sir u mind if i say sumthing...
the thing is emotions do count in ones life...
but to sum extent.... ur life must not be occupied wid emotions only....
another thing is...who said so MUHABBAT is a DUKH as u said AUR BHI DUKH HAIN ZAMANAY MAIN MUHABBAT KAY SIWA...
i guess for me n for millions of others luv is not a DUKH.... its how u take it...
its like life... wat matters is how u take life... n same goes for LUV...
luv doesnt only mean LUV IN AN AFFAIR OR LUV BTW A GIRL N A GUY.... luv can be wid ur parents ur family, ur wife, ur kids, WID ALLAH ALMIGHTY....
luv in all its forms is a blessing from ALLAH....
dats wat i think...
u might have sum other school of thought...
peace out!