~ Nikah ~

SALL said:

I started that topic for a reason

allll paki married women I know (aged between 50/25)
none of them had read their nikah naama
most of them never had their haq meher,, a vv few knew the amount before nikah
only 5 to 10% of them were asked for/told abt "conditions" baki sab ko shadi k baad conditions ka bataya gaya
i dont know abt guyz,,,,,

yahan jitne logon ne bhi answer kiya hai i guess mere aur bazu k ilawa kissi ki shadi nahi hui,, may b thats the reason k itna 'confident' ho k answer kar rahe hein


when I got married i had different views,, mere nazdeek nikah ki koi hesiyat nahi thi,,, it was just a way to tell ppl that u want to live with that person for the rest of ur life
so i didnt impose anything,, i didnt even read it

par meri soch mei aur baki logon ki soch mei zameen asmaan ka fark hai,, jo cheez mere liye fazool hai logon k liye behaad important hai
isss liye pucha tha k jiss cheez ko itni importance di jati hai uss ki asal hesiyat kya hai ??


bazu
can u define me wot a contract is ???

SALL said:

bazu
can u define me wot a contract is ???

SALL said:

when I got married i had different views,, mere nazdeek nikah ki koi hesiyat nahi thi,,, it was just a way to tell ppl that u want to live with that person for the rest of ur life
so i didnt impose anything,, i didnt even read it??

Bazigaar said:

definition of contract can be:   binding agreement between two or more persons that is enforceable by law

now u will say k husband/wife bhi to ek tarah ke arangement mae hotay hian...

well, in that case, i would ask, what is namaz? an exercise?

so basicaly u could call if a contract if u want to, but it;s not religion is a totaly different thing

Bazigaar said:

even before i got married or anything, i had a clear picture of nikah, it;s not only telling ppl to live with someone and dat's it..it;s alot more then that...brings responsibility to begin with...maturity comes with it too...etc etc (in most cases, offcourse their r some exceptions)

SALL said:

Bazigaar said:

definition of contract can be:   binding agreement between two or more persons that is enforceable by law

now u will say k husband/wife bhi to ek tarah ke arangement mae hotay hian...

well, in that case, i would ask, what is namaz? an exercise?

so basicaly u could call if a contract if u want to, but it;s not religion is a totaly different thing

a contract is not necesarily something written,, or imposed by law
its when 2(or more) log kissi baat pe mutafik hon,, kuch duties, responsibilities aur rights k badle
simple

"""its not religion, its totaly a diff thing"""
samajh nahi aaya ??

SALL said:

u talked abt "responsibility'
to resp to mujh pe aur sall pe pehle se thi,, we promised each other to live togather forever,, isnt a promis enuff ??

Bazigaar said:

SALL said:

Bazigaar said:

definition of
contract can be:   binding agreement between two or more persons that is
enforceable by law

now u will say k husband/wife bhi to ek tarah ke arangement mae hotay
hian...

well, in that case, i would ask, what is namaz? an exercise?

so basicaly u could call if a contract if u want to, but it;s not religion is a
totaly different thing

a contract is not necesarily something written,, or imposed by law
its when 2(or more) log kissi baat pe mutafik hon,, kuch duties,
responsibilities aur rights k badle
simple

"""its not religion, its totaly a diff thing"""
samajh nahi aaya ??

agar imam ke peechay namaz parhi jae mutafiq ho ker...to would u call it
a contract too? no na...esee liye anything in religion is not a contract but
an order by God

SALL said:

its a guideline till u r not engaged
once u recite kalma (dil se) it becomes a contract

hmm,, khair,, kya fark parta hai
maksad dil se maan k SAHI rehna hai
guidline samajh k ya contract samajh k




woh topic beech mei hi reh gaya
kissi ko kuch nahi kehna ??????

SALL said:

hansne ka kya hai


i said imaan is a contract
namaz is one of its conditions

namaz Allah k liye parhi jati hai,, imaam k liye nahi

SALL said:

wot does contract have to do with business ?????
havent u ever heard abt moral / unwritten contracts
??????????

nikama said:

bazi ko accounting mar gai o bhai marriage is a contract between two persons to live togather(HOPEFULLY)for the rest of their lives and to share the joys and sorrows that come their way.baqi mulla ka khutba,pundit k ashlok,padri ka sermon sab ghair zaroori hain.marriage us waqt se aik contract he jab insan gharon main rehta tha,her aane vaale religion ne is contract ko apne apne tor per legitimize ker dia aur bus.ager do ghair muslim mian biwi islam main convert ho jain to unhain dobara nikah parhwane ki zaroorat nahin hoti,matlab islam acknowledges their old contract.as for namaz,its not a contract but a condition,and if GOD had imposed religion on us then there would have been no need for heaven and hell.