Sentiments:
It is said, "larki zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat
karti hay". What does this philosophy signify actually?
Let's suppose, a girl loves someone and later on could not marry him.
Afterwards she marries some other person. So now what is the state of
her love to her husband? If, according to the said philosophy, the
previous one was her 'ek baar mohabbat' so what kind of this 'mohabbat'
is? Or this is COMPROMISE (because she had already loved someone
earlier i.e. 'zindagi mein ek baar mohabbat').
So what the husband is receiving from her wife:
. love (which he believes to be true)
. compromise love (which the wife knows what she is
giving to him)
Does this 'kahi janay wali baat' work in real sense? Or should this
'nazariah' exist to classify the standard of love of a girl?
What do you say?
its all in the head.
I was in love once. And some people told me it wasnt love. But to me in
my heart it was...and all those feelings I had never felt, and the
butterflies. Of course it was love. Especially when you feel...hurt like
youve never been hurt before you know its love. And its hard...when a
girl first falls in love she thinks shes gonna spend the rest of her life with
that person. but this isnt always the case.
And usually in our culture what happens. We all know. Girl falls in love
with one person and she marries another. So common its a typical story
not a surprise at all.
I think...
If your full of love...
you can love with all your heart again.
From each moment in life whether its falling in love and not being with
the person you love or anything else....theres a lesson to be learned. And
that lesson only helps you make yourself become a better person. And
that better person someday falls in love once again with another person.
Lifes a circle of lessons. Whether its love or anything else. We have to
make the best of it.
I believe in love. And I believe in true love. WHether I have it in my life or
not. Im truly a believer, a fantisizer, and a hopeful person. I do believe a
women can love again. The second time around She loves better. Just
like we do anything the 1st time its usually not as good as we couldve
done it. But the 2nd time or 3rd time we do it better beause we
experinced something, we learned.
I know...that every person (whether paki or not) before getting married
likes someone, has a crush on them, or is friends with that person
whatever. And they usually end up marrying someone their parents
chose or suggested for them.
According to what you said...sounds like...
its really hard when you feel like you love someone and you marry
someone else. You used the word: "Compromise," which means
agreement. So I guess thats how marriage is defined in a culture that
does not widely accept love marriages.
Very common in our culture. hardly ever hear about true love
marriages. I always hear about arranged marriages. But maybe someday
that will change.
Its something to ponder upon.
We all live our lives once.
Lets make the best of it!
kis nay likhi hainn 
