. So you be content to find it saved with Allah if you are patient and hopeful of meeting your Lord.
One time, a great scholar found out about a person who spoke ill behind his back. This knowledgeable person prepared a nice present for that person and took it to his house. Person asked the scholar of reason for the present, he presented his gratitude to him for scrubbing his sins with ill speech.
Secondly, those who talk bad behind you, they are not your friends becuz they thrive on your flesh. If you are close to them, try to correct them with politeness. Confrontation without insult or public outburst may bring about desireable changes. Insha-Allah
One who speaks ill of others to you, rest assured, 'll speak ills of you to others. So, discourage and resist gossip of others in your presence.
Gossip is a disease of heart and tounge is its tools.
Last but not least, pray alot and ask Allah to forgive and guide such persons who backbite, angels will make the same dua for you.