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What constitutes happiness

how do you gauge whether you are happy or not? please add to the list -

You are satisfied with whatever you have
You don't get upset for not succeeding.
you are not jealous of what others have.
You feel happy when someone else gets what you wanted most.
You worry little about what you want next.
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord
You thank more than you complain.
You don't say, why it happens to me.
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
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Posted on 2/16/2005 3:37:07 AM



kanfuuuze

Posted on 2/16/2005 3:44:15 PM

You are content with what you have but strive to become the best person you can be!

Posted on 2/16/2005 4:28:31 PM

Smooth_daddy:
how do you gauge whether you are happy or not? please add to the list -

You are satisfied with whatever you have
You don't get upset for not succeeding.
you are not jealous of what others have.
You feel happy when someone else gets what you wanted most.
You worry little about what you want next.
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord
You thank more than you complain.
You don't say, why it happens to me.
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
....
Are u talking abt the condition of anestheisia?

Posted on 2/17/2005 2:41:08 PM

You are satisfied with whatever you have
Im not satisfied whatever im
You don't get upset for not succeeding.
I do upset if i not succeed
you are not jealous of what others have.
I do jealous but very little

You worry little about what you want next.
I do
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord
not all the time
You thank more than you complain.
I complain more then thanks
You don't say, why it happens to me.
i do say
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
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i   don't say that...i think i can't say that..i don't have that power


Posted on 2/17/2005 3:55:16 PM


Posted on 2/21/2005 12:47:54 AM

SD yarr,,
i didnt get ur topic

Posted on 2/21/2005 4:20:17 PM

Sorry, I didn't phrase it right.
I think happiness stems from:

When
You are satisfied with whatever you have - happy for what you have which you could possibly not have.
You don't get upset for not succeeding - accept the outcome of efforts which may not be to my expectations - in other words, not unhappy for unexpected results.
you are not jealous of what others have - Allah provided his servant with a bounty, why should I be unhappy about it. He's the Lord and He does what pleases Him.
You feel happy when someone else gets what you wanted most - Accept others success with big heart and being happy in the happiness of others more than being unhappy with own failure.
You worry little about what you want next - I may not live to see tomorrow. So get the best of today and what i have now.
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord - Keeps you motivated to do good and stay away from trouble. If He's happy, we'll prosper, if he's not, sorrows see no end.
You thank more than you complain - Count blessings and thankful for it. Can't do that becuz they are tooo many. Who has time to complain.
You don't say, why it happens to me - We don't question Lord, whatever happens it's either his blessing, test, or proof either in favor or against ourselves.
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
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Please add to the list what ever i have overlooked, or comment about it.

Posted on 2/24/2005 3:46:00 AM

Jia_ka_chand:
You are content with what you have but strive to become the best person you can be!

You only earned 100 bucks today. its your choice, be happy with it or be bitter about it all night long but you can't change the fact either way.
Next day you can do something different to make 200.

I hope it makes sense

Posted on 2/24/2005 3:52:37 AM

geetanjali:
Are u talking abt the condition of anestheisia?


It sounds that unreal! How do you than seek happiness that is real and lasting.

Posted on 2/24/2005 3:54:30 AM

faradiya:
You are satisfied with whatever you have
Im not satisfied whatever im
You don't get upset for not succeeding.
I do upset if i not succeed
you are not jealous of what others have.
I do jealous but very little

You worry little about what you want next.
I do
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord
not all the time
You thank more than you complain.
I complain more then thanks
You don't say, why it happens to me.
i do say
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
....
i   don't say that...i think i can't say that..i don't have that power



So how happy is life on a scale of 0 to 10.
10 being ecstatic and blissful.

Posted on 2/24/2005 3:56:17 AM

nahi yarrr,, matlab k dont know wot to reply




itna sach nahi bolte freddy
ppl ll start hating u

Posted on 2/24/2005 8:30:06 PM

Smooth_daddy:
faradiya:
You are satisfied with whatever you have
Im not satisfied whatever im
You don't get upset for not succeeding.
I do upset if i not succeed
you are not jealous of what others have.
I do jealous but very little

You worry little about what you want next.
I do
Your worries are how would you fare in front of the Creator, The Lord
not all the time
You thank more than you complain.
I complain more then thanks
You don't say, why it happens to me.
i do say
When you loose someone or something blessed - you say, to Allah we belong and to Him we shall return.
....
i   don't say that...i think i can't say that..i don't have that power



So how happy is life on a scale of 0 to 10.
10 being ecstatic and blissful.


It seems here to be ZERO "0"

Posted on 2/25/2005 11:59:13 PM

i don't care.........i just said what i feel about my self.....
you are right SD Im not happy with my life

Posted on 2/26/2005 11:03:29 PM

sorry bud
Try adjusting your attitude just a little, it might help. See the brighter side of the picture.

easier said than done; I realize it, may Allah help you.

Posted on 3/4/2005 10:28:23 PM