yep rite gunah karne se dil siyah hota hai
but wot does it mean ??

dil pay mohar means.......abb ye insaan kabi change nahi ho sakta...............ess ko samjanay(sedhi rah) ka koi faieda nahi esay ess kay haal pay choor dea jayee.........































kaheen tumheen tu nahi kesi nein kah dea ye.........

Allah na kare,, mujhe kyun koi kehne laga




okk,, but when u say ab yeh insaan change nahi ho sakta
means uss ki maafi nahi hogi
par agar woh change hona chahe to ??
i mean aisa kya gunah hai k phir woh banda change ho hi nahi sakta,,, coz it s said k maafi k darwaze harr wakt khule rehte hein

maafi tu tub ho gey jub dil mein maafi ka khayaal ayee ga..................aik insaan agar sari zindagi butoon ki pooja karta hai ..........app usay chahay jesay be islam ki davaat dein woe kabi be usay kabool nahi karay ga.................woe apnay aqeeday pay emaan rukhta hoo ga..............ore apnay app ko gulat nahi samajta ho ga....................jub woe apnay app ko gulat he nahi samjay ga tu usay apnay app ko change karnay ka khayaal kesay aa sakta hai ..............jub change karnay ka khayaal he nahi ayee ga tu.............maafi mangnay ka tu sawaal he nahi paeeda hota..............

I think kay aesaa insanoo kay leye kaha geya hai .........un kay diloo pay mohar lugi hai...........jo gulat tu hotay hain paar sari zindagi un ko ye ehsaas he nahi hota kay woe gulat hai.....balkay woe ussay he sahi samaj kay wo kartay rehtay hain...........

nah,, still didnt get,,
jo shaks aik aise ghar mei paida hua jahan sab buton ko poojte hein,, to it s obvious k woh issi ko sahi samjhe ga
iss mei uss ka koi itna zyada kasooor to nahi hai na,, coz he didnt choose to b born in a non muslim family


aur dil pe mohar to muslims k bhi lagti hai
jab k humein sahi galt bohot clearly bataya gaya hai
phir hum saari zindagi iss dhoke mei kaise reh sakte hein k koi gunah karein par khud ko galt samjhein

ya khuda ya mujay bewakoof bana dei ye essay kuch aaqal dei day....................


that was just an exampleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee eee

that means aik insaan jo apni buri aadat ya baat paar ya aaqeday paar itna paka ho kay usay wo bura he na lugta ho.........chahayee koi lakh samja lei woe usay chornay kay leye tayaar he na hooooo......choray tu tub jub usay woe kaam ya aadat usay buri lugti ho..........uss ka uss pay yakeen ho kay ye jo kuch mein keh raha hoon ye he thek hai baki sub gulat hain...........

iss mei cheekhne ki kya baat hai
par mera kehne ka matlab sirf yeh tha k,, dil pe mohr lagna to aik hadd se guzarne wali stage hui na

aur me samajhti hu k jo shaks nahi janta, hakeekat ko nahi samajhta, ignorant hai.. uss ki to shayad phir maafi ho jae
par jo log sab kuch jante hein,,, achai burai mei fark samajhte hein,, phir bhi burai kiye jaate hein to woh to zyada gunahgar hue na


but if u dont want to answer,, to kuch nahi kehna beshak
koi baat nahi

actually i don't know exactally the meaning ..........mein jo be kehta hoon uss ka koi source nahi hota hai.......... i mean jesay smooth kehta hai ...........woe jo be baat kehta hai islam kay nukta nazar sei kehta hai............ore meri bateen saab khayaali hoti hai.......i mean jo mein feel karta hoon............ess leye i think ess sawal ka jawaab woe behtaar toor pay dei sakta hai......islam kay nukta nazar sei.............

you are right jo loog jantay be hain phir be woe kaam kartay hain shaied un ko he kehta hain dil pay mohar lugna............................because uss ka gunnah zeyada hai......I am confused

yep i know,,, SD has quite lot of knowledge abt islam
par i beleive niyyat aur dil saaf rakh k sochein to hum khud se bhi bohot batein samajh sakte hein


coz jab Allah ki koi kitab nazil nahi hui thi to tab bhi ache log hote the,, tab bhi log achai k liye larte the (beshak aise log zyada nahi the)
par paighambar/nabi apni soch aur niyyat se hi to sache raste pe chalte the na,,
(dont take me wrong,, im not comparing anyone to any prophet or Allah's messenger)




well,, now back to dil pe mohr,,
i was always confused abt this term, coz it s said Khuda jisse chahe seedha rasta dikha de,, to me hamesha sochti thi k aise hi Allah miyan jiss k dil pe mohr laga dein to woh shaks maafi nahi maange ga, par yeh (Allah mujhe maaf kare) thori si na insaafi ho jae gi


few days back,, i heard someone exlaining this term,,
in vv simple words, aur khud se samajh aa gai mujhe,, just wanted to share it,,
bass :)

hameen be samjaa dein na ....................hum pehlay he emtihaan dei dei kay thuk chukay hain.......





















































ishq kay emtihaan.........

