love or parents?

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irsa

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if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose
Posted 11 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
awwww so cute
4 him
and give him lil kiss
and hug

is he talking
what does he say
Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
LiL_DollY said:

awwww so cute
4 him
and give him lil kiss
and hug

is he talking
what does he say



yup he asked me when can he start dating...i told em kantrol man kantrol
Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
ladoo
you liar
you joker
you fibber

no he didnt

Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
LiL_DollY said:

ladoo
you liar
you joker
you fibber

no he didnt



offcourse he did...

i told em k look..dolly is hot chia alrite, but you r waaaaaaaay too young to date with her...i told em maybe i can hook him up with u;r nieces or somehting
Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
maybe
my niece is also turning 2 in about three months
Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
haah...seee...maybe we can hook them up u know
Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
y not
Posted 21 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
wat bout me

got cousins?
Posted 21 Jun 2005

irsa says
ya you are absoulutly right
and it's true we can never forget this true
and that's good that you have advised to evryone for that



Bazigaar said:

LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)


why is it that kids always say..if my parents love me they will understand me...? why u always want to test parent's love? can u pay back a mom for only one night that she slept on wet spot when u pee'd and put u on dry spot? can u pay for dat father's affection and love jis ke unglee pakar ker apne duniya dekhee hae? naah...we can never never never pay back for what our parents did...least we can do is to make sure we don;t make them sad or give them dukh or sadma....

yes as most say...parents love us..they will forgive us..yes..probably they will...but un ko jo sadma aur dukh ho ga from u;r action...us ke baray mae bhi socha hae kabhi? remember...ajj hum jo bhi hain....r cuz of our parents...

my sincere advice to u all (from my own personal experience) is never...ever...try u;r best to give dukh to u;r parents...especially ye love and stuff...trust me guys...if u give dukh to u;r parents cuz of love or whatever...u will never find happiness in life...and it;s gonna haunt u forever...no matter what

sorry if i offended someone...i feel parents should be respected no matter what...
Posted 21 Jun 2005

irsa says
no that's enough i understands that what is a love of parents
and thanks for telling alot of information



LiL_DollY said:

Bazigaar said:

LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)


why is it that kids always say..if my parents love me they will understand me...? why u always want to test parent's love? can u pay back a mom for only one night that she slept on wet spot when u pee'd and put u on dry spot? can u pay for dat father's affection and love jis ke unglee pakar ker apne duniya dekhee hae? naah...we can never never never pay back for what our parents did...least we can do is to make sure we don;t make them sad or give them dukh or sadma....

yes as most say...parents love us..they will forgive us..yes..probably they will...but un ko jo sadma aur dukh ho ga from u;r action...us ke baray mae bhi socha hae kabhi? remember...ajj hum jo bhi hain....r cuz of our parents...

my sincere advice to u all (from my own personal experience) is never...ever...try u;r best to give dukh to u;r parents...especially ye love and stuff...trust me guys...if u give dukh to u;r parents cuz of love or whatever...u will never find happiness in life...and it;s gonna haunt u forever...no matter what

sorry if i offended someone...i feel parents should be respected no matter what...


Bazi...
heres my opninion now
No ones wrong and everyone has their own ideas and opinions. Thats what makes everyone unique.

You sounded like my nana abu when you spoke about the mother taking care of her child. Well...I understand and totally respect my parents. I really do. And I never want them to be sad. I've dont 95% things in life to make them happy. I cant see either of them sad because it breaks me apart. yes, I do love them more than probably anyone in the world.

You know...I just think...that if a parent has sense that the baby should be put in a dry place. Or...the father that holds the childs finger. Well this should continue through out life. A parent should always lvoe and look out for there child. A father should always show the child new things and experiences.

But...if parents give everythig to their children. Of course the children will repay their parents by taking care of them. By massaging their legs. by cooking for them. hugging them and kissinng them. telling them how much they love them. By having their parents relax for a while....while the kids bring the moeny home and pay the bills.

