Shararati
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Mein kismat ko nahin mante, Khuda insaan ko wohi deta hai, jis ki liya insaan khud mehnat kare. Tum mehnat nahin karoge, to phir Khuda tumhari tamanna kyoun puri karey?
Waise itna bhi maat ghabrao, mein aap kiliye dua karongi, aur tum thore si mehnat karo!!!!
Shararati
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Aab se mera bhi roza raste mein kuljayga, pata nahin kyoun yeh log ghariyo ko aghe peeche karte hai. samajh nahin atee.
Yaha paar bhi banking mein bohat opportunities hain, lekin paise itne nahi hai.
mein eik sawaal poochte hou, agar kisi ko jawaab dina ho to. Agar paise ka masla zara bhi nahi hota, aur aap jo bhi kaam karte, izaat se zindagi guzaar sakte hai, yo phir ap kya profession karna pasand karenge?
Shararati
Age: 124
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I also have the Halal and Haram problem in my workplace. Every time we go out I have to stick to Vegetarian options or Fish because the places we end up gong arent halal, but if you have been used to it, since a child it stops bothering you after a while.
Mujhe zada mushkil taab lagta hai, jab woh saab sharab peene keliye jate hai, aur mein baar baar inkaar karti houn. But it is part of life... dealing with situations like this. I think that kind of work culture is very common in places like china and Japan.
Shararati
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thanks! i will watch it...
yes u sure need to be a very strong person to wear hijaab in the west! i am fasting and the only foreigner and muslim at the place i work. some people react really nice but other are just so stupid!
__________________ shaista
I work in a large organisation, where there are only 3 muslims including myself. I only know one of the other muslims, who fast selectively. I have a really supportive team, there quite understanding about it, and my manager is letting me work flexible hours, so i come in early and leave early. I make it home in time for Ifthari. I think the uk organisations are becoming very multi-culturally aware and are trying to make it easier for the employee's.
It is a challenge trying to balance work and homelife for a women these days, especially when you have ethnic cultural barriers, such as a women is responsible for running the house... it makes Ramadhan even more difficult to cope with... but my pappa is cool and helps me out loads He is the best dad in the world
Shararati
Age: 124
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Hijaab pe restriction lagana buri baat hai, lekin soocho aisa wo kyoun karte hai. Saree duniye mein khouf pehlgaya hai, ke muslim terrorist hai, and France is trying to maintain its power over the nation. I think it is really bad. Yaha Uk, mein koi restrictions nahi, aur 80% of the muslims dont wear them. I think it takes a really strong person to wear a hijaab in western society, someone that is strong enough to handle the bullying and abuse and constant ignorance that they are faced with in day to day life. I guess i have moved away from the topic... so i will shut up.
By the way, in the UK, there is an excellent show on Wednesday night, 9pm on BBC2, if your interested in the political stereotypes/issues muslims are faced with. This week thay talked about Sayed Khutb... very interesting.
Shararati
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What are you talking about teen tracker, there is loads of money in IT especially if you are a business analyst. Web developing doesnt have as much money, but money isnt everything, you need to be in a job you enjoy. Thats what is important. There are excellent career opportunities in IT worldwide, especially in UK.
Shararati
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Wa wa... kya baat hai, is group mein mere hi kami thi. Mein Project management kar rahi houn,Education sector mein... in the uk. Is se pehle main Project manager thi for a Mental Health Project, aur boodhe louko ke saath bhi kam kiya hai. I loved working in Mental Health, Zanhi marizo ke baath he kuch aur hai. I've loved all my previous jobs, lekin yeh wala jo hai na, zara bhi acha nahi lagta. Sochrahi ho, ke aab ke baar koi international aid work/project mile, to mazaa hi ajai
Shararati
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What day are people starting Fasting in different parts of the world?
I live in UK (Coventry) and i have started fasting today (friday) and some people are starting tomorrow. We have 2 main mosques here, aur haar saal yehi problem hoti hai, ke yaha ki maulana eik din pe razee he nahin hote. Aab yaha eid 2 dino peh banai jaigee. Oof eik aur tareekah mil gaya logo ko alag karne ka.
Shararati
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Love can be defined, but it is different for everyone. Some people would die for love, others couldnt build up the courage to ask there parents to let them marry the person of their dreams.
Shararati
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I think your partly right desert boy.
Although i have been born and raised in the uk, i come from a very traditional family, that has enforced the ethics and values of religion and pakistani culture in us.
I know some of the stuff i have said probably makes you think that i am a tart or whatever, but i see this forum as a bit of entertainment where i can pretend to be somnething i am not, and see how the world views me, and hopefully realise that the person i really am, who lived with all the restrictions and struggled for opportunities has actually benefitted from it all.
Shararati
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This conversation started of being fun, now its boring, and no one is posting any more replies.... what to do. I know, why dont we make this interesting, by sharing our chat up lines.
Shararati
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I dont hide my age, i am 25... and very proud off all i've achieved at such a young age
Flirting is not for the souless, infact, flirting is a great charachteristic, so long as you dont abuse it too much, that you get a reputation. Every girl likes to hear, "your eyes are so pretty, you have a lovely smile" etc.
And iman is not related to having a soul. Everyone has a soul, sometimes good, sometimes bad, and it spreads across all religions and castes, so that is absolute rubbish in my opinion, but i wouldnt possibly want to change your opinion desert boy, because we live in a world, where people do not value others opinions, and i dont want to be one of them
In conclusion flirting is cool... but in the right proportions
Shararati
Age: 124
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Nahi Khushi, you are wrong, because the mans mother in law is either the daughter or the mother. Know if the mans mother in law is the Mother, then the daughter is his wifes bhabhi, in which case he is walking with his wifes bhabhi's daughter in law, and if his mother in law is the daughter then he is walking with his wifes Khalla. His Wifes Taee or Chachi is not going to be his mother in laws mums daughter. Do you understand, or shall i explain it better for you, with diagrams
Dont worry, as you grow up, you will begin to understand these things better
He is the best dad in the world 
wala love kiya hai???? 
