Shararati

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Mein kismat ko nahin mante, Khuda insaan ko wohi deta hai, jis ki liya insaan khud mehnat kare. Tum mehnat nahin karoge, to phir Khuda tumhari tamanna kyoun puri karey?

Waise itna bhi maat ghabrao, mein aap kiliye dua karongi, aur tum thore si mehnat karo!!!!
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Shararati

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Aab se mera bhi roza raste mein kuljayga, pata nahin kyoun yeh log ghariyo ko aghe peeche karte hai. samajh nahin atee.

Yaha paar bhi banking mein bohat opportunities hain, lekin paise itne nahi hai.

mein eik sawaal poochte hou, agar kisi ko jawaab dina ho to. Agar paise ka masla zara bhi nahi hota, aur aap jo bhi kaam karte, izaat se zindagi guzaar sakte hai, yo phir ap kya profession karna pasand karenge?
Posted 01 Nov 2004

Shararati

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I also have the Halal and Haram problem in my workplace. Every time we go out I have to stick to Vegetarian options or Fish because the places we end up gong arent halal, but if you have been used to it, since a child it stops bothering you after a while.

Mujhe zada mushkil taab lagta hai, jab woh saab sharab peene keliye jate hai, aur mein baar baar inkaar karti houn. But it is part of life... dealing with situations like this. I think that kind of work culture is very common in places like china and Japan.
Posted 28 Oct 2004

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I think i am quite lucky, living in a Country packed out with Ignorant People, i have got a fairly good team to work with.

Ramadhan is almost half gone. My 13th one today
Posted 27 Oct 2004

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thanks!
i will watch it...

yes u sure need to be a very strong person to wear hijaab in the west!
i am fasting and the only foreigner and muslim at the place i work. some people react really nice but other are just so stupid!



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I work in a large organisation, where there are only 3 muslims including myself. I only know one of the other muslims, who fast selectively. I have a really supportive team, there quite understanding about it, and my manager is letting me work flexible hours, so i come in early and leave early. I make it home in time for Ifthari. I think the uk organisations are becoming very multi-culturally aware and are trying to make it easier for the employee's.

It is a challenge trying to balance work and homelife for a women these days, especially when you have ethnic cultural barriers, such as a women is responsible for running the house... it makes Ramadhan even more difficult to cope with... but my pappa is cool and helps me out loads    He is the best dad in the world
Posted 25 Oct 2004

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Hijaab pe restriction lagana buri baat hai, lekin soocho aisa wo kyoun karte hai. Saree duniye mein khouf pehlgaya hai, ke muslim terrorist hai, and France is trying to maintain its power over the nation. I think it is really bad. Yaha Uk, mein koi restrictions nahi, aur 80% of the muslims dont wear them. I think it takes a really strong person to wear a hijaab in western society, someone that is strong enough to handle the bullying and abuse and constant ignorance that they are faced with in day to day life. I guess i have moved away from the topic... so i will shut up.

By the way, in the UK, there is an excellent show on Wednesday night, 9pm on BBC2, if your interested in the political stereotypes/issues muslims are faced with. This week thay talked about Sayed Khutb... very interesting.

Aab mein chup ho jati houn.
Posted 22 Oct 2004

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What are you talking about teen tracker, there is loads of money in IT especially if you are a business analyst. Web developing doesnt have as much money, but money isnt everything, you need to be in a job you enjoy. Thats what is important. There are excellent career opportunities in IT worldwide, especially in UK.
Posted 20 Oct 2004

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Well have you got Job Satisfaction? I know i will get there in the end... Just dont know where i want to be.
Posted 19 Oct 2004

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Wa wa... kya baat hai, is group mein mere hi kami thi. Mein Project management kar rahi houn,Education sector mein... in the uk. Is se pehle main Project manager thi for a Mental Health Project, aur boodhe louko ke saath bhi kam kiya hai. I loved working in Mental Health, Zanhi marizo ke baath he kuch aur hai. I've loved all my previous jobs, lekin yeh wala jo hai na, zara bhi acha nahi lagta. Sochrahi ho, ke aab ke baar koi international aid work/project mile, to mazaa hi ajai
Posted 18 Oct 2004

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What day are people starting Fasting in different parts of the world?

I live in UK (Coventry) and i have started fasting today (friday) and some people are starting tomorrow. We have 2 main mosques here, aur haar saal yehi problem hoti hai, ke yaha ki maulana eik din pe razee he nahin hote. Aab yaha eid 2 dino peh banai jaigee. Oof eik aur tareekah mil gaya logo ko alag karne ka.

Ramadan Mubarak Mere taraf se sabhi ko
Posted 15 Oct 2004

Topic: haha...

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Was that a retorical question.

Insaan ko pyar aur humdardi si kaboo kiya jai, aur jo shatain ho na, unko eik zoor se laga ker (tapar) kaboo kiya jai.
Posted 30 Jul 2004

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Very good. That was really nice.
Posted 30 Jul 2004

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I think ishe hum chote level ki philosophy keh sakte hai. Kyoun, waha kya horaha hai?
Posted 28 Jul 2004

Shararati

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A very noble man(Kettering) once said
"how can you have a better tomorrow if your always thinking about yesterday"

Jo hua hone do, jo horaha hai usko dekho aur samjho, phir jo hona chahiye woh socho aur karo.

