jawab e shikwa

Aasera said:

Sami Doci, upar wali post main mainay apnay topic bananay ka maqsid likh diya hay

+ yah bat sirf forums kay liyay nahin kahi balkay real life main bi aisa hi hota hay
mairi aksar logon kay sath bahs hoti hay about it, coz
yahan aisa hi kartay hain log, aap ko kisi bi bat par tok daingay, and jab unko ahsaas dilao kay, AAP BI TO KUCH AISA KARTAY HO JO BILKUL ISLAMI NAHIN HAY, ya KUCH ISLAMI FARZ HAY JO AAP KO KARNA CHAHIYAY BUT AAP NAHIN KARTAY to answer milta hay, mujhe nahin pata tha ya phir yah k ham farishtay to nahin hain
jaisay kay dusra shaks farishta ho

and jaisa aap nay kaha kay achi bat hay kisi ko bura kam karnay say rokna, ya phir kuch achi info daina, to yes hay,
but aisi info usi insan say sun kar asar karti hay jo khud bi aisi baton par amal karta ho.

Ths wt i was trying to say.. Yaqeenan aisa ho raha hai ..Kuch logon ko doosron ko toknay ka kuch zyada shoq hota hai, aor wo khud ko dekhay baghair doosron ko achi baatain zabardasti batanay k mission pe lagay hotay hain..

BUT there is a point... Dekho agar aap ko koi achi baat bata raha hai, to aap ye kion socho gay k wo khud amal karta hai ya nahi..? Usko ZAROOR amal karna chahiye. Lekin agar wo nahi bhi kar raha lekin aapko kuch acha bata raha hai to kya hamain maan nahi lena chahiye ? what do u think ?

Aor behna, jese main ne bazi bhai k post k reply main likha hai, main ne forum pe aor real life dono main aisay topics par ye e dekha hai k aik behas s shuru ho jati hai, dono taraf k log doosri party ko blame karne lagtay hain ... aor positive reslts nahi aatay ..

friend_16 said:

Doctor Sam said:

As i said in other topics, Log buss behas karne main khushi mehsoos kartay hain... isi main time guzar jata hai ..

Aik baar meri class main ye topic chirda tha by boys side k larkiyan hijaab kion nahi letien... Aray Logo Aap pehle apni line to seedhi karo ... theek hai achi baat batao zaroor. lekin istarah nahi k attack karna shuru kar do...

Islam main achi baat batanay aor buri baat se rokne ka bhi sawaab hai, lekin aap impose nahi kar saktay.

Same problem ... humain sirf behas karni hai .. baat nahi sunni na samajhni hai ...


Behna.. what do u think aap k answers ka koi theek jawab day ga... ? bohat mushkil hai, aik useless discussion start ho jaye gi...

we come here to discuss different matters not to "argue" .. if someone is asking a question it doesn't means that he/she wants to argue.. as i said before as well that its a human right to know. let people clear their minds .. and if u think they are arguying simply don't reply...

F 16 JEE... mujhe lagta hai main ne apni baat theek lafzon main nahi kahi hai ...
Main ne kabhi bhi doosron ko FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION pe kisi qism ka aietraaz karne ki jurrat nahi ki ... Kion k mere khayal main ye munasib nahi hai ..

Main ne apni post ki wazahat bazi bhai aor behna k replies main kar di hai, aap bhi dekh lijye ...

mere observation main baar baar ye e aaya hai k aisay controversial topics AT THE END aik useless behas par khatam hotay hain,

Aor bilkul aakhri baat, aap ne jis post ko quote kiya hai, wo to main ne behna ko likha tha ...

I m leaving the discussion with the hope k iska positive rslt aaye ...

Aasera baat tu tumhare sahi hai lekin mere khyal mein sirf head cover karne se koi acha nai ho jata hai uske amaal bhi achey hone chahe..

baki logon ko bad main jawab dongi,
abhi main bas mr nice guy ko yah kahnay ai thi kay pichlay pages par mairay topic bananay kay maqsad ko parhain
and plzz... yah niyat etc wali batain dosray topic main bi discuss ho rahi hain, plz yahan yah mozo na chairhain,hope aap bura nahin manain gay.
(and yes i agree with you)

Doctor Sam said:

friend_16 said:

Doctor Sam said:

As i said in other topics, Log buss behas karne main khushi mehsoos kartay hain... isi main time guzar jata hai ..

Aik baar meri class main ye topic chirda tha by boys side k larkiyan hijaab kion nahi letien... Aray Logo Aap pehle apni line to seedhi karo ... theek hai achi baat batao zaroor. lekin istarah nahi k attack karna shuru kar do...

Islam main achi baat batanay aor buri baat se rokne ka bhi sawaab hai, lekin aap impose nahi kar saktay.

Same problem ... humain sirf behas karni hai .. baat nahi sunni na samajhni hai ...


Behna.. what do u think aap k answers ka koi theek jawab day ga... ? bohat mushkil hai, aik useless discussion start ho jaye gi...

we come here to discuss different matters not to "argue" .. if someone is asking a question it doesn't means that he/she wants to argue.. as i said before as well that its a human right to know. let people clear their minds .. and if u think they are arguying simply don't reply...

