lil sis, Allah answers all prayers and he only grants you what's good for you. He saves rest for later when you can handle it.
There ain't any issues you can't resolve. Face 'em and do not succumb.
"and take refuge in peseverance and prayers, indeed Allah is with resolutely persistent people".
You are intelligent but satan wants you to be stupid. Don't play in its hands. Irritaion occurs when patience and perverance is lost.
Nothing can replace the remembrance of Allah. Have a one on one with Him. Talk to Him and he will listen. Remember how a woman complained to Allah and He revealed the surah (Al-Mujadallah) to the Prophet, addressing her issues. Omar RA used to listen to her stating why should I not turn my ears to her when Allah listens to her in the seventh heaven.
I know 
