Logo
Reply

HOW OPEN MINDED ARE YOU???

i jus dont understand why people acts so different just to get wat they wnat.. they lie about so much stuff and then they do them once their purpose is filled.. and also why are peole so shy about talking about,,, their sexuality, dreams, hopes, needs, views on homosexualty, and all this TABOO taht we ignor now these days?????

i am very open minded .. not because i live a westernise country but also that i have observed manythings as i have grown..???

what do u have to say on that????
Posted on 10/7/2007 7:08:42 AM
i consider myself very open minded and have no problem in saying what i have in my mind...but u have to sometimes consider who r u talking to...cuz u could hurt someone's feelings...
Posted on 10/7/2007 7:42:30 AM
amma abba k saamnay banay gay na itnay open minded tu jootay he paray gay ..

besides u think talking on the taboo topics makes u an open- minded and a bold person?

well it also depends k who u r talking to.. (bazi's point)

well i think, when we r in frnds, we discuss all sort of things..
Posted on 10/8/2007 10:27:33 PM
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!
Posted on 10/9/2007 3:26:14 PM
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit
Posted on 10/10/2007 4:48:19 PM
nikama:
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit


i don't think she meant that...(i think...i could be wrong)

adopting an attitude to please someone is wrong, but agar koi trend chal raha hae...and nothing wrong with it...to us ko apna ne mae kiya haraj hae? haan...if u feel that it is clashing with your own culture...then situation must be handled accordingly...

i mean...c'mon...nothig is prefect...hamaray culture mae bhi kuch buraiyaan hian...aur dosray cultures mae bhi kuch achi cheezain hain...why not pick and choose and be a better person...
Posted on 10/11/2007 5:13:55 AM
idher to mind he nahi hai
Posted on 10/11/2007 7:52:59 AM
oodbalow:
idher to mind he nahi hai

ro mat yaar tum akaile nahi ho
Posted on 10/11/2007 7:45:46 PM
Bazigaar:

i don't think she meant that...(i think...i could be wrong)

adopting an attitude to please someone is wrong, but agar koi trend chal raha hae...and nothing wrong with it...to us ko apna ne mae kiya haraj hae? haan...if u feel that it is clashing with your own culture...then situation must be handled accordingly...

i mean...c'mon...nothig is prefect...hamaray culture mae bhi kuch buraiyaan hian...aur dosray cultures mae bhi kuch achi cheezain hain...why not pick and choose and be a better person...

haan,matlab jahan achi cheez dekho us ko apna lo,is main to koi herj nahi,lekin blindly follow kerna doosron ko just because her koi ker raha he yeh i think ghalat he.
Posted on 10/11/2007 7:52:22 PM
yup..something like that
Posted on 10/14/2007 4:01:58 AM
but here in our society openminded hone ko log thora wrong sense main lete hain,like enlightened moderation
Posted on 10/14/2007 4:20:39 PM
here in our society se u mean pakistan? if yes, then u r right...pak mae thora tight tight sa mahool hae
Posted on 10/14/2007 9:39:25 PM
ab aik aadmi chaddi pehan kar us par tie laga kar ja raha ho aur kahey k latest fashion aaya hai america say

kisi ko peechey say dekho to baal aesey k mujh jesa masoom oodh samjehy k larki hai aur samney say dekho to pata chalta hai k oohh hoo yeh to apna desi angriaz hai

Posted on 10/15/2007 9:06:13 AM
nikama:
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit


Nikama, what ever i said, u made it all blot

LOL!!.. i did NOT say that u can adopt today's life, no matter if you go againt your religios rules, i mean did u read what i exactly intended to say????.. :S
life is yours afterall!.. and u can live ur life how u want to.. hae na?.. to mae jaise life jee rahi hon mene wohi bataya, is me itna issue banane ki kia zaroorat???.. and NO NO NO.. the way im living is certainly NOT againt my religious rules!.. i know my limits!.. and u asked for peope's opninion!.. so i wrote down my opinion,, if u feel its all againt muslim's rules.. then its your thinking!..
Posted on 10/15/2007 2:58:36 PM
Bazigaar:
nikama:
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit


i don't think she meant that...(i think...i could be wrong)

adopting an attitude to please someone is wrong, but agar koi trend chal raha hae...and nothing wrong with it...to us ko apna ne mae kiya haraj hae? haan...if u feel that it is clashing with your own culture...then situation must be handled accordingly...

