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Any habits you quit this Ramadhan 4 good!

Backbiting
slandering
lying
cheating
stealing
mistreating others
smoking
drinking
stinginess
greed
pride / arrogance
indecenct/abusive language
hurting people's feeling
lustful gazing on people
anger
seeking praise 4 self / attention
insensitivity to others suffering
grumpy face
show off
disobedience to parents
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Posted on 11/5/2004 11:24:26 PM

not in ramadan,, but for last few months im trying to quit each n every bad habit

-pride / arrogance... hmmm i didnt realise before but i think im (i was) arrogant,, as i cant see any other big bad habit in myself,, this cld b the reason of all my pbs

-seeking praise 4 self / attention ?¿ explain plz,, seeking praise is wrong but how cld it b wrong to seek attention ??
-grumpy face
-disobedience to parents... hmmm,, i believe ehtsaab sab se pehle apna hota hai, then try to change ur family/friends..   i dont disobey my parents, but.........
i cant stand when they say n beleive somethng wrong

Posted on 11/6/2004 4:12:34 PM

hmm ramazan hum main say bohat ko change kerta hai ... par jinhein nahi hona hota .. they don't even care in this month too.. .. laiken bohat say loog achay khasay naik hoo jatay hein ramzan main aur ramzan kay baad .. back to the routine.. ramazan is liay aata hai kay one month main hum ko change ker day .. aur hum baqee months bhee isee tarhaan rahein .. par aisa hota nahi hai..
well .. as long as topic is concerned .. umm .. i tried my level best to quit every bad habit ..

Posted on 11/6/2004 4:45:14 PM

ermm...
well..
ermmm.....
i haven't drunk as much coffee as i normally do...
does that count?

Posted on 11/6/2004 5:07:05 PM

drinking too much coffee isn't a sin or a bad habit .. its just a change in ur appetite..

Posted on 11/6/2004 5:15:45 PM

main nay kia soochna hai?

bola tu hai.. i m trying my level best to quit every bad habit of mine in this ramzan..

Posted on 11/6/2004 8:46:21 PM

tu ghalat kia kaha hai .. meray saamnay kuch friends kay cases hein jinhein ramzan main bhe asar nahi hota.. aur kuch ko agar hoo bhee jaiy tu sirf temporary ramazan taak .. us kay baad back tu the routine..

Posted on 11/6/2004 9:35:55 PM

SALL:
not in ramadan,, but for last few months im trying to quit each n every bad habit

-pride / arrogance... hmmm i didnt realise before but i think im (i was) arrogant,, as i cant see any other big bad habit in myself,, this cld b the reason of all my pbs

-seeking praise 4 self / attention ?¿ explain plz,, seeking praise is wrong but how cld it b wrong to seek attention ??
-grumpy face
-disobedience to parents... hmmm,, i believe ehtsaab sab se pehle apna hota hai, then try to change ur family/friends..   i dont disobey my parents, but.........
i cant stand when they say n beleive somethng wrong


doing something good to seek mere attention or praise makes one self-centered. Seeking encouragement, reward & approval of good work, feedback and accepting criticism makes one humble.

Only when parents command shirk or to commit acts displeasing to Allah, one may not obey 'em. In all other circumstances they should be obeyed. showing displeasure to parents even by sighing "uff" is prohibitted. If you disagree with something they say or believe, be very cautious and polite suggesting your view or other alternative.

Posted on 11/9/2004 11:01:00 PM

my parents r not bad ppl sd
but they r like the rest of world

and i really think that im not made for this world
even my parents think so
hmmm,,
forget it,, im mad

Posted on 11/9/2004 11:04:54 PM

WELL
MEINEY LARKION SE DOOR REHNE KI KOSHISH KI HEY,
BUT FOR RAMADAN ONLY

Posted on 11/10/2004 12:44:05 AM

Badshah, this means you don't want to leave a habit, you just did it for a month.

Ramadhan is like an incubator where people go in for the treatment of various imanic diseases so that when they come out of it they are free of those deseases. What you are saying is like a drug adict goes to a rehab program with the intention of taking a break for a little while.

Posted on 11/10/2004 2:40:56 AM

SALL:
my parents r not bad ppl sd
but they r like the rest of world

and i really think that im not made for this world
even my parents think so
hmmm,,
forget it,, im mad

I am sorry but I disagree w/ ur statements. It wasn't a mistake or fluke by which you came to this world. Allah SWT didnot create anything without a purpose in this world.
I never said ur parents are bad ppl and if they are like the rest of the world, it is nothing strange. Either you hv not seen parents who are really wiered, strange, or even worse, or that you think you are someone special.
This order of not even saying 'uff' to parents applies to even abusive and wiered parents as well.

you said, you are mad
Faradiya has been saying it for sometime but, you have been denying. I am glad you finally admitted to it

Posted on 11/10/2004 2:51:01 AM