A lovely thought for the day:
"guzre hue lamhe itihas hai, anee wale lamhe zindagi hai"
Posted 27 Jul 2004

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you know what they say, hasi to pasi
Posted 26 Jul 2004

Topic: koi to ho

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Rao_buddy, do it in the most romantic way possible, so that she finds it hard to say no. Send her a love letter
Posted 21 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

Shararati

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Love can be defined, but it is different for everyone. Some people would die for love, others couldnt build up the courage to ask there parents to let them marry the person of their dreams.

Posted 15 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

Shararati

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ha, abhi to tum bohat chote ho, wait till your 18. You can be my new mo bhole bhai, and i can be your bhaaji. What do you say May_ho_na?
Posted 14 Jul 2004

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Dil dharakhta hai,
tera nam gungunata hai.
Hawa chalti hai,
tere khushboo lati hai.
Hath mein khujlee hai,
Tere gal yaad ati hai

Actually last setence badli kardeti houn.

last 2 lines ko bana do:

Jab bhi muskhurati houn, tere yaad ati hai.

So, the word i leave you with is Muskhurahat????

Posted 14 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

Shararati

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To phir bacho, mujhe batao, kisne wala love kiya hai????   

Posted 13 Jul 2004

Topic: Flirting

Shararati

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I think your partly right desert boy.

Although i have been born and raised in the uk, i come from a very traditional family, that has enforced the ethics and values of religion and pakistani culture in us.

I know some of the stuff i have said probably makes you think that i am a tart or whatever, but i see this forum as a bit of entertainment where i can pretend to be somnething i am not, and see how the world views me, and hopefully realise that the person i really am, who lived with all the restrictions and struggled for opportunities has actually benefitted from it all.

I dont really care what you think of me
Posted 13 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

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I think wala love zindagi mein ek baar zaroor karna chahiye.

Zindagi mein pyar mile to phir tum bhi pyar banto. Ahista ahista, saree duniya mein pyar khiljayega
Posted 12 Jul 2004

Topic: Flirting

Shararati

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OOOOOOOOhhhhh, touchy!!!!!

Why are you taking life so seriously at such a young age. Hasso aur Gao.

Duniya mein aur bhi ghum hai, is mohabbat ki sewa.
Posted 12 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

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May_ho_na.... what do you think love is?
Posted 09 Jul 2004

Topic: ~*~Love~*~

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Love woh jasba hai jo pathar dil ko bhi maum kar sakhta hai, or jub chinliya jai, to farishte ko bhi jalaad bana sakhta hai.

Love zindagi mein rang lata hai, waqt ki banai hoi duriya mitata hai.

Love insaniyat hai, love ibadat hai, love bekarari hai, love jealousy hai.
Posted 09 Jul 2004

Topic: Flirting

Shararati

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This conversation started of being fun, now its boring, and no one is posting any more replies.... what to do. I know, why dont we make this interesting, by sharing our chat up lines.

"Did it hurt, when you fell down from heaven?"

anyone else want to share a line or two.
Posted 08 Jul 2004

Topic: Flirting

Shararati

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I dont hide my age, i am 25... and very proud off all i've achieved at such a young age

Flirting is not for the souless, infact, flirting is a great charachteristic, so long as you dont abuse it too much, that you get a reputation. Every girl likes to hear, "your eyes are so pretty, you have a lovely smile" etc.

And iman is not related to having a soul. Everyone has a soul, sometimes good, sometimes bad, and it spreads across all religions and castes, so that is absolute rubbish in my opinion, but i wouldnt possibly want to change your opinion desert boy, because we live in a world, where people do not value others opinions, and i dont want to be one of them

In conclusion flirting is cool... but in the right proportions
Posted 30 Jun 2004

Topic: Wat Is It?

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it cant be an uncle because he was walking with a women. read it properly.
Posted 17 Jun 2004

Topic: Flirting

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Oh my god, tum sab abhi bache ho, aur flirting ke batein karte houn. Flirting karna koi humse sekhe :-)

I think boys and girls both do alot of flirting, but it is usually initiated by the boy and followed through by the girl.

Jab jawan ho, to thodi se dilagi karni chahiye
Posted 16 Jun 2004

Topic: Wat Is It?

Shararati

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Nahi Khushi, you are wrong, because the mans mother in law is either the daughter or the mother. Know if the mans mother in law is the Mother, then the daughter is his wifes bhabhi, in which case he is walking with his wifes bhabhi's daughter in law, and if his mother in law is the daughter then he is walking with his wifes Khalla. His Wifes Taee or Chachi is not going to be his mother in laws mums daughter. Do you understand, or shall i explain it better for you, with diagrams

Dont worry, as you grow up, you will begin to understand these things better
Posted 16 Jun 2004