easy to difficult

Easy is to get a place is someone's address book.
Difficult is to get a place in someone's heart.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others
Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes

Easy is to talk without thinking
Difficult is to refrain the tongue

Easy is to hurt someone who loves us.
Difficult is to heal the wound...

Easy is to forgive others
Difficult is to ask for forgiveness

Easy is to set rules.
Difficult is to follow them...

Easy is to dream every night.
Difficult is to fight for a dream...

Easy is to show victory.
Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity...

Easy is to admire a full moon.
Difficult to see the other side...

Easy is to stumble with a stone.
Difficult is to get up...

Easy is to enjoy life every day.
Difficult to give its real value...

Easy is to promise something to someone.
Difficult is to fulfill that promise...

Easy is to say we love.
Difficult is to show it every day...

Easy is to criticize others.
Difficult is to improve oneself...

Easy is to make mistakes.
Difficult is to learn from them...

Easy is to weep for a lost love.
Difficult is to take care of it so not to lose it.

Easy is to think about improving.
Difficult is to stop thinking it and put it into action...

Easy is to think bad of others
Difficult is to give them the benefit of the doubt...

Easy is to receive
Difficult is to give

Easy to read this
Difficult to follow

Easy is keep the friendship with words
Difficult is to keep it with meanings.

Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?, or
Saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.


Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart...if you don't, you might break theirs.


Have u ever decided not 2 become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?


Your heart decides whom it likes and whom it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. It does it on its own....when you least suspect it, or even when you don't want it to.


Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but that other person was too afraid to let you? Too many of us stay walled up because we are too afraid to care too much... for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.


Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?


We tell lies when we are afraid. .. afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.


Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have had.


What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?


What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?


What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt? (even if it is that you don't care anymore)


What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?


What would you do if you never got the chance to say I am friends with all of my family and they know I love them?

I look up to you,
Respect you, and
Truly cherish you.

Send this to all your friends,
No matter how often you talk,
Or how close you are,

Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them,
And tell new friends you never will.
Remember, everyone needs a friend,
Someday you might feel like you have
NO FRIENDS at all,
Just remember this
And take comfort in knowing
Somebody out there cares about you
And .... always will..

[ The Fastest, slowest, selfish, satisfying words of all time. ]

T H E   W O R D
*     *    &nbs p;*
The Most Selfish One-Letter Word
"I"
Avoid It
(Surah Al Kahf 18:34)

The Most Satisfying Two-Letter Word
"WE"
Use It
Surah Al An'am 6:71-72

The Most Poisonous Three-Letter Word
"EGO"
Kill It
Surah Al Qasas 28:78

The Most Used Four-Letter Word
"LOVE"
Value It
(Surah Al Rum 30:21)

The Most Pleasing Five Letter Word
"SMILE"
Keep It
(Surah Al Najm 53:43)




The Fastest Spreading Six-Letter Word
"RUMOUR"
Ignore It

(Surah Al Hujurat 49:12)

The Hardest Working Seven Letter Word
"SUCCESS"
Achieve It
(Surah Al Nur 24:37-38)

The Most Enviable Eight-Letter Word
"JEALOUSY"
Distance It
(Surah Yusuf 12:8-9)

The Most Powerful Nine-Letter Word
"KNOWLEDGE"
Acquire It
(of Allah & the Holy Qu'ran) Surah Ya Sin 36:2 Surah Yusuf 12:2


The Most Essential Ten-Letter Word
"CONFIDENCE"
Trust It
(Trust in Allah's Guidance)
Surah Yunus 10: 9

[ Three words can make your relationship strong ]


1.Let me help
Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they
do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out.

2. I understand you.
People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts
and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways -
that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your
relationship. And this can apply to any relationship.


3. I respect you
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another
person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults
you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to
all interpersonal relationships.

4. I miss you.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and
sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important
you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in
the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."


5. Maybe you're right.
This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication
when you say "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting, "maybe I'm
wrong". Let's face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you
normally do is solidify the other person's point of view. They, or you, will
not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging
the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door
to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express
your view in a way that is understandable to the other person.


6. Please forgive me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit
their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults,
foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has
been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today
than he was yesterday.


7. I thank you.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the
companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily
courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many
expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends
is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.


8. Count on me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential
ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true
friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can
count on me."


9. I'll be there
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a
sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there."
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are
truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We
are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and
spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.


