yar,her shakhs ki regardless of age or sex, life main kuch na kuch aisa hota he jo one likes to keep with oneself.i think k nahin batana chahiay.take your relation ship from when it starts.ho sakta he larki ki life main bhi aisa kuch ho,is tension main nahin parna chahiay.a close friend of mine was a drinker and he started drinking b4 his wife in wedding night,it made such a bad impression.khoobi khaami her aik main hoti he.better keep it between u and GOD.thats what i think