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Should girls marry the person whom they want or.?

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i disagree bhai...how do parents know it;s just attrestion and no love? nah...i know many couples who got love marriage and they r together for years now and r happy...so yaay baat too janab apki ghalat hae k it;s only attraction...


Well, they are pretty smart I guess, so they know very well. which you can't see in love(possibly) they can see.

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sure u can love her also, but u see...apni love ko light switch samjha hae jo click kiya and on and click kiya and off? lol..i mean...love is not forced..love ho jata hae..right? and tell me..in case u never fell in love with galY..then what? i know they still can life peaceful life with girlY as being wife...but...lemme tell u..da memories of galX...would always always cuz problems in marriage...


Well yes love hojata hai, ofcourse if you live with somebody for some time you get attracted pretty soon, and don't give me your example lol that u wont! :p GalX memories well what about the Guy's memories.. they both have it, but if they are not kids they'll understand soon.

Posted on 3/13/2003 2:51:01 PM

Baaz is amazing...

Well admin.. i meant.. ke parents will be happy in ur happiness and vice versa.
But honestly.. except for the guy.. noone wud know.. is it luv or not.. again.. for his confusion.. y shud X and Y suffer??????
coz.. along with.. X's married life and Y's married life.. will never be wot the Cud've been.. it becones a matter of compromise with situation.. not luv

Posted on 3/13/2003 2:52:57 PM

Ok tell you what I think i'll make more enemies here i'll end up here only with a small note.

In my life my parents are everything. What they say is correct even if they are wrong. Coz when I trusted them whole life even when i was kid i did'nt knew anything i trusted them why why why I try to me smart when actually they taught me how to be smart. Coz my life is given to me by my parents and you have to trust them to live happily. All i know is you marry with your parents wish you'll always be happy and successful in life no matter what. Otherwise if you go by your own Best of luck from me!

~~ Snip Snip ~~ I Surrender my self to ma parents ~~

Posted on 3/13/2003 2:58:30 PM

me too.. BORN REBEL :D

but the point is.. again.. end note.. Admin... Life is wot u make.. not wot happens coz of Conditions etc.. its up to u if u use a stone to trip on.. or step on...

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:04:44 PM

WHAT THE HECK Iz Goin ON HERE??? U guys are writing thesis or whaT?

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:06:17 PM

nooo..
no thesis.. just dil ki baat

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:09:57 PM

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but the point is.. again.. end note.. Admin... Life is wot u make.. not wot happens coz of Conditions etc.. its up to u if u use a stone to trip on.. or step on...


Well that's why life is weird until you don't understand it! if you know what life exactly is you won't ask me diz question :)

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WHAT THE HECK Iz Goin ON HERE??? U guys are writing thesis or whaT?

Good idea, we can make thesis of iT! lol

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lol..nah yaar...no enemies here...and everyone got their own opinions and whatever it maybe..offcourse we all respct it...and respect u;r opinion too...but see...my parents mean a lot to me also...but i happen to be a bit rebel kind...lol..dat's why..shniff shniff...

Thank you bazi! :) need not say more! i know something iz wrong inside u & sharara too lol

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:10:15 PM

are u the admin bazi or the admin the admin :P~

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:14:14 PM

never asked u wot is life ADMIN

and end of discussion going nowhere
and well... nothing wrong inside us..
all all of us seem wrong to u.. did u consider.. it might be u with a prob??? LOL ADMIN...
HAAAR GAE :D

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:14:34 PM

BAAZ :D u totally CRAZY

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:15:52 PM

ok now let's shift the war onto the nxt page :)

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:16:27 PM

HIEEEEEEEEEEE DG
how r u?

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:20:27 PM

ok.. BAAZ JEE.. kaie ho???
and admin jee.. u ok?
yaar admin.. Me with u all the way.. ure absolutely right.... in ur own way...

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:33:52 PM

Well sum ppl don't even bother understanding .. so no point! agar i would have said itna sub kuch kisi aur ko tu na baas!!

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:41:27 PM

but I said it first!

