well,my father is six feet down in earth and mother doesnt use the net.so meri khidmaat hazir hain.nikama said:
From Nikama's Viewpoint
terbiat has always been more important than education for education specially the former one makes you a good expert in the field you study,but it doesnt make you a good human being.this is where your upbringing makes the difference.
as far as the question of achi terbiat is concerned,well good and bad are relative terms,what is good for you might not be so for me and vice versa, but even if there are some common grounds they vary from society to society and family to family.
so first explain what is a good terbiat according to you
nikama said:aameen
and yes a good upbringing makes a good human being.the one who cares for others the one who is honest blah blah blah.
and it is so much important that the parents try to inculcate these good qualities into their child's mind right from the start.since it is said that human concious is 80% completed at the age of 6, and if a child misses out on some of these good qulaitites by this age it will be very unlikely or difficult that he will attain them out of his own effort in later life.
whether we the present generation are capable of delivering such good upbringing that we received from our parents to our next generation is very difficult to answer. as even quite a few of us also didnt receive the required level of attention and care from their parents because we were bron in an era when the social,political,moral and religious values were and still are fast changing.
besides now, the parents alone cannot bring up their child,the neighbourhood,the school,the media and the whole society teaches,trains and treats a child,and given our society then ..........bas Allah hi reham kare.
waise i am of the view k ager parents khud theek houn to 60% chances hotay hain k un ki aulad bhi theek ho gi.
Wallah Aalam
Rehan M Din said:
parents kay khali theek hona kaafi nahi hota...
thori si sakhti aur thora sa pyar balance kar kay chalana parta hai...
sab sai important cheez yeh hai keh bachon ko kisi ghalti per parents ki support milay to woh chez ahista ahista us ki life ka hisa banti jati hai... aur isi sai bigar aata hai...
Rapunzel said:Walaikum Asslam
fine Alhamdulillah h ru??
Hmm mera khayal hai tarbiyat ziada matter karti hai ,taleem bibohat imp hai lekin aik baat mashoor hai parhe likhe jahil hain Aj kal hamare moashre mein,Jahan tak baat ati hai Parents ki tu Allah ka karam hai Allah unhein ajar de ameen lekin mera nhi khiyal hum anay wali nasal ko ye sab de payain gay
phr bi umeed karte hain k hum Apni nasal ko sanwar sakain ameen
sun_shine said:
Rehan M Din said:
parents kay khali theek hona kaafi nahi hota...
thori si sakhti aur thora sa pyar balance kar kay chalana parta hai...
sab sai important cheez yeh hai keh bachon ko kisi ghalti per parents ki support milay to woh chez ahista ahista us ki life ka hisa banti jati hai... aur isi sai bigar aata hai...
Assalam O Alaikum
*yaa Right
pyaar,mohabbat aur strickness main balance hona chahiye
Per yeh balance kis tarah maintain kiya ja sakta hain?
