oh GOD...mother and child relationship is not build by nature
well sort of
but RRRrrr your getting me confused
limmie explain
A child learns to trust its mother the first year when its born
the theory is called
trust vs. mistrust: Its Erkisons term for the first crisis of psychosocial development. Infant learns whether the world is a secure place where all of its needs are met. Or an unpredictable place where needs are sometimes met.
So my point is...if a child's needs were not alwys met in infancy it effects them through out life. and if they were met...the have good trust.
And so trust is made and shared with friends and loved ones. But you have to have them first to trust them.
everyone has their own opinion 
