MOhabbat kya hai??????????

Virdan said:

Pyar to sada se he sacha hota tha aur hay yeh to hum log isay sacha jhoota kar daitay hain. Nice Comments Samreen Malik.

Laikan ik baat kaho yaad rakhiyay ga insan jo kuchh karta hay apnay liyay karta hay maira matlab yeh nahee hay keh kisi ki khushi k liyay kuchh nahee karta bal keh maira matlab hay keh woh kisi k liyay bhi jo karta hay infact us mein usi ka faida hota yani woh apnay liyay he karta aur aisay lamhay yeh nahee kehna chahyay keh mein ne yeh apnay pyar k liyay kiya hay ya kisi k liyay kiya hay bal keh samajhna aur jan.na chahyay keh yeh to khud us ne apnay liyay kiya hay apnay pyar4 k liyay kiya hay mean apni khushi k liyay he kiya hay na kiyon k us ki khushi us k pyar ki khushi hay to apni zaat ki pehchaan k liyay zaroori hay keh hum apni zaat k khol se bahir aa kar khud ki pemaish karein aur dosro ko is ka moqa dein.

Allah Tala hum sab ko khud ko jan.nay ki tofeeq dein ameen

samreen malik said:

thanx virdan. but zarrori nahi jab insan apnay under koi change lai to hamesha apni khushi say ya marzi say lata hai har insan jaisa hai waisa he rehna chata hai haan woh apnay pyar k lia khushi kkhushi apnay ap ko badlnay k lia tyar hota hai likin har insan ko apna pyar nahi milta woh sirf compromise kerta hai aur buhut say aisay log hotay hai jo na chatay hoi bhi apnay ap ko badltay hai aur woh khush nahi hotay apnay ap say aur na he us me unka koi faida hota hai.duniya me buhut say aisay log hai jo dosro ki khushi k lia apnay ap ko badlatay hai na khe apni khushi k lia. n i have seen dese kind of ppls woh khud say khush nahi hotay sirf dosro ki khushi me apni khushi dhondhnay ki koshish kertay hai.is lia yeh kehna k insan apnay ap ko is lia badlta hai khe khein na khein us ka bhi faida hota hai yeh ghalat hai

samreen malik said:

thanx virdan. but zarrori nahi jab insan apnay under koi change lai to hamesha apni khushi say ya marzi say lata hai har insan jaisa hai waisa he rehna chata hai haan woh apnay pyar k lia khushi kkhushi apnay ap ko badlnay k lia tyar hota hai likin har insan ko apna pyar nahi milta woh sirf compromise kerta hai aur buhut say aisay log hotay hai jo na chatay hoi bhi apnay ap ko badltay hai aur woh khush nahi hotay apnay ap say aur na he us me unka koi faida hota hai.duniya me buhut say aisay log hai jo dosro ki khushi k lia apnay ap ko badlatay hai na khe apni khushi k lia. n i have seen dese kind of ppls woh khud say khush nahi hotay sirf dosro ki khushi me apni khushi dhondhnay ki koshish kertay hai.is lia yeh kehna k insan apnay ap ko is lia badlta hai khe khein na khein us ka bhi faida hota hai yeh ghalat hai

rapunzel said:

hmm
baat tu aap ki sahih hai BAhi hum apni hi khushi chahte hain dosre ka itna khayal tu nahi kerte
baaz daffa mein ne note kya hai sirf mohabbat ko mazzaak bana lya jata hai
jo banda pyar kerta hai wo mehboob ki respect kerta hai na
lekin aisa nahi hota

Gauri Khan said:

yes it's quite right kay her dafa aap apni khushi kay liay nahi badaltay aap ko baz auqat doosroon ki aur baz auqat is duniya kay asoolon kay tahat chalnay kay liay apnay aap ko na chahatay hoay bhi badalna parta hai for example main her aik say bohot ghul mil janay wali kind ki girl thi laikin main nay apnay experiences say learn kia kay yeh hi baat aksar auqat meray liay ghalat sabit hue to main nay apnay ander change laya aur aaj main kuch reserve rehti hoon aur kisi ko khud say zayada free honay nai daiti aur main nay is kay bohot achay result daikhay hain aaj log kuch bhi meray aagay bol nai daitay. believe me main nay khud main yeh change lanay kay liay bohot mehnat ki hai aap samajh saktay hoon gay kay jo cheez aap ki personality main na ho wo lanay kay liay aap ko kitni mehnat karni parti hai. so meray paas aisi bohot si examples hain jo kay main nay apnay life experiences ki base pay mehsoos kar kay khud main changes lai hain.

Virdan said:

Samreen aap mairi baat shaid samajh nahee paai yahi to mein ne kaha hay keh apnay pyar k liyay bhi insan jo karta hay woh darhaqeeqat apnay liyay he karta hay kiyon keh us ki sab se zayda khushi apnay pyar ki khushi mein he hoti hay

rapunzel said:

thanxx i know