10. Go for it
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to
your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far
out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique
to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their
dreams. Tell them to "go for it."

11. I love you
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone
that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The
need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your
children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words:
"I love you." Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is
gone.

Know the difference between a friend and best friend ]

Friend: calls your parents by mr. and mrs.
Best friend: calls your parents mom and dad.

Friend: has never seen you cry.
Best friend: has always had the best shoulder to cry on.

Friend: never asks for anything to eat or drink.
Best friend: opens the fridge and makes herself at home.

Friend:   asks you to write down your number.
Best friend: they ask you for their number
(cuz they can't remember it).

Friend: borrows your stuff for a few days then gives it back.
Best friend: has a closet full of your stuff.

Friend: only knows a few things about you.
Best friend: could write a biography on your life story.

Friend: will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
Best friend: will always go with you.


Friend: would delete this letter.
Best friend: will send this back to you and all of their online buddies.

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WHY WORRY ???

[ Why should you worry at all ? ]


There are only two things to worry about:
Either you are well or you are sick.

If you are well, then there is nothing to worry about;
But if you are sick, there are two things to worry about:
Either you will get well, or you will die.

If you get well, there is nothing to worry about;
If you die, there are only two things to worry about:
Either you will go to Heaven or Hell.

If you go to Heaven, there is nothing to worry about;
But if you go to Hell, you'll be
so busy shaking hands with friends.
You won't have time to worry!!!

[Life teaches you alot. Here are few that it taught me.]



I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.


I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.

I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.

I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up

I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance.Same goes for true love.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I've learned that your family won't always be there for you.It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.

Families aren't biological.

I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.

ha woory wala excellent ha lakin
when u go to heell u have two worry
will u come back in heaven after bear ur punish or reamin in hell

Various Thoughts On Love


It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations.


It is with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks about it, but few have seen it.


Love begins with a smile, and ends with a teardrop.


Success is nothing, without someone you love to share it with.


Love cures people, both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.


Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.


Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your hearth or burn down your house, you can never tell.


Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing; a confusion of the real with the ideal never goes unpunished.


Age does not protect you from love but love to some extent protects you from age.


Beware you be not swallowed up in books! An ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge.


Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."


Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.


A man in love is incomplete until he is married. Then he's finished.


In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.


Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.


I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry. That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.


There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations.


To keep your marriage brimming, with love in the wedding cup, whenever you're wrong, admit it; whenever you're right, shut up.


You can't buy love, but you can pay heavily for it.


Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage.


Men always want to be a woman's first love, women like to be a man's last romance.


Never frown because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile.


No woman marries for money; they are all clever enough, before marrying a millionaire, to fall in love with him first.


Love looks through a telescope; envy, through a microscope.


No matter how lovesick a woman is, she shouldn't take the first pill that comes along.

goog work acha
ab sana sana yr love par zara kam likha karou know ka luv insan ko bakar kr datta ha

lo love is life but
Ajkal ka tu Allah muaf karey
hum tu real ntural and pakeeza love ki baat kerteyhain
jo ke insaan ki Allah tala ke sath
Allah tala ki apney bandey ke sath
parents ki apne bacchon ke sath

Jab bagh main kalyaan khiltee hain.
Jab mast hawaen chaltee hain.
Jab rim jhim barish hoti hai.
Mahol nikharta jata hai.
Phir yaad mujhey wo aata hai.

Jab lehrain motee latee hain .
Qadmon ko choo kar jatee hain.
Taroon say bhara ye neela gagan.
Badal se ghir ghir jata hai.
Phir yaad mujhey wo aata hai.

Jab ghum ka ghor andhera ho.
Or mun bilkul hi akela ho.
jab ashk lari ban jatay hain.
aur dil zakhmi ho jata hai.
Phir yad mujhay woh aata hai.

jab lab par hansi ki lay phootay.
aur koi khushi daman bhar day.
jab mehfil main sab apnay hoon.
dil shukar say phir bhar jata hai.
Phir yad mujhay woh aata hai.

Phir yad mujhay jo aata hai.
kia yad tumhain bhi aata hai.
jo "Maalik"   hai "Andataa"   hai.
jo ujyarea phailata hai.
Phir yad mujhay woh aata hai.

... coool work sana.. yaar bohaaat dair laag gaiy sab kuch parhnay main..