Posted on 3/13/2003 3:50:47 PM

hey im back!
well admin jee, if u were to reverse da situation, i wud still disagree wid ma parents becuz i know 4 a fact dt my parents dont wnt to dump me in2 a relationship wid sum1 they'l know i hv a doubt about!
i mean my sis recently got engaged, n wen da proposal came, ma dad told them dt im not sayin anythin till i know if my daughter is even gona consider it!
so ther u go!
if ma parents hd reasons 4 not likin guy x,n i didnt, den il stil say il marry guy x cuz ppl hv diff way of judging ppl, there isnt a right n a wrong way, n anyway, its ma life so ma decision, n btw, i dun think ma parents r gona b spending every minute of there lives wid guy y, id be da 1 stuck wid da fazool marriage, n anyway, marriage is a relationship based on commitment, n if ur not commited, den wts da point, marriage isnt about havin kids n stuff, if u know wt i mean, its a bound dt u create btween urself n another person, n in order to do that, there must be attraction, both physical and most important of al, emotional!

so, who agrees wid me ppl!.....i know i do!

Posted on 3/13/2003 4:35:11 PM

heheh i agree wid u flawless... but u left out one thing.. in our desi culture.. a marriage also involves both sides of the family.. as much as we dont like to believe it... its to do with the whole khandan... but yes on a stronger note.. marriage is to do with the emotional and mental bond u have with the guy and gal... if u aint physically or mentally attracted to the guy/gal.. it gets really difficult..

and i sorta have to agree with ADMIN as well that our parents have the right over us.. ofcourse they do.. if my parents asked me for life.. id happily give it to them.. lekin then on the other hand if they made me do something which was not right.. i wouldnt do it..

hey flawless.. and anyone else... what do you think about a guy marrying a gal he dont like.. or a gal marrying a guy who doesnt like her nor loves her? if u knew the guy u were arranged to.. didnt like u.. but was forced to marry u.. what would u do??

Posted on 3/14/2003 1:20:49 AM

i already agreed with u ... duh bazi heeheh :o)

dont all our parents come before our own needs??

Posted on 3/14/2003 5:56:22 AM

i already agreed with u ... duh bazi heeheh :o)

dont all our parents come before our own needs??

Posted on 3/14/2003 5:56:42 AM

lastly.. i agree wth baaz.. but again.. as i said.. parents luv us.. they r not God sent Torchurures on puropose [:D]

Posted on 3/14/2003 9:41:06 PM

ok peeeps.. now lets quit picking on admin.. though i dont necassarily agree with him.. but bechare ne to bas ek opinion kaha tha.. we all really had it with him.. well ... :D lol
we hav driven a guy to the point he will no longer hav opinions...
Admin.. Go live freely.. and if anyone picks on u again.. well... let me know.. ill support them in better ways.. :D lol

Ok peeps.. lets stop pulling admin to bits.. Admin ure rite.. and well.. unto each his own.. meanign.. all to their own opinions..

Posted on 3/14/2003 10:21:07 PM

Baaz is simply the best.. so baaz.. lets go fry admin by ourselves [:D]

Posted on 3/15/2003 9:32:27 AM

muwahha! :P yeah rite

Posted on 3/15/2003 1:54:58 PM

LooKz like u guys have drifted from the topic lOlz ~ Should girl's really marry the person whim they 'DESIRE' lolz~ Yaar yeh larki zaaat bhi aik ajeeeb cheeze hai hahahahahahhahaha....

~DreamZGuArdiaN RoX wiD the GuyZ~

Posted on 3/16/2003 9:18:02 AM

~Shadi Khana Abadi iz all they can thinK~ either they should get their harmones level checked up or have the thing removed :P~ lOlz~

Posted on 3/16/2003 9:19:23 AM

yeah baaz.. ure right.. admin agrees...


DG.. tell me.. where wud u like to be punched?
its not girls girls girls.. its guys guys guys.. if they had sense.. girls wud be ok..

Posted on 3/16/2003 12:10:33 PM

lol! well it's only DG in diz case [angrypirat]

Posted on 3/16/2003 1:34:04 PM

DG in wot case?

Posted on 3/16/2003 6:01:41 PM

nuffin.. upper level talks

Posted on 3/17/2003 8:31:02 AM

too bad u cudnt join in admin [:P]

Posted on 3/17/2003 9:05:41 AM