maryam.
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sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't depends on how much the guy is well-rounded and open-minded. i think the problem with most (NOT ALL) pakistani guys is that they find girls abroad messed up.. and not in tune with their culture... which isn't true at all.. and many (NOT ALL) find pakistani guys too narrow minded and unwilling to compromise
***DISCLAIMER: this post does not reflect my personal views. thank you.
maryam.
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i think if the couple really wants it to work out then it'll happen. a year ago or so i probably would've agreed with my previous post.. but i've revised many of my views about many things
i do however believe that both people in a relationship have to be open-minded and willing to compromise for it to work out. whether one's from abroad or not.. that's just the way it is in any relationship.
ashkhan
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yes thats true, but u just cant trust any1 these days, ppl are such idiots with so many motives behind them.
plus even today here in uk girls have to forcfully marry their parents choose, and they dont even know them. parents choose them cos those guys r their relatives and its a way for them to bring them and their families into britain.
mimz i think ur sinario is very correct for guys and girls a generation from now, or thise lucky enough to choose their partners.
ashkhan
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it is for u and me but there are so many mirpuri girls her that have had to go through so much rubbish. u cant find girls who have had the choice to marry.
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apni pasend ki marige say bhi kuch nahin hota best tarika hai kay insaan ko chaye kay khud karbani day na kay woh kisi say qarbani lay ager life main koi malsa a jaye to har mumkin koshish karni chaye khud jhoknay ki na kay jhokanay ki koshish ki jaye
ashkhan
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well said, ppl should not try to show others down,
im not sayin that marry only by ur pasand, but have bit of both, if u have some1 meet them with ur parents, and then discuss with ur parents, if they like em, cool. if they dont then hear what they have to say.
i think u cant garentee a good marrige jus like u cant garentee anything in life, but always pray to god, and when it comes to choosing some1 listen to what everyone has to say, ask ur self what it is u like about them, think of the negatives of being with them too.
