who you speaking about babe?

no 1 in particular . Just how annoying it is when people find it hard 2 be truthful

topic samajh ahi aya

someone summarize plz

some desi folks

who themselves as something
and are somehting else

usually done to impress others


and sometimes they backbite

talk about others behind their backs

shh girl dont even tell me about it

I was born in so called india town

and surrounded by stupid desi folks

i know everyhting your tlkaing about

lol sme eya.
they r sooo nosy n gossip all da tme
their own daughters tend 2 be worse!

dual faced ppl

"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)

dont point nothing to guyz..coz uc theres no such thing you know as picking out the best woman it's only a question of comparative badness

SohniKuddi:

You see one side, the other is hidden but revealed to others. the face you see is alien to others. bitter backbiting......ouch!

i don't know the exact words of this hadit .. but its something like this:

jo shaks apnay bhai ki chugli kerta hai wo is tarhaan hai jaisay us ka ghoast kha raha ho

tu kaun aisa chahta hai..

actually the problem is people doen't even realise they r backbiting .. we should make them realise wht exaclty they r doing ..

SALL:

dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)

i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.

to topic:
only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.

djeedja lotta:

SALL:

dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)

i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.

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only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.

I agreed wid u buddy. But I think

what Sall meant was if someone

pretends to be a good guy but

he actually is not then he is

the worst person in the world.

And that is true too.


Newayz Welcome to JB

djeedja lotta:

SALL:

dual faced ppl
"iss shaks se zyada past insaan aur koi nahi k jo kuch log isse samajh rahe hein woh dar-hakeekat aisa na ho"
(syed ali hajveri)

i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.

to topic:
only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.

JEE JEE JEE, 2 SE ZIYADA BHI CHEHRE HOTE HAIN MAGAR FOR 1 THERE IS ONE FACE THAT 1 PERSON SEES BUT NOT THE OTHER (S)

djeedja lotta:

i am not agreed with this saying. agar koi insan dar haqeeqat acha ho aur log usse bura samajh rahe hon to past log honge na ke woh aik shakhs.

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only two faces?? idher to baz dafa aik insaan me hi najaanay kitne insaan ghusse baithe hote hain.

deja vu is rite
i was talking abt bad ppl who tend to prove the opposite of their personality


but lemme say something
aik bura shaks jo khud ko acha bana k peish karta hai is like a doctor jo logon ko dhoka deta hai (nuksan kitna bar hai, u can imagine)
but
aik acha shaks jo khud ko bura bana k peish karta hai is like a doctor who has ability to save lives,, par woh sirf apni seht ki hifazat karta hai, auron ki parwah nahi karta
got it ??

han par kissi waja se log usse khamkha mei bura kahein its a different thing,,,

hamm samjhe hue hain, jiss bhais me jo aaye

of course i know, who wanted to say what. but the saying was not precise enough for me. thats all.

How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)

All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away

SohniKuddi:

How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)

All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away

Boy! that's a good one

SK, I don't know anything about you, but my response will only help you if your understanding syncs with ...you will find out.

Know that, when someone backbites you, they are gifting you their good deeds for free and taking your bad ones in trade-off. So you be content to find it saved with Allah if you are patient and hopeful of meeting your Lord.

One time, a great scholar found out about a person who spoke ill behind his back. This knowledgeable person prepared a nice present for that person and took it to his house. Person asked the scholar of reason for the present, he presented his gratitude to him for scrubbing his sins with ill speech.

Secondly, those who talk bad behind you, they are not your friends becuz they thrive on your flesh. If you are close to them, try to correct them with politeness. Confrontation without insult or public outburst may bring about desireable changes. Insha-Allah

One who speaks ill of others to you, rest assured, 'll speak ills of you to others. So, discourage and resist gossip of others in your presence.

Gossip is a disease of heart and tounge is its tools.

Last but not least, pray alot and ask Allah to forgive and guide such persons who backbite, angels will make the same dua for you.

Smooth_daddy:

SohniKuddi:

How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)

All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away

Boy! that's a good one

SK, I don't know anything about you, but my response will only help you if your understanding syncs with ...you will find out.

Know that, when someone backbites you, they are gifting you their good deeds for free and taking your bad ones in trade-off. So you be content to find it saved with Allah if you are patient and hopeful of meeting your Lord.

One time, a great scholar found out about a person who spoke ill behind his back. This knowledgeable person prepared a nice present for that person and took it to his house. Person asked the scholar of reason for the present, he presented his gratitude to him for scrubbing his sins with ill speech.

Secondly, those who talk bad behind you, they are not your friends becuz they thrive on your flesh. If you are close to them, try to correct them with politeness. Confrontation without insult or public outburst may bring about desireable changes. Insha-Allah

One who speaks ill of others to you, rest assured, 'll speak ills of you to others. So, discourage and resist gossip of others in your presence.

Gossip is a disease of heart and tounge is its tools.

Last but least, pray alot and ask Allah to forgive and guide such persons who backbite, angels will make the same dua for you.

i completely agree wid u

Smooth_daddy:

SohniKuddi:

How are you supposed 2 deal with a 2 faced person?
confronting them of their actions may cause tension between the 2 of you and also arguments arise, but you cant ignore it knowing someone is talking ill of you, it makes you feel small in front of people (when people are gossiping about your internal affairs which you intended to keep to yourself)

All my life i have kept myself to myself, i feel that people have no business in my business, but you still feel quite paranoid (news leaks and sooner or later ppl know everything down to the dirt under your fingernails) and when your back is turned whispers start to float. It's always the usual suspect, u can spot a gossip from miles away

Boy! that's a good one

SK, I don't know anything about you, but my response will only help you if your understanding syncs with ...you will find out.

Know that, when someone backbites you, they are gifting you their good deeds for free and taking your bad ones in trade-off. So you be content to find it saved with Allah if you are patient and hopeful of meeting your Lord.

One time, a great scholar found out about a person who spoke ill behind his back. This knowledgeable person prepared a nice present for that person and took it to his house. Person asked the scholar of reason for the present, he presented his gratitude to him for scrubbing his sins with ill speech.

Secondly, those who talk bad behind you, they are not your friends becuz they thrive on your flesh. If you are close to them, try to correct them with politeness. Confrontation without insult or public outburst may bring about desireable changes. Insha-Allah

One who speaks ill of others to you, rest assured, 'll speak ills of you to others. So, discourage and resist gossip of others in your presence.

Gossip is a disease of heart and tounge is its tools.

Last but not least, pray alot and ask Allah to forgive and guide such persons who backbite, angels will make the same dua for you.

THATS RIGHT, I AGREE WITH U TOTALY, I VALUE UR ADVICE AND THANKYOU