maryam. said:

ha! puhlease!
i'd like to see you try

Smooth_daddy said:

Actually it doesn't make sense to me when you call a car s3*y .

For me liberal use of this word fall below standards of haya.

Smooth_daddy said:

Shahenshah said:

Smooth_daddy said:

I don't always believe in "majority rules". Majority may agree to make indescency acceptable but if its against standard morals, I will oppose.

In a nut shell, I do find it offensive in general.

Use of that word is not necessary to express ones feelings. Secondly, allowing use of the word will leave an opening for users who are not selective in their language and expression to stretch it farther than moral limits. i will strongly urge to leave it the way it is.

if we leave it the way it is..then why is mod asking me not to use it

I agree with mod

maryam. said:

pata hai
pata hai

no husband-to-be
so nothing to worry about there


raat jugno saatarein
la la la

SALL said:

Y DONT THEY JUST HELP ME TO FACE THESE DIFFICULTIES

SALL said:

y did they bring me to this world then


coz after all this world dont worth anything
i dont trust the world either,,, par kyaaaaaaaaa
did i stop living here ???????????   my dad has a professional life,, my bro,,, my husband,, they all have been thru loads of pbs

Y DONT THEY JUST HELP ME TO FACE THESE DIFFICULTIES

SALL said:

im not gonna tell ya "my dukh bhari daastan"


for example
galz can b very high educated,, but vv few of them carry on their prfessional life after wedding
and even if they do so,, it will always b a "lagi bandhi job"

a REAL PROFESSIONAL CAREER
taking risks,, facing real life (im not talking abt stunts in movies)
y are we not allowed to decide abt WOT I WANT TO BE
parents ko kyun lagta hai k hum iss kabil nahi hai,, y dont they trust us

nikama said:

well,in plain yes or no....yes,i find it offensive

Smooth_daddy said:

I don't always believe in "majority rules". Majority may agree to make indescency acceptable but if its against standard morals, I will oppose.

In a nut shell, I do find it offensive in general.

Use of that word is not necessary to express ones feelings. Secondly, allowing use of the word will leave an opening for users who are not selective in their language and expression to stretch it farther than moral limits. i will strongly urge to leave it the way it is.

Smooth_daddy said:

you bet!
conditions must be met before marrying non-muslims just like conditions must be met even before marrying a muslim.

SALL said:

we are a bit out of topic

i was talking abt "how parents could b wrong toward galz when it comes to their professional life"

SALL said:

mere nazdeek average means,,,
"jaise k zyada log hein"

do u think ppl who lie or steal dont have friends ??
do u think murderers cant make ppl laff ??
do u think being religious (prayers and all the rest) make u care abt others ??

they all have priorities
like i can b vv loving, caring to my family and friends and an a**hole to the rest of the world
arent we all like that

SALL said:

but i ve seen loads of cases where parents are like north n south
both of them think to do the best for their kids

id say parents are as wrong as their children could be

SALL said:

bazu
wot is the definition of an AVERAGE person,, its different in all societies in all cultures
im not here to be like OTHERS
and i dont want my kids to be like others
i only want to be GOOD,, same for my kids


im talking abt my parents
mom and dad

nikama said:

ok,would u use the word under discussion b4 your elders?