One sided love......

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friend_16

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Do u think one sided love is wrong??
Posted 09 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
seriously batana hai saroon nay.. doesn't that person have a heart n y is he not taken seriously?

(is question is asked by me friend)
Posted 09 Jul 2004

Guest_005 says
Yea ...

One Sided love kia ...

Laove wagera karna hai hi wrong
Posted 09 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
... ok i respect ur opinion.. but u should give everything a chance .. u never know..
Posted 09 Jul 2004

one sided luv is not wrong but ........
piyaar kya nahinjata ho jata hai.....
one sided ho ya double sided
Posted 09 Jul 2004

Guest_005 says
hmmmmmm
Posted 09 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
ummmmm well,mera khyal hai ismain ghlata ya sahi kii koi baat nahi hai,coz ye tu khud ba khud hota hai,ab chahey sahi ho ya ghalat.
wese one sided nahi hona chahiye........:(
Posted 09 Jul 2004

Fairl_Girl says
wrong nahi hai per bohat hurt hota hai insan
Posted 09 Jul 2004

*sonia* says
lolzz....
pahli baat pyar ho jata hai frn...
dosri baat pata nahin chalta kaisay ho jata hai...
ab kiya karain agar ho gaya hai aur dosray banday ko nahin hai...
aur ap kisi say zabardasti pyar tu karwa nahin saktay...
aur maray khayal main one sided love id not wrong its just it hurts alooooooooot....thats it...
but kiya faraq parta hai hai agar hurt karta hai tu...insaan bana hi kyon ho dukh sahnay kay liyay lolzzz.....aur agar aik insaan dukh daita hai tu kiya hoa....koi baat nahin...ap jis say pyar kartay ho us kay dukh bhi bardasht karnay ki taqat honi chahiyay....isi liyay main kahti hoon agar pyar karo tu bas khud tak rakho jis say pyar karo usay bhi pata na lagnay do kay us say ap pyar kartay ho....warna blv me buhat dukhta hai dil....so its not wrong its just it hurts u more than anything else...


but ppl love smiling faces so smile always coz no one likes sad faces...
Posted 10 Jul 2004

WAS says
Ek tarfa pyar wrong nahin, but like evryone says dukhi hota hai. Dekha jaye to pyar altogether hi dukhi hota hai, zaroori nahin ke sirf one sided love adhura reh jaye. Kabi kabi both people can love each other and yet not be together........... and this is life
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
pyaar tu ho jata hai tu doesn't the person whom u love get to know whtever his or her reaction will be.. aur kiay dafa majboori ki waja say nahi bataya ja sakta... tu phir kia karay??
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
bilkool...
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
hey sana koi comments tu post karain na .. wht do u think?? wht is ur opinion about this??
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
yaar upper main ne apney qeemtee-comments diye tu hain.....iskey alawa kiya bolon tum or mazeed koi accha sa debatable mozoo shuro kero tu i definetely will give yo ma precious comments/opinion....okies
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
haaan main nay parhain hain ... kia karoon my friend is not getting satisfied na...

chaloo abhee main apnay comments bhee post kertee hoon..
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
lekin kkiyon setisfied nahi ho rahin tum kiya poochna hai....or kiya qus hai mazeed is hawaley se tumharey zahen main:)
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
ahaan so dear friend of mine .. ONE sided love main kafee situations hoo sakteen hain..

1. let suppose app jis say pyaar kertee hoo.. us ka pehlay say koi affair hoo koi gf hoo.. fiancee hoo .. ya even wo married hoo.. .. tu yaar is case main tu bohaat muskil hai kay us ko app ka khayal aiy..

2. hmm hoo sakta hai us nay kabhee app ko is nazar say deekha hee na hoo.. .. kabhee aisa soocha hee na.. wo ye love thing pay believe hee na kerta hoo.. hoo sakta hai na??

3. umm .. ye saab see achee situation hai.. kia pata kay wo bhee app main interested hoo .. aur ye one sided nahi two sided love hoo .. laiken dono ko pata hee na hoo.. hoo sakta hai na yaar...

ab agar 1st case hai tu ... bohat kaam chances hain .. 20%.. us ka affair khatam hoo jaiy.. us ki gf naraz ho jaiy.. us ki engagement toot jaiy... .. ya wo apnee doosree shadi kay baray main soocho tu.. .. ahem..
hmm second case hai tu phir itna mushkil nahi hai... cause us ko app ka pata hee nahi hai.. tu make him realize kay app bhee hoo.. (yaar khud bhee soocho na kuch.. main he saab kuch soochon kia.. )
aur 3rd case ... agar app ko yeh he nahi pata .. tu u r a big duffer then.. .. ahem seroiusly yaar.. kisi na kisi tarhaan .. tu pata chal hee jaiy ga ..

