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SALL:
but i ve seen loads of cases where parents are like north n south
both of them think to do the best for their kids

id say parents are as wrong as their children could be


naah...i know my parents think good for me to, but they've already told me...when there is a problem between me and my wife, they r out..it;s for me and my wife to sort it out unless we ask them for help...

i've already been getting many suggestions ans tips onto make sure i don;t bug my wife like i do to my parents take care of her etc etc...

my mom always said this..and to the date..she;s true to it...she said...we love u alot...and we will love u;r wife more the u cuz she came here because of u...

and my dad is same way too

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:52:22 PM

long story short sall, as grandparents, offcourse they want best for their child too...and as a mom, u want best for kid too...

so...even though grandparents have right to suggest u stuff for the kid...they can;t impose it..final dicision have to be of parents (u or u;r husband) and u;r parents have to understand that

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:53:49 PM

mere nazdeek average means,,,
"jaise k zyada log hein"

do u think ppl who lie or steal dont have friends ??
do u think murderers cant make ppl laff ??
do u think being religious (prayers and all the rest) make u care abt others ??

they all have priorities
like i can b vv loving, caring to my family and friends and an a**hole to the rest of the world
arent we all like that

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:54:50 PM

u r lucky shahenshah

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:55:21 PM

SALL:
mere nazdeek average means,,,
"jaise k zyada log hein"

do u think ppl who lie or steal dont have friends ??
do u think murderers cant make ppl laff ??
do u think being religious (prayers and all the rest) make u care abt others ??

they all have priorities
like i can b vv loving, caring to my family and friends and an a**hole to the rest of the world
arent we all like that


u took me wrong...i meant with ALL those qualities and more...u said u can be nice to u;r friends but an a**hole to world..well, i treat everyone same way..friends or strangers....with care..see the diffeence?

and i dunno if u call it average or over-average, but i';m a libra and i tend to look at things positively

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:56:37 PM

we are a bit out of topic

i was talking abt "how parents could b wrong toward galz when it comes to their professional life"

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:57:18 PM

SALL:
we are a bit out of topic

i was talking abt "how parents could b wrong toward galz when it comes to their professional life"


well, give some examples

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:58:00 PM

mere gym ka time ho gya hae..baki baaad mae

Posted on 11/28/2005 11:59:38 PM

im not gonna tell ya "my dukh bhari daastan"


for example
galz can b very high educated,, but vv few of them carry on their prfessional life after wedding
and even if they do so,, it will always b a "lagi bandhi job"

a REAL PROFESSIONAL CAREER
taking risks,, facing real life (im not talking abt stunts in movies)
y are we not allowed to decide abt WOT I WANT TO BE
parents ko kyun lagta hai k hum iss kabil nahi hai,, y dont they trust us

Posted on 11/29/2005 12:03:38 AM

they trust u but they dont trust the world,couldnt it b so?

Posted on 11/29/2005 12:07:04 AM

y did they bring me to this world then


coz after all this world dont worth anything
i dont trust the world either,,, par kyaaaaaaaaa
did i stop living here ???????????   my dad has a professional life,, my bro,,, my husband,, they all have been thru loads of pbs

Y DONT THEY JUST HELP ME TO FACE THESE DIFFICULTIES

Posted on 11/29/2005 12:11:49 AM

hmmm,if u genuinly belive that what u want to do is right and they r wrong then do take a stand but never think negatively abt them.honestly,i have always been a problem child for my family..a menace,i dont remember k main ne kabhi ammi ki aik bhi baat mani ho regardin my life,but time has proved that she was always right,i was always wrong,not that i regret...i'm happy to live the way i like to but i think whatever parents say,ultimately it is for your benefit

Posted on 11/29/2005 12:20:49 AM

SALL:
im not gonna tell ya "my dukh bhari daastan"


for example
galz can b very high educated,, but vv few of them carry on their prfessional life after wedding
and even if they do so,, it will always b a "lagi bandhi job"

a REAL PROFESSIONAL CAREER
taking risks,, facing real life (im not talking abt stunts in movies)
y are we not allowed to decide abt WOT I WANT TO BE
parents ko kyun lagta hai k hum iss kabil nahi hai,, y dont they trust us


well, once u r married, it;s up to u;r husband to let u work or not..u;r parents;s can;t oppose either way

Posted on 11/29/2005 1:16:57 AM

SALL:
y did they bring me to this world then


coz after all this world dont worth anything
i dont trust the world either,,, par kyaaaaaaaaa
did i stop living here ???????????   my dad has a professional life,, my bro,,, my husband,, they all have been thru loads of pbs

Y DONT THEY JUST HELP ME TO FACE THESE DIFFICULTIES


sal, long story short...men and women have different roles in a life and family...men is a bread-earner...and woman takecare of house and is responsible for upbringing of new generation....i know in today;s world...everyone is trying to be equal and do same things...but realistically speaking...men and women r NOT same..they have their own roles they can do perfectly and they try to do other stuff...they r bound to cause problems...by saying this, i dont; mean women can;t work in office or work on comuters, etc etc...but when a woman is out..she is not paying much attention to the kids...i know u can say well, what about woman who can, well, u might "think" they can..but they can;t....

