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a hobby ... a desire ... a status symbol or a need ...???

wht is it ..??

every 2nd person here claims to be in love!!

every 3rd person here is heart broken... or involved in a one sided love ...

and every other person here .. likes someone ... has a crush on someone .. !!

Y?? y love is the most hottest topic in??

i asked few people about there view on this so called hottest topic ..

a friend of mine answered ... "yaar life is to enjoy .. aik nahi tu doosra sahee .. dosra nahi tu teesra .. shadi tu parents ki mazre say kerni hai na.."

another told me her bro's story kay his friends asked him to have a gf otherwise they will not sit with him..

even some people here are using each other .. like i'll talk with u if u will give me this .. n give me that ... n ..... so on...

wana say something............???

Posted 11 Dec 2004

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Girls mature at an earlier age than boys. I'm not surprised to know Teen was childish at 18.

Teen, ur and f-16 points well taken! Media instigates inner and burried desires to take over decency. Its a dangerous combination. teens with fresh harmons kicking in mixed with media incitements toped with ever diminishing moral training at home nurtures a corrupt and morally bankrupt generation. Effects of these generations will haunt many more after that.

Reversal of this trend stems only from taking firm position on morality for self before taking it to others. Those who despise indecency should hold a higher ground and standard for themselves in defiance of prevelant culture.

Let's see, and I am dead serious about it! can some of us (of course, those who want to make a point) change our avatars to something modest (showing skin even in a cartoon character is indecent).

Posted 17 Dec 2004

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well must be said dat itz a topic u cant stop messagin !
c today love has many categories and most of in it ppl say dat da ratio is in teenagers... well the thing said here that the teenagers are being involved love more than before but the reality is this that teenagers are involved in this false love matter from many centuries ..

but why not seeking the adult range the problem is that love is moving here there as a speed of light and it is burning houses like fire ... teenagers are being inhanced where as the adults are still hiding behind the backs of the teenagers ... teenager's love is a love in which u are having heart brake but soon they overcoming but in the adult range the people are getting involved and causing dangerous problems like they are even having the right to be married .......

to me love a pure feeling ... !
which we feels when it wants to be felt...

Posted 17 Dec 2004

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Posted 18 Dec 2004

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par convince kernay say loog samaj bhee jatay hein .. i know bohat kaam loog dosroon kay experiences say seekhtay hein .. majority aisee hai kay jaab taak khud thokur kha ker nahi girtay nahi seekhtay..
par convience aisay tareeqay say bhee hota hai .. kay bohat say loog convince hoo jatay hein ..

Posted 18 Dec 2004

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well dat is true

Posted 18 Dec 2004

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hmmmmmmmm

Posted 19 Dec 2004

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yaar yeh hmmmm pain in neck

Posted 20 Dec 2004

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Posted 20 Dec 2004

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Love is a natural thing, but the point of contention here is the way it is promoted as a way of realizing sexual desires, a social stature, companionship for social acceptance ...

Teens are not at fault. Its their elders who have not presented to them a good role model.

In our society people over look boys love adventures, without realizing that such acts are being performed with someone's girl (daughter, sister...). But it hurts so bad when girls in our households involve in it.

Want fix for it! Teach boys modesty and morality and rein them in. Set good examples in self for them when they are young. It is so embarassing to see guys posting & seeking shamelessly for a girl friend. someone should ask 'em, don't they have a girl at home to make friends with. Why do they want to friends with their sisters when all they want a sensual element in their relationship which will not materialize otherwise.

Posted 20 Dec 2004

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o doubt the true thing is true ... i m wid u BIG DADDY
itz a reality dat love iz promotin by thoz 1nz

n u mr raja ji hmm meanz yez
ager neck main pain hota to main kabhi bhi iss ko xpress nah karti .........
dun u wurry ager hua bhi nah to main aap k medical store se medicine le loon gi ....

Posted 20 Dec 2004

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Posted 22 Dec 2004

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Smooth_daddy said:
Love is a natural thing, but the point of contention here is the way it is promoted as a way of realizing sexual desires, a social stature, companionship for social acceptance ...

