TaSHi
Age: 125
Total Posts: 610
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Location:
United Kingdom, United Kingdom
Which is the better problem -solving strategy?
The only answer to a problem is to think about it.
The trick to problem solving is to be aware that
you may not have the answer to it.
Go ask someone else????
Do you think it helps to talk to someone about it????
Tell me now.......after this conversation
other person....."i have a problem"
me....."lets think of a solution for it"
other person....."i have and there is no solution to it"
me....."so the solution is to accept the problem is unsolvable"
other person....."but i don't want to accept that"
me....."so solve the problem"
other person....."i can't there is no solution for it"
me....."well if i was in your shoes i would do X or Y"
other person....."but i dont want to do X or Y"
me....."then the problem remains"
other person....."but i don't want to have the problem"
me....."then do something about it"
other person....."but i can't do anything about it"
me....."it's not that you can't, it's just that you won't"
other person....."that's easy for you to say, you're not me"
me....."that's easy for you to say, you're not me"
other person....."now you're just pissing me off"
me....."no , i'm trying to get you to accept that you have choices,
but you won't take them, so you have to accept that things
will remain the same"
other person....."it's not fair"
me....."life isn't" [:P]
love, regards
Natasha(F)
