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In our culture should a younger men marry an older women? Why or Why not?

Posted 03 Aug 2004

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well can't say about culture .. laiken islaam main tu jiaz hai ... coz hazrat muhmmad (PBUH) nay hazrat khadija say shadi ki thee jo kay un say age main baree theen..

ab culture is liay nahi kehh saktee .. coz nowadays parents don't allow there children.. esp a boy to marry a gal older than him ..

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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areyyy yar culture my foot

since it s not something wrong,, and islam mei bhi permission hai to chahe koi kuch bhi kahe

well,,, there r a lottt of ppl who says that marrying more than 1 woman is sunnah,, yep i agree
but marrying a woman who s 20 yrs older than u is sunnah too
yeh koi poora kyun nahi karta

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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is dunya main rehtay hein na .. logoon kay tanoon ko fiqr hai ... aur kia larkiyoon ki kamee hoo gaiy hai jo apnay say 20 saal baree say shadi karauy ... ye thinking hoo chukee hai logoon ki .. Alas!! .. hum kia ker saktay hein ..

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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yes hamarey family main i mean dour kii realtions main aisa ho chuka hai...
or i think koi harj nahi hai.....but u know wat
lerkiyan mostly naa...thora mature man chatee hain....tu ager lerka younger hai lerki se...tu at least he muz have a mture thinkings...
jabhi tu wo apni wife ko sambhal sakey ga....:)

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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i think ur right

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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methinks too

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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u all r right banday ko apni se bari age ki women se shadi mein koi problem nahi honi chaye cuz our religion allowed us then whats wrong rahi baat culture aur society ki tu bhai life apki apni hai society ki nahi society gaye bhaar mein.

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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righttt

Posted 04 Aug 2004

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Charizmatic what u said is true but u should also think that u have to live in the same society...

Posted 07 Aug 2004

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gal is tarhaaan tu boht si aisee batein hein .. is tarhaan tu kuch luv marriages par bhee hamaree society bohat boltee hai .. aur waisay loggon ka tu kaam he bolna hai .. agar hum khush hein ..hamaray parents khush hein .. tu phir loggon ki parwa nahi kernee chahyeee..

Posted 08 Aug 2004

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yea but i don't think that any parents would allow their sons to marry an older women... and same from the girls side... so then what do u.. when ur all alone...

Posted 12 Aug 2004

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try to convience parents .. somehow .. although its not easy .. kisi aur baray ko confidence main lay loo .. koi tu hoo ga na hee jo app ko understand kerta hoo ga .. hmm ..

Posted 12 Aug 2004

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maybe....

Posted 13 Aug 2004

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..noooo he can't ........

Posted 13 Aug 2004

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miss_cool said:
..noooo he can't ........

Who can't?

Posted 13 Aug 2004

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hmmm yeh sana u r rite too
guys r dumber than gals,, and they need more time to get mature

par khair,,, older guy doesnt mean that he s mature par khairr,,,

Posted 14 Aug 2004

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hmm
ye tu hai baaz lerkey bohut young age main bhi kafee mature hotey hain..

Posted 14 Aug 2004

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