if a women is educated and is professional, she should use that knowledge in upbringing her child and use her education to keep "home" a nice place

Posted on 11/29/2005 1:22:17 AM

SALL:
Y DONT THEY JUST HELP ME TO FACE THESE DIFFICULTIES


how long u think parents will help? only untill they r alive right? then what? u r own u;r own? so why not get used to it now and face the problems with u'r companion...our parents help us all their lives..it;s about time to give them a break

Posted on 11/29/2005 1:24:12 AM

and last but not least...now that u r married...u should listen to u;r parents, but to do it or no...it;s u;r choise..they can;t force u...and i don;t think there's any harm in just listening

Posted on 11/29/2005 1:25:11 AM

wise councel

Posted on 11/29/2005 3:32:17 PM

nikama:
hmmm,if u genuinly belive that what u want to do is right and they r wrong then do take a stand but never think negatively abt them.honestly,i have always been a problem child for my family..a menace,i dont remember k main ne kabhi ammi ki aik bhi baat mani ho regardin my life,but time has proved that she was always right,i was always wrong,not that i regret...i'm happy to live the way i like to but i think whatever parents say,ultimately it is for your benefit

nikamma,,
i ve never been a pb for my parents... but it might be coz i was a child


well,,, "wotever parents say are for children's benefit"
Y --> coz they love us,,, RIGHT ??
i love my parents too,, y they never listen to me ??

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:17:41 PM

"""if a women is educated and is professional, she should use that knowledge in up bringing her child and use her education to keep "home" a nice place""""
dont agreeeeeee,,
i know a gal who is a lawer,, and her husband wanted her to stay at home and look after children,, agar uss ne yehi karna tha to "home economics" classes kafi nahi hein kya ??????????
well its not only one case,, bohot si larkiyan BIZ or IT wagera parh rahi hein,, i cant see iss se bache palne mei kya help mil sakti hai ???

2nd thing,, i know well how to manage time between my studies/job and my child
wot i ve noticed,, paki kids are the most badtameez kids i ve ever seeen,, they r either over-cofident either complexed,, and the amazing thing is they stay 24/7 with their mothers
giving time is not the most important thing,, its wot u teach ur children in less time possible


our parents are over protective,, they keep their gals away from the real world and the day these galz have to face real life they fail

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:27:21 PM

kuch dimagh khali sa he aaj,kuch samajh main nahin a raha

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:27:59 PM

i do listen to them
but im angry coz something s been imposed to me

i ve been told that me apne baron ka mukabla karti hu,,, coz i act exactly like them
how funny,,, when children become like their parents, its not acceptable

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:29:48 PM

SALL:
"""if a women is educated and is professional, she should use that knowledge in up bringing her child and use her education to keep "home" a nice place""""
dont agreeeeeee,,
i know a gal who is a lawer,, and her husband wanted her to stay at home and look after children,, agar uss ne yehi karna tha to "home economics" classes kafi nahi hein kya ??????????


i don;t xpect u to agree...but i think k if a husband don;t want his wife to work, she shouod respect his decision...simple as dat

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:30:22 PM

SALL:

our parents are over protective,, they keep their gals away from the real world and the day these galz have to face real life they fail


well, why do gals wanna face real life in first place? first parents protect them, then husband do...so why they complain?

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:31:33 PM

SALL:
i do listen to them
but im angry coz something s been imposed to me

i ve been told that me apne baron ka mukabla karti hu,,, coz i act exactly like them
how funny,,, when children become like their parents, its not acceptable


ya i am told several time too koi baray chootay ka lehaaz ker liya ker..but u see..esa he hoon mae

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:32:15 PM

OVER protection pe eitraz hai
protection milne pe nahi

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:42:58 PM

aap ko aisa hona ka haq hai coz u r a guy,
zyada se zyada aik baar daant par jae gi,,, iss se zyada kuch nahi
but when it comes to a girl,,,,,,,,,,, kaise bardasht karein

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:44:58 PM

SALL:
OVER protection pe eitraz hai
protection milne pe nahi


r u not over-protected of u;r child? it's human nature to be protective of their kids

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:45:58 PM

larkion ko bhi dant hi parti he koi zinda to nahin gaar dete maan baap.

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:47:58 PM

haaaaaa,,
IM NOT believe me


my children,,, boy/girl
will have to do wotever they want,, i ll only teach them the different between right and wrong
i ll teach them to be responsible of their acts
to assume and correct their mistakes

it will hurt me agar unn k saath galt ho,, but im not gonna live 1000yrs to protect them
unhein khud ko itna strong kyun na bana jae phir

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:50:20 PM

SALL:
haaaaaa,,
IM NOT believe me


my children,,, boy/girl
will have to do wotever they want,, i ll only teach them the different between right and wrong
i ll teach them to be responsible of their acts
to assume and correct their mistakes

it will hurt me agar unn k saath galt ho,, but im not gonna live 1000yrs to protect them
unhein khud ko itna strong kyun na bana jae phir


yup i know...but problem is our culture...and u just can't do anything bout it...u have to go along with it...all u can do is that...whatever happened to u...if u found it unfair...shouldn;t happen to u;r kids...simple as that...

Posted on 11/29/2005 10:55:00 PM