Shaista there is no way other than this because parents out of pakistan just worry to marry daughter regardless what she wants and this creats problems in futute. people in pakistan are also complex about their future when marring abroad and hardly settle and when this girl is very young and not mature to understand the meaning of life. I faced this and have lot of examples. but may be no one can undersatand my problem. i come online at 3pm to 5pm (pakistan time). however i can be contacted at gmail with this id also.

yaad just refuse because i done same like u on pressure of parents and today waiting my partener and daughter. there was sufficient age difference between us. partener was 10 years less than me. partener was 18 and i was 28 and faced problems he problems. even toaday after 81 days i dont know what is name of my daughter. becuase partner is in some other country and me so where else. i dont know where are u but must contact legal bodies and call their help.