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SALL:
but isnt it obvious

matlab k
having kids is a woman's right,, howcome its allowed for man and not for woman,,,


no, I didn't say that

Posted on 8/19/2005 9:07:12 PM

oiiiiii,,
kya naaa
doosri shadi se mera matlab yehi hai k after divorce
aik time mei thori bola hai




it seems obvious k aurat bachon k liye divorce le k doosri shadi kar sakti hai (who ll marry a divorced woman,, that s an other quest)

and now 'grave and pressing circom'
if a man is allowed to marry another woman for children,, bcoz its his right and bcoz not having kids is a 'grave and pressing matter' for him
can u imagine situation of a woman who knows that she ll never b a mother,, moreover her husband marry someone else,,,,,,, a situation jab usse kissi se bhi zyada suport ki zaroorat hoti hai usse akela chor diya jata hai
and no one say a word,,, bass itna k mard ko bachon k liye doosri shadi ka haq hai

agar aisa hai to,,,,,,,, same for a woman,,,, woh apne iss right se kyun mehroom rahe,,
mard ko bachon ki zaroorat hoti hai apne khandan ka naam barhane liye (duhhhhhhh,,,) par aurat k liye its much more important, i dont think if a man can understand it



aur sabbb se barh k
agar couple mei itna zyada pyaar hai to they can spend their life without children,, and y not adopting a child
kya fark parta hai




source
www.understanding-islam.com

Posted on 8/19/2005 9:53:48 PM

Sall, my friend, I respect your opinion and your intelligence very much. I fully agree with the notion that a woman has the right to seek divorce on the ground that her natural and rightful desire for motherhood can not be fullfilled. Its grave and pressing enough.

Second marriage doesn't mean the first wife's left high and dry.

Yes a couple can spend the life without children but Allah swt says, "Beautified to humans the love of desire for women and children......". So if they desire children, they have the right to have it.

Posted on 8/19/2005 10:48:35 PM

Soching ...

Posted on 8/20/2005 9:47:17 PM

Smooth_daddy:
Second marriage doesn't mean the first wife's left high and dry.

im not asking wot doest it MEAN
only how it happens,, wot is said is justified and 'beautiful'
but no one act like that


Posted on 8/21/2005 2:01:57 PM

Chalo Hum Maan Letay Hainnn

Posted on 8/27/2005 1:09:58 AM

na mano beshak
sanu ki

Posted on 8/29/2005 10:05:46 PM

Tanu tay waqayee kujj nahin

Posted on 8/30/2005 12:07:51 AM