ufff.. ziaada hee bool dia .. cause its one of my fav topics..
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says

ummmmmm...mera khyal hai ye 3rd situation kuch mamolli se bilkool 1% lelo...munasib se lag rahi hai......wese yaar jes terha kehtey hain"ke dost hota nahi her haath milaney wal"bilkool ise terha zaroori tu nahi ke koi acche terha baat karey tu wo love ya liking ho,,,,,,ye tu us bande ya bandee ki khush akhlaqee hoyee na.......wo sher hai na ke"dil kes qader udas hai jab se khber hoyee ................milteyhain wo khuloos se her ajnabee ke sath!
tu mera nahikhyal ke ager lerki one sided love karey tu mohabbat ke ezhaar main pehel karey no never yaar...........kabhi bhi lerki ko pehal nahikarna chahiye....yar ana...self-respect bhi koi cheez hai......ye baat lerkon ko hi suit kertee hai....
tu ager one sided love bhi ho tab bhi kabhi bhi ezhaar tu kerna hiinahi...............!

any more qus...
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
aap ne mere dukhtee rag per bahut zor se paaoon mar dia hai... but i respect de fact f16 k u atleast took it seriously and gave me a whole perspective to my prob i'll definately think ovr all the three cases.....
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
aap ne mere dukhtee rag per bahut zor se paaoon mar dia hai... but i respect de fact f16 k u atleast took it seriously and gave me a whole perspective to my prob i'll definately think ovr all the three cases.....
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says


kiya tumbhi kahin one sided ke chakker main...ahem ahem

ohno...
kuch bhi ho
pehal kabhi na kerna meree behan
lerkiyon kii ana kiilaaj rakhna
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
i totally agre wid u sana i don't think k larki ko dil ki baat batanee pehle chahiye but lets consider da 3rd case tu phir kia kare..woh larkee hai per she has a heart aur if she misses her chance tu she mite nvr get another..it mite b da situation of now or nvr....f16's friend
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
ager 3 wali situation hai yani dono hii mohabbat kertey haoin or dono hi laelam hain tub bhi nahi pehal kerna...
coz mohbbat ka ezhaar lerkey hii kertey acche lagtay hain........jes terha bohut saree batein lerkiyon ko zaib nahi detteen isse terha ye bhi..........
or bilfarz ap tu ye samgh rahey hain ke he loves me.....or aap incase ezhaar kerden or us ne kaha hain who r u? sorry i can't help u ....etc etc
tu ye marney ka maqaam nahi hai...uff nahi...

ager lerka love kerta hai tu zaror express kerdey ga apni feelings....wait n watch+dua
(sab se bara hathyaar hai)
yehi sab se behtereen hai....!
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
Thanks alot for ur comments .. i'll definately keep this in my mind..
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
any time yaar koi bhi suggestion chahiye ho,inshAllah acha hi hoga,bus amal kerna ya na kerna tumhara kaam!
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
this topic was stated by my friend aur majority posts usee nay likhe hain... us ko comments chahyee thay... agar wo apna new id banatee tuu maybe us ko ziada comments na milltay tu thats y us nay meray id say posts keen .. aur agay bhee isee topic main wo sayid post karay.. thanks all of u for ur replies..
Posted 10 Jul 2004

SanaSana says
but wo frnd hai kahan chuppi hoyee kiyon hain,unko samney aana chahiye na.....
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
wo friend actually aj kal meri taraf rehnay aye huee hai.. tu main nay us ko jb ka bataya tu us nay soocha kay yahaan post kernee chahyee.. is liay ker dee.. yaheen hai .. main nay us ko bola tu hai kay wo membership lay lay.. lets see.. ab wo laitee hai kay nahi...
Posted 10 Jul 2004

in this case watch humtum
Posted 10 Jul 2004

friend_16 says
hum dono wo deekh chukay hain.. .. any other comments??
Posted 10 Jul 2004

~Fragi~ says
SanaSana said:

ager 3 wali situation hai yani dono hii mohabbat kertey haoin or dono hi laelam hain tub bhi nahi pehal kerna...
coz mohbbat ka ezhaar lerkey hii kertey acche lagtay hain........jes terha bohut saree batein lerkiyon ko zaib nahi detteen isse terha ye bhi..........
or bilfarz ap tu ye samgh rahey hain ke he loves me.....or aap incase ezhaar kerden or us ne kaha hain who r u? sorry i can't help u ....etc etc
tu ye marney ka maqaam nahi hai...uff nahi...

ager lerka love kerta hai tu zaror express kerdey ga apni feelings....wait n watch+dua
(sab se bara hathyaar hai)
yehi sab se behtereen hai....!




C'mon aaj kal kee galz hee pehlay express kartee hain
Posted 10 Jul 2004

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