i mean...c'mon...nothig is prefect...hamaray culture mae bhi kuch buraiyaan hian...aur dosray cultures mae bhi kuch achi cheezain hain...why not pick and choose and be a better person...


you don have to justify me..

and yes, if u really go back and read my post again, u might certainly understand this time!.. yea?
Posted on 10/15/2007 3:00:54 PM
Bazigaar:
here in our society se u mean pakistan? if yes, then u r right...pak mae thora tight tight sa mahool hae


exactly!.. ager pakistan mae aisa tight mahol hae.. than why do they expect us to stick with their so-called "18th century" rules, eh?
Posted on 10/15/2007 3:02:03 PM
yeh tu bhai bazi ki meharbani hai na jitni zoor say woh sar per danda marein ga utna hi open minded i would b
Posted on 10/15/2007 6:06:41 PM
London_Girl:
Bazigaar:
nikama:
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit


i don't think she meant that...(i think...i could be wrong)

adopting an attitude to please someone is wrong, but agar koi trend chal raha hae...and nothing wrong with it...to us ko apna ne mae kiya haraj hae? haan...if u feel that it is clashing with your own culture...then situation must be handled accordingly...

i mean...c'mon...nothig is prefect...hamaray culture mae bhi kuch buraiyaan hian...aur dosray cultures mae bhi kuch achi cheezain hain...why not pick and choose and be a better person...


you don have to justify me..

and yes, if u really go back and read my post again, u might certainly understand this time!.. yea?


don't get so excited so i wasn't justifying u at all...i was just telling him what i thought u meant...which i don;t think i need u'r permission to do
Posted on 10/16/2007 6:40:51 AM
Bazigaar:
London_Girl:
Bazigaar:
nikama:
London_Girl:
I think you have to be, what we call for today's life,"open minded"!.. it is important to have your self in such stage where u can adopt the today's 'generation contemplation'.. in today's world, u can NOT live with such " narrow mind" and you will find life hard with such attitudes..

so yes, i am very much open-minded girl!.. and i know how much i can adopt todays' living style!.. and without this, we can not be gathered with today's people. we have to speak, we have to stand-out and for this u have to be open-minded person!

l-g u mean 2 say,v should adopt an attitude just to please others.i mean being open or narrow minded has something to do with your upbringing,your education,your values...u cant leave everything just to join todays generation contemplation,your life is yours afterall
how far can u go to join todays world,is there any limit


i don't think she meant that...(i think...i could be wrong)

adopting an attitude to please someone is wrong, but agar koi trend chal raha hae...and nothing wrong with it...to us ko apna ne mae kiya haraj hae? haan...if u feel that it is clashing with your own culture...then situation must be handled accordingly...

i mean...c'mon...nothig is prefect...hamaray culture mae bhi kuch buraiyaan hian...aur dosray cultures mae bhi kuch achi cheezain hain...why not pick and choose and be a better person...


you don have to justify me..

and yes, if u really go back and read my post again, u might certainly understand this time!.. yea?


don't get so excited so i wasn't justifying u at all...i was just telling him what i thought u meant...which i don;t think i need u'r permission to do


don't get me wrong!... i didnt mean to be rude with u!.. i dont want anyone to make any justification onto my reply.. i feel as if i said soemthing wrong.. but i havent , innit? ..
Posted on 10/16/2007 3:28:36 PM
okie dokie...stay happy...
Posted on 10/17/2007 5:17:17 AM
shahrukh khan:
Bazigaar:
i consider myself very open minded and have no problem in saying what i have in my mind...but u have to sometimes consider who r u talking to...cuz u could hurt someone's feelings...


ya agree with-->but u have to sometimes consider who r u talking to


chalo shuker alhamdulillah
Posted on 10/17/2007 8:24:18 AM
Personally, I think I'm very open minded, I don't have any problems talking about these taboo topics.

To me, being open minded means you are able to listen to the other side without passing any judgment, you dont necessaliry have to agree to that side, just being able to understand it is open mindedness.

Today people don't like to discuss these things because they can't take in the other side, they think their way is the best. Its their way or the highway.
Posted on 10/21/2007 5:58:22 AM
how can I tell how open minded i am
u better ask my friends/enemies (if i have any)



welll
i accept all difference since it follows universal morality rules



i dont really care abt who am i talking to
if i feel my opinion will 'badly' hurt someone i just smile and dont say anything

btw do you know anyone who calls himself/herself NARROW MINDED
Posted on 11/10/2007 3:37:14 PM
Reply