a Question froma sister

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sun_shine

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what if you want to love someone so much but they dont feel the same way what do you do? do you leave the realationship? because i love someoene so much more than i love anyone and he does not love me back according to ISLAm what do i do to cure my broken heart?

Posted 06 Feb 2008

~Nilam PaRi~ says

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well time is da best healer.....if da guy's not interested in u da best thng is 2 back out cos if u go on u'll hurt urself even more n da result wil b da same...so sincere advise 4rm me is back out u'll b fine in a lil wile....

best of luck

Posted 06 Feb 2008

- Wisal - says

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the answer is obvious, he does NOT love you..n there is nothing else you can do about it, i believe people do have the power to control their emotions, just forget about him and move on..

Posted 06 Feb 2008

Shahrukh Khan says

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relationship is based between 2 ppl...if you love him and he doesnt then there will be no relationship..or give him some time if nothing happens after while then forget him

Posted 07 Feb 2008

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sun_shine said:
...according to ISLAm what do i do to cure my broken heart?

Quran says, "Indeed the rememberence of Allah is the source of peace for heart/mind."

Love Allah and His messenger more than anything, even more than yourself. When you seek to please Him, He will not leave you unhappy.

Posted 07 Feb 2008

sun_shine says

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inshAllah
i think as you have said earlier about ur life partner,i think may be he has some problem.
you should ask him.then you will decide what to do next.

Posted 07 Feb 2008

Ashii says

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dont ever love a person who doesnt understand ur feelings and who doesnt respect you

besides you cant force someone to love ya

Posted 07 Feb 2008

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yaktarfa mohabbat say kuch nahin milta

aisay banday kay baray main sochna bi chorh daina chahiyay,
thorha time lagta hay, but shidat main kami a hi jati hay.

zakham koi sa bi ho, jald ya dair say, ALLAH usay bhar hi daitay hain.

aik misaal dungi kay, kisi maa ka beta foat ho jaey to waqt kay sath ALLAH usay bi sabar ata farma daita hay,
aur wahan yaktarfa mohabbat bi nahin hoti,
aur khoon ka rishta bi hota hay,
to phir aap ka to masla hi dosra hay.

Posted 08 Feb 2008

dosselpoh says

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tell him dat u luv him n let him free.... if he comes back.. he is urz.. if not.. he never was.. (copy paste):)

leave him if doesn't luv u.. if its ur first luv..its goin to be hard.. agar not first luv.. den choroo yaar n move on...

sun_shine said:
what if you want to love someone so much but they dont feel the same way what do you do? do you leave the realationship? because i love someoene so much more than i love anyone and he does not love me back according to ISLAm what do i do to cure my broken heart?

Posted 08 Feb 2008

olldman says

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Simple and quick solution to her predicament? Theres none. Love? If its love than why stop. Love is love why try and change that. Don’t change it, cherish the feeling and relish it, enjoy it, and put your trust in the healing power of time. Your feelings may never diminish, but you will have moved on. Some time, some things cannot be changed for better. Limited choice here.

Posted 09 Feb 2008

Star_eyes says

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Sun_shine - Love cannot be one sided. It never works if you are only the one putting in all the efforts and he is there just to use you.
Remember Allah, offer namaz and do lots of zikar. If possible try to read Quran with its meaning and Insha'Allah HE will help you overcome your problems.
And just trust Allah SWT, may be he is not the guy for you. Insha'Allah you will get someone lot better than him.

Posted 09 Feb 2008

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dear sister according to me. Allah SWT matchs you the right one whoever in your destiny / kismat. Do Believe on Allah SWT, He loves you more then 70 Mothers... and your love to HIM and His Prophet Muhammad PBUH must be more then anyone else in the world.

whenever you face it hard to cure the pain you are feeling that time, Just think There's Allah SWT Has decided a perfect match for you and you'll meet him sooner or laters.

Believe on God and think positive

P.S: life is too short and if someone cheat you he/she'll deal with the consequences.

Posted 09 Feb 2008

sun_shine says

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Thanks all of you for giving your views and solution to the problem .
Allah swt Bless you All

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