I grown up in a Single Family system. I lived happily with my mother,father 2 sisters and 1 brother.We enjoyed good days and black nights together. My Maternal and Paternal relatives used to say publically that it is imposible that I am able to complete my studies.I did it then they said I am not able to get a job. I got a job which is away from my town.I moved there. They annoyed my family. They try to humilate my family. They said you are liar,cheater and self centered. My Uncles always try to degrade me in front of others . I quit every thing. They expected that I marry one of their daughters when i became sucessful. I cut my self out of my family.I love my mother,father, sisters and brother but I hate every realtive.I can do any thing for my family but not for others.I dont want to keep contact with my relatives. I wanna know whether I do it right by rejecting my cousins or not, whether My decision from cutting off from my family is right or wrong.
Please try to be serious because it is very important for me and my family.My request to admin and mods to made this topic sticky for few days until i find my answer.
Thankyou
motoo ,Dr and HH thanx aap kay comments acchay lage main ne kab kaha kay mere ghaltee nahin hay. kuch ghaltyan mere bhi hain. malsan main akela rehna pasand karta tha to mujhe un ko samjhne ka moka hi nahin mila.Lekin unlogon ki taraf se itne ilzamat milne kay baad bhi abhi apni behn ki shadee main un sab se mulaqat hui to sab se acchi tarh mila lekin is ka matlab hi sab ne ghalat liya zara se baat par mere mother ki insult ki ab aap hi batain jo log mere mother ki izzat nahin karsakte jaisay mere mamoon ,mere khala woh mujh se kia apni izzat karwana expect karsakte hain.
Sahee kaha yeh sab kay sath hota hay
main apni ghaltion ko manta hoon k main apne reltives ko nahin janta tha na un se milna pasand karta tha leiin us ki itni baree saza to nahin milni chahye
