how to stop urself?

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friend_16

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"i knw i m a good girl but i m not an angel so i can do wrong as well.."

this thought often strikes me when an evil intention comes into my mind..

"everyone else is doing this thing wht if i do it too?"

y always the wrong way is so tempting?

how do u prevent urself from doing anything wrong?
Posted 18 Sep 2007

Barsaat says
angel,. main to bachpan say hi khud ko bura kahti hon



"everyone else is doing this thing wht if i do it too?"

yah bat kabi mairay dimagh main nahin ai,
mujhe jo karna hota hay main kar guzarti hon,beshak aur kartay hon ya nahin.



y always the wrong way is so tempting?


i think is liyay kay aaj kal dunia main ghalat rastay/kaam ko "ghalat" nahin mana jata.
isi liyay kisi bi jagah ko lay lain, 100 main say 80 log ghalat kam kartay hon gaey. (ab ghalat kaam say mairi muraad choti moti batain bi hain jin say islam nay mana farmaya hay,but we do)
and jab aap kay ird gird itnay log koi kam kar rahay hon,
and wo itna ghalat bi na lag raha ho, to tab natural si bat hay kay aap ka bi dil chahta hay wo kam try karnay ka.



and kis tarha roka jaey?

hmmm sari bat nafs ko kaboo main rakhnay ki hay,
and yah bi kay KIYA AAP WAKAI MAIN CHAHTAY HAIN KAY AAP WO KAAM NA KARAIN?
and agar jawab YES main milay to,i think aap khud par control kar saktay hain, and khud ko rok saktay hain aisa koi kaam karnay say.
Posted 18 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
100 mein say 99 banday bhe kuch ghalat ker rahay hon tu wo cheezz sahe nahi ho sakti..

is liay tu bola hai k im not an angel .. Allah ka shuker hai i have full control on myself and my nafs aswell .. laiken burayee tu tempt kerti hai pata hai ghalat hai laiken sumtimes khud ko rokna bohat mushkil hota hai..

is it just a human weakness??
Posted 18 Sep 2007

Barsaat says
100 mein say 99 banday bhe kuch ghalat ker rahay hon tu wo cheezz sahe nahi ho sakti..
maira matlab yah to nahin tha
mainay ghalat na lagnay and ghalat na samajhnay ki bat ki hay.


maira mujh par control nahin hay


balkay imaan ki kamzori kahna chahiyay



Posted 19 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
mainey bhe wohi kaha hai k logon ko ghalat nahi lagta .. laiken wo cheez hai tu ghalat..

her insaan ka nafs apnay haath mein hota hai kuch log usay chor daitay hein.. is k example kisi ny mujhay aik ghoray (horse) say di thee .. k aik ghora app k control mein rehta hai jab tak app chaho aur agar usay chir do phir us k jahaan dil chahay app ko lay jaiy..

seedha rasta hamaisha mushkil hota hai aur ghalat raasta itna khushnuma hota hai k nafs ka ghora bhe udher he jana chahta hai..
Posted 19 Sep 2007

nikama says
imaan ki kamzori keh lo ya phir in my case dheet hona keh lo,i'm not an angel and honestly hate to be one.i strongly believe in and appreciate the human capacity and capability to make errors.ALLAH has made us this way,no other creation of ALMIGHTY can stray away from the path He has ordered it to follow.so while we must try to learn from our wrong doings,at the same time we must realise that this is afterall v.v human,hum ager GUNAH nahi karain gay to TAUBA kaise karain gay,aur ALLAH ko tamaam ibadatoun main sab se ziada pasand shermindagi aur nidamat k ansoo hain.
so next time u do anything wrong,seek HIS forgiveness immediately but dont blame or hate yourself,HE loves you despite your shortcomings
Posted 19 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
thnx nikama..

it is said that once u start to travel on the wrong path u start to enjoy its luxuries and its really hard to think abt the right track when u are so happy to be on the wrong one (though ur soul isn't satisfied and u keep ignoring it)

hamari taraf masla ye hai k jab tak thokar nahi lagti hum baaaz nahi atay aur sumtimes bohat late ho jata hai..

u may heard abt these criminals that they start doing wrong deeds because of poverty and joblessness. when they get into the mafia they cannot come out of it. either they get killed by their own members or killed in encounters.. it is one of those examples in which people usually get no time to repent and seek forgiveness..

