agreee jia
no one is against arranged mariage i guess,,,
all i wanted to say is shadi pasand ki ho ya arranged uss k tootne k chances hein,,, so we shd accept both conditions

im sorry for wot happend to u pyarishq,,,
u r lucky that ur family helped ya,,, may u stay vvvv happy all ur life :)
but see u said "dont loose ur self respect for one stupid boy who u thinku luv its not worth it"
it can happen in an arranged marriage,,

my own friend got married to her cousin,, it was an arranged marriage,, wot that guy did to my friend is a long story but she tried twice to kill helself,, and her parents didnt help her to get rid of her husband

so yarrr,, we cant say that arrange marriage is good,, or love marriage is bad,,
nothing is completely good or bad..
its jsut the relationship between parents and children which is reason of all troubles..

SALL:

ZEESHANAHMED:

OK answer to one question. Everyone here knows that, in Islam, muslims are not allowed to even see any non mahram, then what if that was truly practised, such events (leaving homes) could happen??

Z dear,,,
i ve no answer to ur question,,
balke me khud aap se aik saval karu gi
ARE WE LIVING IN AN ISLAMIC SOCIETY ??
mehram/na-mehram to bohot door ki baat hai,, we r not practicing any islamic rules,, this is a fact,,
ghar se bhaag jana is a consequence of our wrong way of life,, yeh khud se aik masla nahi hai,, yeh parents ki ignorance jo unhon ne apne bachon ko transfer ki uss ka nateeja hai,,, try to focus on reasons and not on the consequence

anwer tu har kisi ka yahi hoga kay we have no answer bcos we are not living in islamic society (should be called true islamic society). it means kay Islam main tu aisa nahi hai na kay parents ki marzi kay baghair shadi ki jaey bulkay is tarah ghar hi chor dia jaey. haan aisa hota hai kyunkay tarbiyat aisi nahi ki gae hoti, aur jo log sahi tarbiyat kartay hain wahaan aisa hota nahi.

rite
jab parents tarbiyat hi galt karte hein to how can they blame their children

khair Allah miyan sab ko seedha rasta dikha'ai,, parents ko bhi aur bachon ko bhi
aur bure wakt se bacha'ain sab ko
Ameen

Piarishmohabbat ji, U should atleast love the rite person, love comes after a long time of trust and friendship n after that its hard to get rid of each other!

parents ke bat nahi bas jab koi bure bat hone wale hote hai to pooch ke nahi atey

is mai mere ami abu kekoigalti nahi the bas kismat ke bat hotey hai shaid acha hoa jo hoiaits made me more stronger and wiser and i can actually telme my exprince and not make any1 else go through what iwentthrough

keep posting about this subject and i will haveto getback to u on tuesday

thank you so much for your veiws thanks a lot

i only asked this coz know days this is happening a lot you know thats why
nothing elzse thanks all of u

shahrukh khan:

pyarishqmohabit:

parents ke bat nahi bas jab koi bure bat hone wale hote hai to pooch ke nahi atey

is mai mere ami abu kekoigalti nahi the bas kismat ke bat hotey hai shaid acha hoa jo hoiaits made me more stronger and wiser and i can actually telme my exprince and not make any1 else go through what iwentthrough

keep posting about this subject and i will haveto getback to u on tuesday

insan khud bhi kuch karta hai...not leave to kismat

kismat par leave kon karta hai, maan baap bhi achi nyyat say koshish kartay hain, koshish kay baad hi result Allah par chora jata hai, jo Allah ko manzoor ho.

piyarishqmohabit, i fink ur advice is strong and ur situation must be taken into account, ur lucky to have ur family standing besideu. It's true that parents only want the best for their children and if they make a decision u have to understand that they too have no idea of the outcome and only wish u the best, they rukhsat their daughters with only their best dua.

yeh us people do things in they hands but its good to leave it on GOD
i would

tania:

would you leave home?
this is something which is happneing in our lifes or in those people lifes which are really close to us.
know days dughters go to college or uni and find some guy start its starts to get serious and one day they tell her mum dad.
mum dad disagree and thats is all years of love and everything they throw it away and leave home just coz of one boy they leave everything mum dad family friends those people who are very imported to them they leave and that is they bad worse days start happening.
what would u say on this topic and what would you do?
every girl and son needs they parents blessing when they start new life if you dont get they blessing your life is hell do you agree or disagree?

wuteva da reason cud b but i can neva think of leaving home, my parents n my siblings

ummm bazi and me are friends
he understands me
nothing happened to me
dont worry