What happiness means.....................

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QUEEN VICTORIA

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A great note for all to read it will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking…



Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.



One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window.



The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.



The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.



Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.



The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.



The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.



As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.



One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed.



One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.



As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.



Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.



The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.



She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."





Epilogue:



"There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations"



"Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled"



"If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy"



"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the present."



“The beauty of Life does not depend on how happy u r, but on.. how happy others can be bcoz of u...”





No one is born happy, but all of us are born with the ability to create happiness. So today make others happy, flash ur sweetest smile!!

Posted 15 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
o no. 37 sec is jus too long... i cant
Posted 16 Dec 2003

~Fragi~ says
MrDeath said:

o no. 37 sec is jus too long... i cant



kiya na

kahan jana hai tumney fir


waise nice Queeni ji
Posted 16 Dec 2003

madmax says
nice
Posted 16 Dec 2003

koi mujhe bhi parh k bata de..meri eyes mei dard hoying..
Posted 17 Dec 2003

happiness....yeah...thats true...I'm happy if I can make other people smile.
Posted 17 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
london ki hoor said:

koi mujhe bhi parh k bata de..meri eyes mei dard hoying..



dard to hoga hi.. iteney mahino se dekh raha hoon.. idhar udhar aakh matkati rehti ho... dard nahin hoga to kya hoga??

Posted 17 Dec 2003

london_ki_hoor said:

koi mujhe bhi parh k bata de..meri eyes mei dard hoying..



haan to thori ghustakhiyan kia karo na in say
Posted 17 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
wow queen now u got some av n sign of my choice.. nice pics...
Posted 17 Dec 2003

thanx Nishant
Posted 19 Dec 2003

new_beau says
Mera Mind Change nahin hua...
Posted 19 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
no prob queen.
Posted 20 Dec 2003

MrDeath said:

london ki hoor said:

koi mujhe bhi parh k bata de..meri eyes mei dard hoying..



dard to hoga hi.. iteney mahino se dekh raha hoon.. idhar udhar aakh matkati rehti ho... dard nahin hoga to kya hoga??




ab kia karun nazar to muje hi rakhni parti hae na..

n Queen woh gustaki kabi kabi ghalati se mistake hojata hae..
Posted 21 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
acha.. but dont cry... u know.. aaap to mujhse badi hain.. fir bhi roti hain???
Posted 21 Dec 2003


BaRi .. Mein.......Kia.....yeh Nahin Ho Sakta...Kisi ne tume Ghalat Info di hae..
Posted 22 Dec 2003

yeh death India say Switzerland??????????????
Posted 23 Dec 2003

MrDeath says
no.. newzland se swiss..

aur lkh r u less dan 20
Posted 23 Dec 2003

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