" Darmiyane "

*islam main tu aisey log exist nahi kartey...
*enka rehnay ka tareeqa aur jo kaam kartey hain woh galat...aur jo yeh dress pehntay hain woh bhi galat hai
* parents ko chahiyey usko achi tarbiyat dein...aur aisay logoon sey door rakhien...jis mahool main reh rahey hain wohan aisey log na hoon
*well it will be strange situation...when u think what they b4 were...

shahrukh khan said:

*islam main tu aisey log exist nahi kartey...

hain?
to kia yah log jismani tor par diff nahin hotay?

Aasera said:

shahrukh khan said:

*islam main tu aisey log exist nahi kartey...

hain?
to kia yah log jismani tor par diff nahin hotay?

i saw ur name Aasera, which brought me here and then this topic.

Exist na karnay ka kya matlab hai ..? Allah ne banaya hai un logon ko .. aor Yaqeenan Islami Taleemaat main aisay logon k liye bhi Kuch baatain hongi... Lekin hum log nahi jantay aor na hum ne kabhi jannay ki koshish ki hogi (aaj se pehle) ...

Ye hamari society ka almiya hai k hum log In LOGON ko respect nahi de saktay, hum inko nachtay gatay e dekhte hain, hum ne kabhi nahi socha Unki education, job aor aik respected life k baaray main... Ye MOASHRAY Ki ghalti hai..

Wo khud se to aisay nahi banay, they deserve a better and respected life like all of us Unless they are interested in those bad things ..

never thought abt this before .. kuch pata ker k he bata sakti hon..

Aasera said:

shahrukh khan said:

*islam main tu aisey log exist nahi kartey...

hain?
to kia yah log jismani tor par diff nahin hotay?

i meant by their living style

hmm oki :D

yeah phliend, please jo bi info milay zaror share karna

Doctor Sam said:

i saw ur name Aasera, which brought me here and then this topic.

Exist na karnay ka kya matlab hai ..? Allah ne banaya hai un logon ko .. aor Yaqeenan Islami Taleemaat main aisay logon k liye bhi Kuch baatain hongi... Lekin hum log nahi jantay aor na hum ne kabhi jannay ki koshish ki hogi (aaj se pehle) ...

Ye hamari society ka almiya hai k hum log In LOGON ko respect nahi de saktay, hum inko nachtay gatay e dekhte hain, hum ne kabhi nahi socha Unki education, job aor aik respected life k baaray main... Ye MOASHRAY Ki ghalti hai..

Wo khud se to aisay nahi banay, they deserve a better and respected life like all of us Unless they are interested in those bad things ..

main to kab say sochti hon, but alwz pochna bhol jati hon, yahan topic bananay ka bi kab say irada tha,but zahn say nikal jata tha

yaqeen manain, bachpan say, mujhe kabhi in par hansi nahin ai, na hi bure lagay, coz my father said,
in par hastay nahin hain, ALLAH nay aisa banaya hay in ko, bad-dua lag sakti hay in ki, and mujhe hamesha say tars ata raha hay in par

but ab yah question ata hay zahn main kay ALLAH nay bana to alag diya hay but, agay yah jaisi life guzartay hain, kia wo sahi hay?

zahir hay nach gana mana hay islam main, to zahir hay ghalat hay, BUT aisa na karain to wo aur kia karain?
and kon karnay day ga un ko kuch aur?

Yaar. ye log almost poori normal life guzaar saktay hain... but i said na , Its US, its OUR SOCIETY jo kaam kharab karti hai...

I remember, when i was younger, aik shadi pe ye log dance kar rahay thay, people were enjoying, laughing and i was badly upset.

I think, most of them will prefer a normal respected life if they are offered.. Lekin offer kon karta hai ...?

koi na koi Step hum main se e kisi ko lena hai ...

step laina to bohat dur ki bat hay, abhi to in questions kay answers hi mil jaen to bohat hay

yarrrr


hamari parda daar society mei middle class gharon mei "dancing girls" ko invite nahi kiya jata,, aurton ka nach gana thori 'mayuub' si baat hai,,
aur iss ka alternative hum logon ne yeh dhoonda hai
its shameful the way ppl talk abt them or treat them,, we shd accept them the way they are,, kyun k agar woh medicaly unfit hein to yeh Allah ki marzi hai,,


now a question
y there s such a big number of "darmiyane" in india and pakistan ??
well its coz half of them are not
i recently learnt that a lot amongst them are men... KYUN ka jawab mere paas shayad nahi hai,, par woh KYA karte hein ka jawab hai

so far no info found ..

ashiiii .. wht? why? y men act to be "them" when they can lead a normal life.. KYUN ka jawab nhi hai .. ok phir KYA kertay hein?

Aasera said:

darmiyane yani hijrhe (never liked this word)


ab yah to aap jantay hi ho kay yah kon hain and kia kartay hain.

but mairay zahn main kuch sawal hain, jin kay jawab agar kisi kay pas hon to zaror day.