F 16 JEE... mujhe lagta hai main ne apni baat theek lafzon main nahi kahi hai ...
Main ne kabhi bhi doosron ko FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION pe kisi qism ka aietraaz karne ki jurrat nahi ki ... Kion k mere khayal main ye munasib nahi hai ..

Main ne apni post ki wazahat bazi bhai aor behna k replies main kar di hai, aap bhi dekh lijye ...

mere observation main baar baar ye e aaya hai k aisay controversial topics AT THE END aik useless behas par khatam hotay hain,

Aor bilkul aakhri baat, aap ne jis post ko quote kiya hai, wo to main ne behna ko likha tha ...

I m leaving the discussion with the hope k iska positive rslt aaye ...

the section which i have bolded .. us k liay he mujhay thora problem tha..

coz hum behas shoro nahi ker rahay idher, aur na he ye maqsad hai, bal k infact jaisa app nay ab kaha k freedom of expression ka sab ko right hai tu hum bas ye right use ker rahay hein...

i didn't mean to offend u.. app post kerna chahein zror karein per ye mat kahein k hum behas ker rahay hein..

just chill..

Aasera said:

baki logon ko bad main jawab dongi,
abhi main bas mr nice guy ko yah kahnay ai thi kay pichlay pages par mairay topic bananay kay maqsad ko parhain
and plzz... yah niyat etc wali batain dosray topic main bi discuss ho rahi hain, plz yahan yah mozo na chairhain,hope aap bura nahin manain gay.
(and yes i agree with you)

i think...(which i some times do)......u will get to-the-point replies if u ask what excatally u wanna ask instead of giving an example cuz hum sab shampoo aur sabun se hath dho ker us example ke peechay par jain gae aur topic ka jo maqsad hae wo tain tain fish ho jae ga...in other words...i think u need to re-post the topic with it's original intentions

aap sahi kah rahay hain,
hmmm dobara say same topic, no, main first post edit kar daiti hon.

Doctor Sam said:

BUT there is a point... Dekho agar aap ko koi achi baat bata raha hai, to aap ye kion socho gay k wo khud amal karta hai ya nahi..? Usko ZAROOR amal karna chahiye. Lekin agar wo nahi bhi kar raha lekin aapko kuch acha bata raha hai to kya hamain maan nahi lena chahiye ? what do u think ?

pahli bat, batanay main and tohmat laganay ya kisi kay kirdar par ya amal par ungli uthanay main bohat FARQ hota hay. Koi mujhe koi achi bat 100 martba batay, i wont mind coz us main faeda maira hi hay, BUT as i said before kay main yah zaror daikhon gi kay wo yah bat mujhe samjhanay kay liyay kah raha hay ya NICHA DIKHANAY kay liyay.

BUT agar main pahlay say janti hon kay us shaks kay amaal kaisay hain, and us ki niyat ka andaza ho to tab uski bat mujh par kam hi asar karay gi

NAHIN main koi bi bat eyes band kar kay nahin maan sakti, i have to chk kay jo bat batai gai hay wo wakai main SAHI hay ya GHALAT?.
and kaafi SAHI baton ka, aksar islam say koi taluk nahin hota,
wo bas aik izafi soch hoti hay logon ki, kay aisa kar lo to acha hay.
and agar us ACHI/SAHI bat kay karnay/na karnay say mujhe feel ho kay aisa karna/na karna mairay liyay sahi/ghalat hay to main wohi karongi jo mujhe theek lagay ga.

Doctor Sam said:

Aor behna, jese main ne bazi bhai k post k reply main likha hai, main ne forum pe aor real life dono main aisay topics par ye e dekha hai k aik behas s shuru ho jati hai, dono taraf k log doosri party ko blame karne lagtay hain ... aor positive reslts nahi aatay ..

i know, but try main kia harj hay?
mujhe har bat main sawal pochnay ki adat bachpan say hay,
jab tak maira zameer mutmin nahin hota kisi bat say, main koshish karti rahti hon un sawalon kay SAHI jawab kay milnay ka.
and mainay apnay tajarbay say sikha hay kay JAB TAK INSAN KHUD NA CHAHAY, NA TO BAHS BARHTI HAY NA FIGHT HOTI HAY

bas insan ko ignore karna ata ho lol



and end main main kahon gi kay yah topic kisi aur simat chala gaya hay :D
kiya main admin/mod ko bol kar close karwa don?

aasera
us w.d.g.w.h.t.d? wale topic main main ne bhi yehi kaha tha k mujhe lagta he k hamain ab why dont boys keep beards? jaisa koi topic start kerna pere ga,jab bhi hum religion ko discrimination k liay use karain yeh ghalat ho ga

Aasera said:

baki logon ko bad main jawab dongi,
abhi main bas mr nice guy ko yah kahnay ai thi kay pichlay pages par mairay topic bananay kay maqsad ko parhain
and plzz... yah niyat etc wali batain dosray topic main bi discuss ho rahi hain, plz yahan yah mozo na chairhain,hope aap bura nahin manain gay.
(and yes i agree with you)

lolz ok :p

beri jaldi maan gaya he