Aasera said:
sis friends ko wish karna kaisay haram ho gaya?
yarrr kia na sab haath dho kar is din kay pichay parh jatay hain har saal
Shadiyon par MAHDNI MAIYON DAnce etc yah sab bi to hinduana rasmain hain...in par koi topic kion nahin banta??? shadiyan to sara saal hoti rahti hain.. lol
+ agar na-mahram ko valentine wish karna "ghalat" hay to kia waisay hi main FRIENDS ( chalain isi forum ko lay lain) yahan sab HUGS send kartay hain... "i love you" boltay hain etc... tab to yah bi usi line main ata hay na..or not? us tarha to PM main na-mahram say bat karna bi haram hay...msn par bi... kahin bi TANHAI main bat karna etc
islam main GIFTS dainay ko bola gaya hay...kay is say "PYAR BARHTA HAY"
so agar ham "fazol" things par APNAY liyay paisay kharch kar saktay hain to saal main aik din kisi ko gift day diya to mujhe to koi burai nahin nazar ati is main.
Main to manati hon...and manati rahongi... i love to give gifts , flowerz and cards 2 my dear sisterz.. and kuch nahin to WISH zaror karongi.
" Bat sirf itni hay kay KOI bi din ho, HAD main rah kar manao to koi burai nahin, but agar EID ko bi GHALAT tarikay say manao gey to is say EID HARAM nahin ho jaey gi,.. GHALTI AAP KI HOGI."
~Fragi~ said:
Doctor Sam said:
~Fragi~ said:love ko express karna bura nahi
kisi khas din per bhi express karna bura nahi
Ijtimai taur per express karna b bura nahi
aur khas ker gifts dena b hargiz bura nahi
tu valentines day manana b bura nahi
haan per cheap harkatien karna,stupid kaam karna , kissi ko tung karna hargiz theek nahi
there is no Logic for celebrating valentines day.. for us, There Must be No logic... it doesnt belong to US...
Love kee koi country religion boundary nahi hoti, aap is ko dosroon ko follow karney k bajaye apney hisab sey mana lo apney hisab sey celeberate kar lo
Fairl_Girl said:mohabat ka din hai to mohabat to hum kisi na kisi se kartay hi hai kam se kam mom dad to huwe
Smooth_daddy said:my question is, what are our roots, our identity, our heritage, our customs, I do not mean paki, I mean Muslim
Smooth_daddy said:
~Fragi~ said:love ko express karna bura nahi
kisi khas din per bhi express karna bura nahi
Ijtimai taur per express karna b bura nahi
aur khas ker gifts dena b hargiz bura nahi
tu valentines day manana b bura nahi
haan per cheap harkatien karna,stupid kaam karna , kissi ko tung karna hargiz theek nahi
your right fragi, expressing your love to your spouse is not wrong. But it is wrong for people to show it to non-mehrams, if we are believers in its fullest sense.
Observence of this day encourages illicit relations and promotes indecency. Above all, it is part of christian renaissance - tracing roots to roman christian origin.
Smooth_daddy said:
Doctor Sam said:WHAT WE CAN DO
hold your ground, resist temptations.
~Fragi~ said:love ko express karna bura nahi
kisi khas din per bhi express karna bura nahi
Ijtimai taur per express karna b bura nahi
aur khas ker gifts dena b hargiz bura nahi
tu valentines day manana b bura nahi
haan per cheap harkatien karna,stupid kaam karna , kissi ko tung karna hargiz theek nahi
Smooth_daddy said:
Ashii said:
yarr even in europe (western society) not much ppl know abt the roots of this event
all I know is,, its nothing but another way to make ppl spend money
pure eco/commercial day,, there isnt anything sentimental here
Commercialism: That is always the driving force in all deviations. This is nothing new. Another old tradition is to think commercialized customs are benign and harmless.
Only one example I will present for those who will understand.
Quresh of makkah opposed Islam right at its birth. Islam meant end of their commercialized pagan practices. Manufacturing and trading of idols will not exist anymore, pilgrims will not be required to purchase their pilgrimage clothings from quresh at a premium and on and on...in short, end of monopoly on trade, commerce, and wealth accumulation in few hands and end of slavry...leading to justice, equal treatment, freedom, opportunity for all to prosper and be protected...
Smooth_daddy said:
Doctor Sam said:
Ashii said:vv true
i ve heard night parties s been arranged for valentines
where only young couples are allowed
i dont think if many married couples attend these "social events"
well,, atleast not with their spouse hehee
same with basant
alcohol, drugs, and mujre,, how many ppl bring their wives and sisters to these special basant evenings ??
hmmmm,,, hamra bhi dil kar raha hai jaane ka ab to
its a real tragedy....
young generation is misdirected
... because it seems so attractive. It is like a chocolate quoted poison pill.
...and the generation before them is so blinded by the glare of its outlook. Oblivious of a blackhole behind it, they are throwing themselves in it at full speed. their kids follow their footsteps.
Nations that loose their true identity, loose their self-respect, dignity, freedom and themselves. In hunt for a new identity they become captivies of alien isms so they may be identified by that. Irony of it is, they will remain second class and their children will be enslaved - not necessarily in physical sense.
rapunzel said:Lg hmmmmmmmmmmmm
Doc sam mein ne tu aik baat ki hai har bande ka apna point of view hota hai
Rehan yeah phool tu phool hote hain
Fragi bhai dont be pessimist Allah sab acha karaingay