Islam kia kahta hay about em?

jaisay yah log rahtay hain,and jo kaam yah kartay hain kia yah sahi hay???

ab na to yah mard hotay hain na auratain, to un ko kaisi life guzarni chahiyay? what about praying and other stuff?

and agar kisi k ghar main aisa bacha paida ho to, parents ka kia farz banta hay???

and mano kay wo log yah sab nach gana etc chorh kar, aam life guzarna chahain,
PAKISTAN main,other countries ki bat nahin kar rahi main, and aam places par jobs karain, studie karain, aap kay kids, bro sis, etc say dosti karain to yah sab daikh kar aap ko kaisa feel ho ga???





please dont start judging em

huhhhhhhhhhhh
very serious topic
janab pehla sawal....
islam ne in ka darja aulia-e-karam se zyada buland kar rakha hai agar ye serf deen k faraiz hi ada kar le yaani namaz roza waghera or ye jo kaam ye karte hai is ko chhor k koi or jaaiz kaam...jaha tak baat in k ibaadat k tareeqa kaar pe aati hai waha beheshti zewar mai likha gaya hai k jo in ko lagta hai k wo mard zyada hai,ya un mai naswaani unsar zyada hai to usi tareeqa pe ibaadat ki jaaye
maa baap ka farz ye hai k inhe bhi apne doosre aam bacho ki tarha paale or kia aap ne wo hadees nahi suni jis ki tashreeh is tara hai jo insan apni do betio ki parwarish ache tareeqe se karega qayamt k din wo MOHAMMAD (PBUH)k itne hi qareeb hoga jesa k humari shadat ki ungli or darmyaan waali lambi ungal to bhai mere socho zara in ka darja kitna buland hoga???????baaqi agar koi or confusion hai to thore dino ka waqt do k mai kuch or kutub parhoo or kuch logo se is k baare mai information jama kar k aapko bataoo
aap bhi SAHA SATTA ki 6 kitaabo mai se kisi bhi ek ka mutaala kijyega jawab mil jaayega

thnkz all, mainay sab ki posts parhi hain, but abhi time nahin hay, jab ziada time lay kar ai to gonna reply,
bohat bohat shukriya sab ka :)

its ok yaara tab tak mai aap k liye kuch logo se pooch loongi is topic k baare mai ok

Ashii said:

yarrrr hamari parda daar society mei middle class gharon mei "dancing girls" ko invite nahi kiya jata,, aurton ka nach gana thori 'mayuub' si baat hai,,
aur iss ka alternative hum logon ne yeh dhoonda hai
its shameful the way ppl talk abt them or treat them,, we shd accept them the way they are,, kyun k agar woh medicaly unfit hein to yeh Allah ki marzi hai,,

invite tabhi kartay hongay na Ashi jab un ka wajood hoga, jab wo aisa kaam karain gay hi nahin to koi kaisay invite karay ga unko?

and aksar kisi kay ghar BETA paida ho, ya BETE/BRO etc ki shadi ho tab yah log agar jan jaen to
khud a jatay hain "Paisa" lainay, as sadqa or nazrana, i dont know kiya kaha jata hay un paison ko.

Ashii said:

now a question
y there s such a big number of "darmiyane" in india and pakistan ??
well its coz half of them are not
i recently learnt that a lot amongst them are men... KYUN ka jawab mere paas shayad nahi hai,, par woh KYA karte hein ka jawab hai

yups mainay bi SUNA hay,
and is KION ka jo jawab mujhe mila tha wo yah tha kay JOBS NAHIN MILTIEN UNKO

and jo wo kartay hain wo,hmm wo to auratain karain ya mard i think aik jitna hi gunah milta ho ga.
(yah bi suna hay bas, haqeeqat kia hay, yah to ALLAH hi janain.)

ALLAH hidayat dain sab ko, Ameen!

madgirl* said:

huhhhhhhhhhhh
very serious topic
janab pehla sawal....
islam ne in ka darja aulia-e-karam se zyada buland kar rakha hai agar ye serf deen k faraiz hi ada kar le yaani namaz roza waghera or ye jo kaam ye karte hai is ko chhor k koi or jaaiz kaam...

Aulia e karam say ziada??? yah kahan likha hay? and kis ka kahna hay?

madgirl* said:

jaha tak baat in k ibaadat k tareeqa kaar pe aati hai waha beheshti zewar mai likha gaya hai k jo in ko lagta hai k wo mard zyada hai,ya un mai naswaani unsar zyada hai to usi tareeqa pe ibaadat ki jaaye

hmm oki.
and aik question hay kay,agar aisa hay to, jin ko lagay kay wo aurat ziada hain to, tab agar wo auraton jaisay kaprhay pahnain to tab to unko gunah nahin milay ga na?
ya phir yah bat sirf IBADAT kay liyay kahi gai hay?

madgirl* said:

maa baap ka farz ye hai k inhe bhi apne doosre aam bacho ki tarha paale or kia aap ne wo hadees nahi suni jis ki tashreeh is tara hai jo insan apni do betio ki parwarish ache tareeqe se karega qayamt k din wo MOHAMMAD (PBUH)k itne hi qareeb hoga jesa k humari shadat ki ungli or darmyaan waali lambi ungal to bhai mere socho zara in ka darja kitna buland hoga???????

main aap ki bat to samajh gai hon,
ji parhi hoi hay yah hadees,and agar main bhool nahin rahi to puri hadees yah thi kay,achi parwarish karain and unki shadi karain.

but wo bat only betiyon kay liyay ki gai hay, BETON kay liyay nahin, to tab wohi bat in kay liyay ham kaisay kah saktay hain??
i think khud say koi darja daina sahi nahin hay.

han yah bat to hay kay SAB bachon ki achi parwarish ka hokom diya gaya hay parents ko.

madgirl* said:

baaqi agar koi or confusion hai to thore dino ka waqt do k mai kuch or kutub parhoo or kuch logo se is k baare mai information jama kar k aapko bataoo
aap bhi SAHA SATTA ki 6 kitaabo mai se kisi bhi ek ka mutaala kijyega jawab mil jaayega

oh thankzz
Saha Satta? yah writer ka name hay kia?
(and main pakistan main nahin hon, yahan say yah books milna mushkil hongien )

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