Pakistani Rishteydaar

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MAA

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Ok I wanna know why most ppl in pakistan ask for sooooooooooo much money? My Hubby's parents and sisters ask him for money constantly. (my hubbys from pakistan), I dont mind if he sends them kharcha but we are saving for a house and they ask for mobile phones, gold jewellery and wax machines!!!!!!!! why do some pakistani ppl have no decency? They tell my hubby dat dey got money problems and now they jus bought a car? My dads family from pak is d same! I dont tink all pakistani ppl are d same so plz dont take offence if ur from pakistan. I just want to know why dis appenz. Does anyone else relate to dis problem? Most of my friends and relatives who have married a man from pakistan suffer from same problem. plzz plzz reply with a cool mind. I mean no offence to anyone.
Posted 09 Mar 2008

kiran says
MAA mujhey abhi pata chala ke tumhare gher nana mehman ane wala I am
really happy but please rishte daron ki waja se koi tention mat laina in per
koi asar nahin bas appne husband ko samjhane ki koshish karo, allah aise
rishte daron ko samjhay her jaga yehi haal hai ladkiaan pakistan shaadi ker
ke phans jatin hain It is really big prob koi samghta nahin per is ki waja se
boohat se gher tootte hain allah reham kare.
Posted 13 Mar 2008

sweetie said:

oi im also aunty of jb. not a child
see my avatar title.. agony aunty



Oh damn dee damn damn damn!! :|
You're an aunty too? :O

Aap koh aab mey kiya kaho? :'(
Posted 13 Mar 2008

sweetie says
lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
hahahahha

ermm yeh kaho k .........

two aunties = sistas

Posted 14 Mar 2008

sweetie says
our probs r quite similar maa
Posted 14 Mar 2008

sweetie said:

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
hahahahha

ermm yeh kaho k .........

two aunties = sistas



OK jee, Auntie Behena!!

Lol, kidding!!
Posted 14 Mar 2008

sweetie said:

our probs r quite similar maa



Arrey!!

Allah Tallah aap dono koh haar buri nazaar sai bachay.

Ameen.
Posted 14 Mar 2008

sweetie says
MISS SCORPIO said:

sweetie said:

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
hahahahha

ermm yeh kaho k .........

two aunties = sistas



OK jee, Auntie Behena!!

Lol, kidding!!



lolz no probs aunty wali behna
Posted 14 Mar 2008

Lol.
Posted 15 Mar 2008

MAA says
Thanx miss scorpio, it not too harsh its just so right.

hey kiran check ur pm.
Posted 16 Mar 2008

~CHANDNI~ says
sweetie said:

oi im also aunty of jb. not a child
see my avatar title.. agony aunty





hello ma   shweeety   anti
Posted 16 Mar 2008

Lol auntie, I just remembered something, you used to call me 'stingy puttar' back in the day, do you still remember that?

Lolz.
Posted 21 Mar 2008

sweetie says
~CHANDNI~ said:

sweetie said:

oi im also aunty of jb. not a child
see my avatar title.. agony aunty





hello ma   shweeety   anti


hello ma chandni sis
Posted 25 Mar 2008

sweetie says
MISS SCORPIO said:

Lol auntie, I just remembered something, you used to call me 'stingy puttar' back in the day, do you still remember that?

Lolz.




hain did i? aahhhh i think ive lost my thinking machine again

Posted 25 Mar 2008

sweetie said:

MISS SCORPIO said:

Lol auntie, I just remembered something, you used to call me 'stingy puttar' back in the day, do you still remember that?

Lolz.




hain did i? aahhhh i think ive lost my thinking machine again



Lol, not you silly qadoo!!
I was on about MAA!
Posted 26 Mar 2008

This seems like a general problem for all pakis living in the west or ME. There are a ot of background to it. This can be argued in many different ways depending on how you look at it.

Thankfully, my parents and siblings in pak never demanded any support from me even when they needed it.
Posted 26 Mar 2008

I am not surprised that this discussion is mostly between girls and some of the stories are really horrifying. I sure feel sorry especially for recently married and to be moms for having situations like that.

I think we need to look at the flip side as well.
Posted 26 Mar 2008

There's always two sides to every story, I just don't agree to those who act like they have 'gold cards' for relatives, when they themselves are living comfortably.

It's kinda pathetic really, but a person has to question the motives of those who travel from the west to Asian countries & act like their kings living it up. I know afew people here that are living off the state & when they go back home they act like their the desi version's of rap stars.

Unfortunately people's idiocy & ignorance will never cease when it comes to greed.
Posted 26 Mar 2008

I agree with you. I have seen all kinds of bums.
Yes there are greedy relatives and those who think they hit a gold pot if a relative of their's goes out of pak.

But there are also those who value their sons as their investment, especially the oldest one. In many cases I know, parents pooled all their assets to send their children to US for ed and for him to earn for the rest of the fam. His siblings don't get the same opportunity to go overseas and lead a better life. This son who went overseas is indebted for life for this sacrifice that his parents and siblings made. Then there is this moral responsibilty of supporting less fortunate relatives. There are multiple presures on guys to help his family. Family in Pak is under pressure from other relatives and friends taunting for how their son cares less about them....In this mess there are those opportunists and greedy relatives who are unhappy only because they just don't have a carte blanche.
Posted 26 Mar 2008

"Give the son of Adam a mountain of gold, he'll then ask for another"

Greed at it's worst.
Posted 27 Mar 2008

Aunite jee, how's your situation now with your in-laws?

Any difference or still the same headache?
Posted 04 Apr 2008

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