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LiL_DollY

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Ok I will give you a scenario and you will tell me what you would do if you were in that situation

okay...
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
scenario#1

you are shopping @ a clothing shop. And someone begans to stock yah...
what do you do?
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
stock yah=follow you around...watch you
Posted 30 Jun 2005

me gonna ask Him/her, WHAT's youl prb man?

Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
hay hay sister....
your a straight forward person...


I think....I would do the same
but not if I was alone...
I would probably make the store manager aware or something
to they can dea with the situation

tells the security guard or cops....
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
anyone else?
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY said:

hay hay sister....
your a straight forward person...


I think....I would do the same
but not if I was alone...
I would probably make the store manager aware or something
to they can dea with the situation

tells the security guard or cops....



me never gt scared sis

me wud even fight, give him DHISHOOM, BIG GHOONSA on his cheek and do some boxing
Posted 30 Jun 2005

cutefriend says
apun us ko dekhna start ker dye ga




bilkul us ki tarhan



phir woh kiya karye ga
Posted 30 Jun 2005

phil wo kisi aur taraf daikhnay lagay ga lolzz
Posted 30 Jun 2005

guest. says
been there done tht

slap him/her ryt away!
Posted 30 Jun 2005

Posted 30 Jun 2005

cutefriend says
~ ßã£îçh ~ said:

phil wo kisi aur taraf daikhnay lagay ga lolzz





hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Posted 30 Jun 2005

ait to aap ti eye prb jati tion nahin? lolzzz
Posted 30 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
yeah and i am talking to u too dolly
Posted 30 Jun 2005

guest. says
cf ki woh permanent prob hai!
Posted 30 Jun 2005

mallak!! says
kiss em
Posted 30 Jun 2005

jus ignore

(bhaar main jao)
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
cutefriend said:

apun us ko dekhna start ker dye ga




bilkul us ki tarhan



phir woh kiya karye ga





Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
Everyone had great, interesting, and some funny ideas.

Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
Scenario#2
Your toddler is throwing a tantrum @ the store'
What do you do?


tantrum=crying, throwing a fit usually because he/she wants something.
Posted 30 Jun 2005

put a cigaret in him/her mouth
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
in the babies moouth....

owaayy mr. khan....







Posted 30 Jun 2005

Saher` says
get a candy for da baby
Posted 30 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
what are some other ideas
Posted 30 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
no idea...brain sleeping
Posted 01 Jul 2005

LiL_DollY says
well what your suppose to do when a child throws a tantrum is

#1 achkonweldge their feelings=
I see that your upset because you want that toy...

#2 Give them two choices...
YOu can stop crying and we can stay at the store

Or mommy will pick you up and we will leave.

#3 Acknowledge your feelings...
(I message)= I am sad when you throw a tantrum in the store. I feel embarrased...when everyone stares



lesson

active listening=listen to your childs feelings...
observe them
and respond...
to reflect their feelings


I message-instead of getting angry
using the word *I* tell the child how you feel

I am sad
I am angry
I am happy


so on




Posted 07 Jul 2005

LiL_DollY says
because if you give the child candy...
then everytime you go to the store the child will
do the same thing over and over again and expect you to give the candy.

therefore you are spoiling the child.

And you should not give into what the child wants...
then your becomign a permissive parent. And thats bad for the child.
Posted 07 Jul 2005

Bazigaar says
but dolly ehy
Posted 07 Jul 2005

LiL_DollY says
YES GEE FARMO
Posted 09 Jul 2005

Bazigaar says
farmana ke hae je
Posted 09 Jul 2005

LiL_DollY says
so whyd you say but
Posted 11 Jul 2005

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