that person said,,
jab bhi insaan koi gunah karta hai to uss k dil pe aik syah daag par jata hai,,, aur sache dil ki maafi k saath hi woh daagh dhul jata hai,,,

par agar koi shaks gunah karta jae,, Allah ki nafarmani karta rahe, apne kiye pe kabhi sharminda na ho, maafi na maange to ahista ahista uss ka poora dil siyah ho jata hai,,
aur tab uss ko koi jitna bhi samjha le uss ka dil maafi ki taraf aata hi nahi,,,


it s just like kissi shaks ko cigrette peene ki adat hai,, pehle pehle woh apni marzi se cigrette nahi chorta,, phir thori thori adat ho jati hai
aur aik wakt aisa aata hai k cigrette k bager uss ka guzara hi nahi hota
dil pe morh lagna aise hai jaise cigrette peene waale ko lungs cancer ho jae,, aur aisi stage bhi hoti hai jab doctors jawab de dete hein,,, ab woh cigrette chor bhi de to his life is finished

gunah karna ACTION hai aur dil pe mohr lagna uss ka REACTION..

but still maaf karna Khuda k haath mei hai..
Allah miyan humein harr gunah se bachae rakhein,, dilon ko behisi aur khudgarzi se paak rakhein,, aur iss mohr lagne ki kefiyat se bachae rakhein
Ameen

that's a nice example .......make sense...........ameen jee ameen.......khuda hameen bachayee rukhay aesi stage sei............rukh ore jism ki jung sari zindagi rehni chahiyee................

You know funny thing is that knowledge is there...in the Quran & hadith ... its just upto us to take a dip into it.

Sall you found the correct answer. I however, wanted to add a cpl o'things.

I'm sure you know the diff b/w muslim & momin... people in the time of Prophet (pbuh), especially after conquest of Mekkah, entered the fold of Islam and claimed to be believers. Allah SWT revealed the verses in Suratul Hujurat, saying : The Araab (bedouin Arabs) said the believed, say to them that they did not believe, they merely submitted (accepted) the truth but Imaan did not reach your heart...

In verses before this one Allah SWT gave the description of iman settling in the heart. He, the exalted says to true believers (momins): And But Allah has endeared the faith to you and has beautified it in your hearts and has made disbelief, Fusuq and `Isyan hateful to you.

So mere muslims whose heart is not attached with Allah but only performs rituals is prone to sinning because the heart devoid of imaan accepts notions of disbelief, fisq and isyan and resultantly sins without even thinking its a big deal. When this practice continues unabated, heart becomes like a hard baron ground that will not produce any vegetation (virtuous deed) even after a heavy rainfall (reminders after reminders from the book of Allah). This is when they reject faith and stick to their own set of believes no matter how many proves may be brought out from the Book of Allah and the life of His Prophet (pbuh).

more in the next post

On the other hand, you will find those who were born in a non-Muslim household, but they accept faith and remain steadfast on it.

This leads to your other question, Sall, about

SALL:

well,, now back to dil pe mohr,,
i was always confused abt this term, coz it s said Khuda jisse chahe seedha rasta dikha de,, to me hamesha sochti thi k aise hi Allah miyan jiss k dil pe mohr laga dein to woh shaks maafi nahi maange ga, par yeh (Allah mujhe maaf kare) thori si na insaafi ho jae gi

This phenomenon is so very wrongly understood among Muslims so much so that all the blame for mischief is set upon Allah.

Allah SWT has been merciful to mankind as He sent messengers and messages to guide the mankind to the true path. Guidance is for those who truly seeks it. And one who receives guidance in the heart, none can misquide such person who has accepted (choosen) to hold on to Allah's guidance. And the one who doesn't seek guidance from Allah, will not find it and will remain misguided. Allah SWT sayas in Suratul Baqarah: "Those are they who have purchased error for guidance and torment at the price of forgiveness."

SD
as usual


yep i noticed that in Quran pak we mention 3 categories of ppl
momin, kafir and munafiq



frangi u r not wrong but baki posts parhi hoti to samajh jaate aap k konsi stamp ki baat kar rahe hein hum

It means sealing the heart leaving no opening for reciving any guidance.