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diplomacy and hypocricy

there is something i m not getting.. i cant understand the difference..
well suppose..
i dislike some people very much.. i dont want to talk to them, i dont want to face them... inspite of all this.. i have no bad wishes for anyone...
but if these people are my elders.. i have to respect them and i do... but i m much confused...
when i m talking to them nicely.. just for the sake of manners.. i feel myself hypocrite..
i mean .. i dont know.. what is this..
i may b unable to convey my point to u.. but if u get me..
tell me... what should i do... ?
Posted on 8/26/2006 8:33:19 PM
simply dont talk to them
infact is mein manners walee koi baat nahi
simply say i dont want to talk to you
baat khatam
is mein pareshani walee koi baat nahi
Posted on 8/26/2006 10:02:37 PM
If u act nice to them only,
then its not hypocrisy
only if u do something bad for them and on the face u r good to them, then are u doing hypocrisy.
Posted on 8/26/2006 10:12:09 PM
~Fragi~:
simply dont talk to them
infact is mein manners walee koi baat nahi
simply say i dont want to talk to you
baat khatam
is mein pareshani walee koi baat nahi


fragi baba... if that person is one of ur elders.. then..? or one of ur blood relations..?
itna straight forward hona achi baat nahi...
Posted on 8/27/2006 4:42:55 PM
BadShaH1:
If u act nice to them only,
then its not hypocrisy
only if u do something bad for them and on the face u r good to them, then are u doing hypocrisy.


infact, kya ye ajeeb baat nahi hogi.. k jin logon se baat karne main koi interest nahi mujhe.. rather i dont want to talk them... lekin jab mujhe un se bahave karna paray to i should be nice with them...
Posted on 8/27/2006 4:44:39 PM
Doctor Sam:
~Fragi~:
simply dont talk to them
infact is mein manners walee koi baat nahi
simply say i dont want to talk to you
baat khatam
is mein pareshani walee koi baat nahi


fragi baba... if that person is one of ur elders.. then..? or one of ur blood relations..?
itna straight forward hona achi baat nahi...



hanji , per apkee inner satisfy rehti hai
aap ko koi guilt nahi rehta
tu eik min k liye bura baney mein burayee nahi
Posted on 8/27/2006 5:04:03 PM
na hypocrite hona sahi hai
na hi badtameez hona

if u dont like someone then,, there must b a reason
try to tell that person abt that bad habit k woh khud ko change kar sake,, ya khud hi aap se door rahe

agree to badsha
u dont need to b "friend" with ppl u dont like par agar woh samne aa ja'ain to kya zaroori hai unn k agae mu banane ki,, salam dua karo and dont go into details
im sure unhein khud andaza ho jae ga


rahi baat blood relation ki
doest it really matter ????
Posted on 8/27/2006 6:49:35 PM
mujhe aap ki aakhri baat ki samajh nahi aayi sall..

rahi baat blood relation ki
doest it really matter ????
Posted on 8/27/2006 7:02:16 PM
what u too chand babu..?
Posted on 8/29/2006 10:42:06 PM
sam, hypocrisy would be you would show that you are with them but inside you want to be aginst them. On the other hand, being polite and treating people how you would like be treated than it is basic courtesy and manners.

Evidently, elders in a family may do outrageous things. countering that would be to keep a safe distance from them while maintaining minimum interaction, like what Sall suggested. Cutting-off ties would be an ill advice.
Posted on 8/30/2006 12:18:58 AM
Doctor Sam:
mujhe aap ki aakhri baat ki samajh nahi aayi sall..

rahi baat blood relation ki
doest it really matter ????

Doctor Sam:
fragi baba... if that person is one of ur elders.. then..? or one of ur blood relations..?
itna straight forward hona achi baat nahi...

matlab tha k blood relation se kya hota hai
jo galt hai so hai,, chahe woh mera bhai ho ya parosiyon ka
par baron ki izzat alag cheez hai
Posted on 8/30/2006 11:42:59 AM
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