U are what u wear...

From a RESPECTBLE girl's point of view

No normal get up, just a simple shalwar kameez, thats all it was, i ended up offending 4 aunties, quite frankly they deserve it.

as i said i was going to meet my bestfriend and needed something to wear, my usall etire is a pair of jeans brown boots and a top usally designer, i don't buy for the sake of a label or because it is in Fashion.....I buy something because i like it. As a result many Asian women where i live snigger and make krass remarks about me, but i know for a fact it's to do with the fact that i could not care less about what they think only what my family and how ALLAH will judge me in the here after....

so where was i ah yes. A shalwar kemeez, besides the fact women here can't sew to save their lives and the fact they r uneducated lahories/karachi ppl with nothing better to do then gossip about other ppl. i sat their not only to be mesured up by a auntie ji and suffer her krass remarks but also i was asked something witch i tottaly dissagree with, and i fliped i shouted and stormed out the house, so ever since then i have been dubed as being "A RUDE GIRL WITCH NO DECENT MAN WILL MARRY.."

i am rasing the topic of why r women in shalwar kameez seen as more respectble then a girl in jeans and a top?

if anyone agrees with this uneducated hypothsis i swear i will

Posted on 12/5/2004 10:38:21 PM

BiKeR

it's unfortunate but our desi community's mind is set:

gals in shalwar kameez r more "shareef" then gals in pant/shirt

Posted on 12/9/2004 4:18:02 AM

jag

yeh actually! not but everyone has the same views... do some respect, but that is very rare case. so who gives a **** hahahaha sorry

be what you are! that's the best of it.

Posted on 12/9/2004 7:38:23 AM

javad

Posted on 12/9/2004 3:00:05 PM

haan yaar

aray app ko khud choose kerna chaiya

Posted on 12/9/2004 3:11:37 PM

BiKeR

Posted on 12/10/2004 5:34:15 AM

javad

waah ji kia baaat ki hai

Posted on 12/10/2004 8:30:02 AM

Teen Tracker

lekin "shareef" ki sahee defination kia hay. kia pants jeans pahne walee larkee namaz nahin parsaktee. I can count several shalwar kameez waering girls who never offer prayer.Nobility is in heart not what you wear but decency is something else which reflects through dressing

Posted on 12/10/2004 11:24:01 AM

BiKeR

Posted on 12/11/2004 4:33:47 AM

javad

yar abb issbary main kiaaa bolon

Posted on 12/11/2004 12:23:07 PM

BiKeR

Posted on 12/12/2004 3:01:49 AM

dost19

hamare society ki "aurtoon" ki adaat hai ke larkioon ke kaproon se un ko judge karien....WHEN R THEY GOING TO GROW UP
people think that girls look much better in their native clothes...
but if u r living in a foreign country u have to fit in their way of living or else u cant settle ... but that doesnt mean that u should forget about ur own culture

Posted on 12/12/2004 5:04:40 AM

BiKeR

Posted on 12/12/2004 5:13:43 AM

javad

hmm but i muslim girl should show herself a muslim

Posted on 12/13/2004 8:19:53 AM

Teen Tracker

exactly javad

Posted on 12/14/2004 10:17:10 AM

Asian

well i have learnt my lesson from now on i buy my shalwar kameez's from ebay, lolz it's true i get my brother to bid for me lolz, na my sis just come back from the states, my cousin bought me beautful shalwar kameez's , they r simple and elegant.

but still adim sai baat to hai na, i hate backward minded ppl, my cousin is tottaly cool, and she was born and raised in pk, now living in the states, even she wears jeans and stuff, i guess education plays a bigger part of life then just a wage or standard of living,

Posted on 12/14/2004 5:55:39 PM