however as far as others evil deeds are concerned like jhoot, chori etc. one can always repent and ask for his forgiveness
Posted 19 Sep 2007

nikama says
yes right,lekin abhi mere zehen main aik aur baat aai he.it is a part of our faith,i think it is even mentioned in IMAAN-E-MUFASSIL that every good and bad thing/fate has been created by GOD,now burai to burai hi hoti he lekin kisi bure kaam main bhi ALLAH ki bohat si hikmatain hoti hain,ager dunia se burai khatam ho jay to yeh dunia aik dum bore aur dull place bun ker reh jay gi,bohat kuch aisa ho raha hota he jo aaj hamain ghalat lag raha hota he lekin kuch arse baad jab us k result samne atay hain to vo justify ho jata he.matlab yeh nahin k bura kaam khush ho ker kia jay lekin yeh k nafrat burai se ki jay bure logon se nahin
Posted 19 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
is k koi example quote karein k koi burayee ka reult kuch arsay baad positive aya??

jab aik cheez he ghalat hai tu us ka result sahe kaisay asakta hai?

quite true k nafrat buraye say hai is k liay buray logon ko discourage kia jaiy ga tu he buraye khatam ho ge..

is k example aisay hai k hamaray haan sood boht he common cheez ho chuki hai jaisay loog profit ka naam bhe day ker use ker rahay hein.. profit kehnay say wo cheez sahee tu nahi ho jaiy ge , ye bas khud ko jhooti tasali dainay wali baat hai..
Posted 19 Sep 2007

nikama says
ummmm,
see, i said that in a little broader context,like IQBAL has said
pasbaan mil gay Kaabe ko sanam khane se
matlab k attack of mangols at muslim world was a real tragedy,millions of muslims died,volumes of research papers and precious books were lost,muslims lost their rule over the most parts of central asia,mangols were quite rightly called a curse,BUT after only a few decades,this curse changed into a blessing when the next generations of mangols embraced islam and they successfully thwarted the unislamic forces many a time afterwords.
matlab yeh tha k hum log itna door tak nahin dekh sakte jitna k ALMIGHTY dekh raha hota he.
ap ne QURAN main hazrat khizer aur hazrat moosa ka waqia perha ho ga,hazrat khizer jo bhi ker rahe thay,vo seemingly wrong nazer ata tha lekin he had a logic and reason to do so,jis ko hazrat moosa samajh nahin paay.
this is what i had in mind when i posted earlier in this thread,but still its my personal opinion which may be wrong
Posted 19 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
both of ur examples are true and have some weight in them..

yes we have a very limited vision, we cannot see wht the final result wud be of the action which may seem to be wrong at the moment..

concludingly i got ur point, its really human to commit wrong deeds but as soon as u realise u must seek for forgiveness.. because the doors of forgiveness are always open for us..
Posted 19 Sep 2007

nikama says
right,thats like a good pupil
Posted 19 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
yea thnx.. meri teachers bhe aisa he kehti hein meray baray mein..
Posted 20 Sep 2007

nikama says
Posted 20 Sep 2007

kese roqa jaye?
Posted 27 Sep 2007

Lashakir says
KOI BHE LARKI YAA KOI BHE LARKA BURA NAHI HOTA...
BURI SOCITY UNHAIN ISS ANDAY KOAIN MAIN DHAKAIL DETI HAI.... PHIR WO ISSI TALAB KI MACHLI BAN JATAY HAIN...
KHOOD KO ISS RASTAY SAY BACH K CHALNA ZARORI HAI...
Posted 27 Sep 2007

Amira says
Posted 27 Sep 2007

sirf smilay post karnay say guraiz karain
ye serious corner hai
topic say realted likhnay kay liye kuchh hai tou post karain.
Posted 28 Sep 2007

nikama says
she wont understand a word
Posted 28 Sep 2007

friend_16 says
Amira said:



this is a serious corner. AVOID sending emoticons. if u dont have anything to say regarding the topic, avoid posting.

thnk u!

i hope u got the point!
Posted 28 Sep 2007

nikama said:

she wont understand a word


jo samajhtay hain kam az kam wohi amal kar lain tou bohat achha ho ga ji
Posted 28 Sep 2007

May Be says
yeh soch kar burai karna keh sab bhi to kar rahay hain is a wrong thought. wrong deed over another wrong deed knowingly is not good.

its right keh farishta koi bhi nahi. is ko aisay bhee socha ja sakta hai keh falan bhe to aisay nahi kar raha / rahi baqion kay dekha dekhi, then why shud i.

i personally use this way.

baqi aur members ki batain apni jagah. but not related to the point of discussion.
Posted 02 Oct 2007

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