There are other ways that children can show repect to their parents. But giving up their life and sacrificing it...for the love of their parents...is a personal choice. sometimes you believe in it...sometimes you dont and you still do it.

Parents should care and love their children enought o ask them who they want in their life.

MOst parents in the pakistani culture are strict and respected when it comes to religion. I understadn they pray five times. But sometimes praying five times is not the only thing in islam. Nobody's marriage is valid without the girl or boys yes. And no one can force a girl into marriage. this is also islam. Our people need tot be eudcated.

We can also respect our paretns by educating them about Islam. Did you know that.

You talk to them sweetly. You be patient with them. And you dont curse at them. that is beign respectful.

So do you getmy point or would you like me top expand.... on my views...


Posted 21 Jun 2005

irsa says
it's not only for you it's for every one
and i just asked because i wanna know about pakistani people that how they are but you guys always quarll with me
baby dont quarll just try to understand my feelings


LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

so that's mean you are gana disapoint your parents



LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose



I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)



Irsa darling you misudnerstood.

You asked my opnion and I told it to you...no need to get all rough about it.

I have my own life. I make my own choices. I respect my parents. I always have. I think that you need to understand that you can respect your parents in more than one way. (read the top post I made).

Anways...you gave a choice to have either parents...
or a love

well you offered an option of leaving...

GOD HONEST TRUTH....
I aint no coward...I wouldnt leave...cause I have nothign to fear. If I loved someone...I would confront my parents and tell them...I love this guy and I want to marry him. If they say yes thats fine if they say no thats fine. Ill FACE MY PROBLEMS...not run away form them

Only cowards run away from their problems. You cant always take the easy way out of life. You have to take the hard route sometimes and learn your lesson from it.

Dont Judge me. I have my own life. Im a very respectful person. You jsut dont know me.


Well..

Posted 21 Jun 2005

irsa says
oh yeah

heart__hacker said:

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
well yay humary per kud depend kerta haii
hum bohaat kuch kahty hain
and ager muj say yay sawal kiya jay to main biii parents hi kahoon ga
but yay time per hota haii piyar per hota haii apnain app per hota haii
sometime hum bohaat kuch kah jaty hain dosry kay samnain number banain kay leay,,,
but sach sometime yay hi hota haii kay hum love hi ko chose kerty hain...
wo log bii hain na jo shadi kay baad apnain parents ko old house main bayj dayty hain....

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose

Posted 21 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
Hey Irsa
I understand your view point also
In most cases it stronger
I just wish
that people could have both things

their own love
and their paretns happiness

Posted 22 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
oye yer sab kidher se
Posted 22 Jun 2005

Bazigaar said:

haah...seee...maybe we can hook them up u know





Posted 22 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
watcha laffin @
Posted 22 Jun 2005

joker says
Posted 22 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
thinkin
Posted 22 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
itna na thinko..mooti ho jaop ge
Posted 23 Jun 2005

joker says
what thinking
Posted 23 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
pata nahi kya kya sochti rehte hae ye larki
Posted 25 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
or kya karooo
baaas thinking and dreaming
and I love both
Posted 26 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
ohh acha...but do one at a time...first think..then relax and dream bout what u think
Posted 26 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
lol
you ladoo

thinking

you have to think before you dream
so true

so Ill think of *HIM*
then Ill dream of *HIM*
Posted 26 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
laddo ke bap ka bhi soch liya ker kabhi
Posted 26 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
LOL....WHO?
just kidding

How R U?
Posted 26 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
bas how r u?
Posted 26 Jun 2005

joker says

Him kaisa haii like me or bazi


i know bazi ki hi tara hoo ga
khair itna gussa koyoo
Posted 26 Jun 2005

LiL_DollY says
thinking
i didnt understand
Posted 26 Jun 2005

Bazigaar says
lol..mujhay bhi samajh nahi aya
Posted 27 Jun 2005

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