Dol_l_y sis, you know my take is different. Here are my 2 pennies
LiL_DollY said: Love Someone and not be supportive to their wishes...
Love doesn't mean insanity. All wishes are not always good. Knowing that the person I love wishes for something harmful to them, I will not support that wish.
I'll instead encourage them choose an alternative.
LiL_DollY said: How can you Love someone and not think about their happiness>
my happiness is in the happiness of the person I love and i expect the same from the other person.
howzat possible, my own happiness I can't care about!
LiL_DollY said: How can You love someone and be selfish?
Love is selfish.