Teens are not at fault. Its their elders who have not presented to them a good role model.

In our society people over look boys love adventures, without realizing that such acts are being performed with someone's girl (daughter, sister...). But it hurts so bad when girls in our households involve in it.

Want fix for it! Teach boys modesty and morality and rein them in. Set good examples in self for them when they are young. It is so embarassing to see guys posting & seeking shamelessly for a girl friend. someone should ask 'em, don't they have a girl at home to make friends with. Why do they want to friends with their sisters when all they want a sensual element in their relationship which will not materialize otherwise.

its not always elders fault.. ur company does matters too ...
kafee achay ghanaray kay larkay/larkiyaan bhee is main involve ho jatay hein.. elders ki fault is tarhaan hai kay jo khulee chuti dee hoti hai bachoon ko jahaan merzi janay ki .. jo marzee kernay ki .. baas yahee ghalti hoti hai ... aur ziada strictness bhee majboor kertee hai .. ye hamaray fitraat main hai kay kisi kaam say ziada rooka jaiy wo zaroor ker kay deekhtay hein.. even zidd main hee kertay hein ..

Posted 22 Dec 2004

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yeah datz true ... har fact effect karta hai

Posted 22 Dec 2004

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Free rein's a big fault of elders. But I agree teens got to bear some responsibility of their actions as well. Parents are at a much bigger fault when they failed to educate, train and convict kids to high morals. Instead they only focus on academics and some manners.

What would you say about parents watching movies filled with bad language and acts with kids or without. Kids learn that immorality is permissible to adults but not to kids. So they do it when they think they are adults.

A heard a 5 yr old kid saying, only dads can smoke but mom's can't because he only saw his dad smoking while mom didn't. He thus concluded just that it is ok for dads but not for moms. What do you think kids of parents who drink and do other bad staff would do!

You bet! they will do the same and even worse. Because their parents only talk about morality but when it comes to action, they are just the opposite.

Posted 23 Dec 2004

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rite.. Parents har waqat to apnay bachoon par nazar nahi rakh saktay na?? .. i know kay jo unko samjhaoo aur un ki tarbiaat wagaira ye zaroor bachoon par asar kertee hai ..

but the thing is kay jaab app aisee company main bethtay hein jahan mazaak aurya jaiy.. shugal wagiara hota hai tu app ka emaan level down hoo jata hai .. i have experienced it myself ..

its not only parent's fault .. hamara media .. hamari society main ab loog language he is tarhaan ki use kertay hein aisee fazool harqateen kertay hein aur koi discourage bhee nahi kerta aur ye chezain bohat aam hotee ja rahee hein ..

Posted 23 Dec 2004

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bakhair....

is silsal e mein tv bhi bara -ve role play karta hey

Posted 23 Dec 2004

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No doubt company and society play a great role in shaping personalities. Inner character that puts up resistance to temptations and shields one from adopting bad habits develops early in the life. I agree that Eman level goes down in a company of bad friends or spending too much time in front of tv, but the inner strengths battle it out.
You know how docs keep a child in an incubator immediately after birth to stabalize its organs and to prevent exposure to any possible germs or viruses; parents must adopt that technique to isolate kids from exposure to any foul environment for first few years. Once proper values are ingrained in their minds, parents will slowly let them loose.
When we teach kids to swim, we don't just drop 'em in deep waters. We don't even let them go on their own until we are sure they can survive. Then how do we leave our kids to the wolves of tv and media and the society at large?

Posted 23 Dec 2004

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well agar aap kisi par zabardasti karien gey..wo tu aur bigre ga...leken agar usko khula choor do...jo marzi karega...chahiyey koi galti kare..yeh tu phir uska nuksaan hai

Posted 23 Dec 2004

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I don't think I suggested any forceful measures. I think sometimes we jump to judgments and conclusions without any research. If I tell you that research shows children upto age 9 or ten look upto their parents for guidance and take anything they offer. After that it starts to shift towards peers and friends. Developmental years are under 10 years of age when a child develops a personality with traits that will live with him/her for the rest of the life.

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