BadShaH1 said:

Dont Judge me. I have my own life. Im a very respectful person. You jsut dont know me


everyone sayz dat.

irsa said:

Angadlover said:

Irsa i m impresseb by ur views.but maine pyaar kiya hai abb main peechay hat nahi sakti.

oh realy
i cant say any thing then

irsa said:

so that's mean you are gana disapoint your parents

LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose

I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)

Bazigaar said:

LiL_DollY said:

irsa said:

if you are in love so your parents don't agree on that so will leave
your 20 year parents love
your 1/2 year lover's love
which one will you choose

I want my love
because eventually if your parents lvoe you.
they will understand and overcome their anger and sadness.
I mean parents raise you and keep you happy and give you everything that you want
so why not marry you to the perosn that you love.

Whatever happens happens
you have to accept it
everything is form Allah (swt)

why is it that kids always say..if my parents love me they will understand me...? why u always want to test parent's love? can u pay back a mom for only one night that she slept on wet spot when u pee'd and put u on dry spot? can u pay for dat father's affection and love jis ke unglee pakar ker apne duniya dekhee hae? naah...we can never never never pay back for what our parents did...least we can do is to make sure we don;t make them sad or give them dukh or sadma....

yes as most say...parents love us..they will forgive us..yes..probably they will...but un ko jo sadma aur dukh ho ga from u;r action...us ke baray mae bhi socha hae kabhi? remember...ajj hum jo bhi hain....r cuz of our parents...

my sincere advice to u all (from my own personal experience) is never...ever...try u;r best to give dukh to u;r parents...especially ye love and stuff...trust me guys...if u give dukh to u;r parents cuz of love or whatever...u will never find happiness in life...and it;s gonna haunt u forever...no matter what

sorry if i offended someone...i feel parents should be respected no matter what...

Bazi...
heres my opninion now
No ones wrong and everyone has their own ideas and opinions. Thats what makes everyone unique.

You sounded like my nana abu when you spoke about the mother taking care of her child. Well...I understand and totally respect my parents. I really do. And I never want them to be sad. I've dont 95% things in life to make them happy. I cant see either of them sad because it breaks me apart. yes, I do love them more than probably anyone in the world.

You know...I just think...that if a parent has sense that the baby should be put in a dry place. Or...the father that holds the childs finger. Well this should continue through out life. A parent should always lvoe and look out for there child. A father should always show the child new things and experiences.

But...if parents give everythig to their children. Of course the children will repay their parents by taking care of them. By massaging their legs. by cooking for them. hugging them and kissinng them. telling them how much they love them. By having their parents relax for a while....while the kids bring the moeny home and pay the bills.

There are other ways that children can show repect to their parents. But giving up their life and sacrificing it...for the love of their parents...is a personal choice. sometimes you believe in it...sometimes you dont and you still do it.

Parents should care and love their children enought o ask them who they want in their life.

MOst parents in the pakistani culture are strict and respected when it comes to religion. I understadn they pray five times. But sometimes praying five times is not the only thing in islam. Nobody's marriage is valid without the girl or boys yes. And no one can force a girl into marriage. this is also islam. Our people need tot be eudcated.

We can also respect our paretns by educating them about Islam. Did you know that.

You talk to them sweetly. You be patient with them. And you dont curse at them. that is beign respectful.

So do you getmy point or would you like me top expand.... on my views...

Bazigaar said:

well dolly..u shouldn;t be too realistic...it;s good to dream....cuz they do come true sometimes..or atleast...they make u feel better for that time being

Bazigaar said:

LiL_DollY said:

Bazigaar said:

well..wo..shower...

lets go swimming
race yah
Ill beat yah

why race? can i carry u? only i;f u;r not 200 pounds