wrong

exactly

if both are cheating



yeh true
its wrong,, u shd atleast have a self respect.. and dont ever lie to anybody







does anyone ever had an affair

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Daydreamer:

Hey Affairs are totally totally wrong!!!!! People only turn to affairs if they are desperate and they feel they are not geeting enough out of the realtionship they are in. People get hurt in such a farce. It is wrong and that person who cheats cannot have any Self respect or respect for that person who they cheat on. It is not acceptable for anyone

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chalo CF ne to maana
yarr khul k batao naaaa
k hum bhi ibrat pakrein

is se ibrat hi paker sakte hain ya phir is k baal pakar mein aate hain

affairs do result in LOVE marriage .. aur us k baad kia hota hai ...........   

explain wht an affair is? spending days together , talking on the phone, net endlessly etc etc .. yehi hota hai affair?

this may lead to understanding and for a better marriage understanding is the basic ingrediant .. at times i do get in favour of this thing .. thats soo cool na k u know the likes and dislikes of ur partner before u get married?

this can u taken right as well as wrong .. apni approach hai ..

Islamic point of view say sirf itni he ijazat hai k dono nay aik dosray ko dekha ho aur dono taraf ki marzi say shadi ho..

nahi H
hum to iss k kaan pakrein ge



saheliiii
i guess yeh AFFAIR ki baat ho rahi hai jahan shadi k mood mei dono ya koi aik nahi hota
understading ka to sawal hi paida nahi hota,, coz sab jhoot hota hai

hum logon k tareeke aur mahol islami nahi hein
to sirf shadi k liye ISLAMI hone ki koi tuk nahi banti,,
its a combination,, u cant choose to educate ur kids in a western style and then marry them in an islamic way
it has no sense

tareeqay aur mahool ko hum nay khud aisa banaya hai .. maana aj hamari majority westernize ho rahee hai laiken abhee bhe bohat say loog aisay hein jin k tareeqay aur mahool dono islamic hein aur main bohat say aisay logoon ko jaanti bhee hon jo k bohaat had taak deen ko follow ker rahay hein ....

meri frnd ki shadi kaafi had tak islamic tareeqay say huay thee aur hum nay us main kaafi maza kia tha.. loog ye samjhtay hein k islam ko follow kernay say maza nahi ata .. problem ye hai k aj hamara mazay ka standarad he change ho chuka hai.. kahir this is not the issue

hamari problem ye hai k hum chezon ko generalize ker daitay hein jis ka solution ye nikalta hai k minority ko ignore ker dia jata hai ..

SALL I agree with you when you said
"its a combination,, u cant choose to educate ur kids in a western style and then marry them in an islamic way
it has no sense"

This is exactly right, and it is indeed happening in some parts of the UK. And its to do with Forced marriages too

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agree saheli
abhi bhi aise log hein jinn ka mahol bohoott zyada islami hai
but then in this case AFFIARS ISSUE ka unn se koi taluk hi nahi
iss liye me ne unn ki baat nahi ki

baat unn ki ho rahi hai jinn k affairZ hote hein




DD
its coz ppl dont try to set a proper sys of "education n awareness" and let things happen
we dont even try to discuss an issue unless it affects us directly




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