Why don’t Asian parents trust their kids?

Daydreamer said:

Why don't Asian parents trust their kids?
so who thinks that there parents dont trust them
do you have to lie about where you are going , who you are with ?

are yours strict? e.g. education etc

Hey Guys. Love your message board chats. I always dip in to keep an eye across the conversations going on

sorry man u r totally wrong

my parents trust on me

WOW WO      WOW!

Parents always trust their children

if someone think that HIS/HER parents doen't trust

than that mean THEY DO BUT THAT boy/GIRL doesn't trust their parents

My parents totally trust me, becoz i deserve to be trusted lol
i never lie to them.. n if i lie, they find out becoz they know me so well ma bad..
how long can we lie to them? one day they'll find out n then the trust they had on uss will be totally broken..

my parents trust me for lots of things,,
like i cant go out wherever i want to and whenever i want
no objection,, no restriction
it was same before my marriage


hmm,,,,, BUT
they dont trust me at allllllll when i want to take a decision on my own
nahh they dont,,, they dont even encourage me

my parents trust me

^ oh..maybee becoz they fink ya not mature enough to tke that decission..becoz in their eyes aap bache hi ho.. on ko sari zindagu ka experience hai is liye woh decessionlena zayada achi tarah jante hain..

veer_zaara said:

my parents trust me

coz thier parent trusted them and i will trust my kids

u might b right desi gurl
but then,, when will I start having some "experience" ??

i know they ve more experience but despite their life experience it happens that they take a wrong decision
we all are human yar
y i dont have that right

asian parents..duhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Daydreamer...thats a very "Typical" and stereotyped suggestion, that asian parents don't trust their kids, and what did you mean about education???

Parents do trust their kids, (i think this normally applies to young daughters...am i right?) parents just don't trust other people, for instance, your daughter can be really sensible she could be understanding and knowing of what is right and what is wrong, a parent can recognise that, but parents don't know what "other" people will think of their daughter, aghar apna imaan saaf ho, zuroori nahin ke sab ka imaan saaf hai, matlab not everyone is the same. parents don't really have trust issues with their kids, they have trust issues with ther people, people who gossip, people who don't see a human in the right way if you know what i mean. But then again in contrast...theres always a black sheep in every flock and that can't be changed. If a child can't be trusted, then they shouldn't be trusted.

Me.....I work I study, i'm free, i have high goals and theres no limit to education in my family. I maintain my parent's trust, theres a line and i won't go over it, i've been given the freedom and i respect my parents, i respect their image and most of all i respect myself. Sometimes when my parents say no, of course i get annoyed, of course i yell and shout and tell them tht the don't trust me, but as you get older it all comes together and you understand, i don't regret it for a second. You never believe them when they say "It's for your own good" and at the end you realise that they weren't lying, thats when you get the respect you get the praise and everyone likes praise lol.

Daydreamer said:

Why don't Asian parents trust their kids?
so who thinks that there parents dont trust them
do you have to lie about where you are going , who you are with ?

are yours strict? e.g. education etc

Hey Guys. Love your message board chats. I always dip in to keep an eye across the conversations going on

ok fine... some parents don't trust their children..but that doesn't bring in all asians okay.. so come on buddy don't drag the rest of them in one situation.

hmmmmm. . . . . i think child-parent trust depends ona lot of factors, the way he parent was brought up, the environment, the child's behaviour, and also what parents hear, stories like ' fulane ki ladki pakdi gayi us awara ladke ke saath' & on, & on. so . . .u cnt put all asian parents under one category

simple....where their kids...

and maybe
they dont want their kids to go through
what they went through



or they know what society and environment is like



after all their parents
simply worried
as always

(my dad jsut made me cry yesterday)

too much cr**

lifes full of it

cuz asian kids are messed up
so are the parents
simple.

^even..... lol

Asians parents don trust on her
omg
lol
playin

were humans

trust or no trust

we have to deal with each other

you can relate this too
the story of Prophet Adam (R)

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