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HI IAM NEW AND I HAVE A QUESTION

HI I AM NEW HERE AND I HAVE AN ISLAMIC QUESTION AND I NEED AN ISLAMIC ANSWER PLEASE IF A MARRIED WOMAN DOES NOT WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN IS SHE COMMITING A SIN? HONEST ANSWERS ONLY
Posted on 2/6/2008 8:06:00 AM
No, she's not comitting a sin.

Posted on 2/6/2008 8:48:15 AM
hi there n welkum to jb

i dont think its a sin not to have children

however, if she's expecting a child and then decide not to have it, is considered as a sin (i think).

Posted on 2/6/2008 8:00:49 PM
hello...welcum 2 jb
i agree wid yas n sweetie its not a sin not wanting 2 haf a child but its a sin if ur expecting one n later on not wana haf it
Posted on 2/6/2008 9:57:29 PM
HI DEAR,
yea mu husband said its guna if i dont want to be
mother i rather travel and have fun.
Posted on 2/6/2008 10:12:31 PM
u dont want children at all? or for few years?

cuz sum ppl decide to remain child free. There are several reasons for choosing not to have children. Maybe you love your life just the way it is. Maybe you don’t think you can afford to have a family. Or perhaps that “maternal instinct” just isn’t inside of you.
Posted on 2/6/2008 10:25:40 PM
udaaslarki24:
HI DEAR,
yea mu husband said its guna if i dont want to be
mother i rather travel and have fun.

no its not a gunah bt its stg u need 2 decide da oth of u as husband n wife n get 2 a conclusion...one can alwayxs travel n haf fun wid a baby as well...life doesn't stop after havin a baby...i haf one alhamdollillah meri zindagi khtam tu nai hogai
Posted on 2/6/2008 10:42:08 PM
xactly
i agree
Posted on 2/6/2008 10:52:08 PM
thanks for telling me what i felt was true :) i had a feeling as long as youre married :) its okiee not to have babies :) heheheh
Posted on 2/7/2008 9:12:32 AM
ok
Posted on 2/7/2008 9:35:53 AM
udaaslarki24:
thanks for telling me what i felt was true :) i had a feeling as long as youre married :) its okiee not to have babies :) heheheh

u r most welcum
Posted on 2/7/2008 6:01:45 PM
its not a sin not wanting a baby butYES yoiu are comitting sin by not respecting ur husbands wish to have a baby...

and beleive me sweet heart u'll enjoy life more wid a baby in ur lap....and u would love to travel wid ur baby nuthing could beat the feeling that u have when u see ur child happy
Posted on 2/7/2008 6:18:57 PM
hey sunzz how old is ur baby??
Posted on 2/7/2008 6:20:06 PM
welcome

Agree with YAS
Posted on 2/7/2008 7:41:31 PM
welcome 2 AGREE WITH YES
Posted on 2/7/2008 9:22:37 PM
my dream is that if i have a baby my husband comes home at a set time like maybe 6pm he comes home around 10pm at night and hes too busy for me, i want my husband to help me with the baby, haveing a baby with him wil mean i will have to do everything by myself he wont be there when i will need him he only cares about himself.
Posted on 2/8/2008 12:22:37 AM
move to religion

and welcome here

Posted on 2/8/2008 12:26:52 AM
welcome
Posted on 2/8/2008 2:29:12 AM
ye su r rite udaas larki after reading ur topic in serious corner i think u shdn;t have baby..baby ko papa ka piyar bhi chahye hota hay atleast ak aur insaan ki zindagee kharaab na ho...
Posted on 2/8/2008 5:03:49 PM
i think its a sin.. its a cycle.. what if everyone starts thinkin abt not having a baby..
den wat.. no more life on earth..


Posted on 2/8/2008 6:34:14 PM
udaaslarki24:
HI DEAR,
yea mu husband said its guna if i dont want to be
mother i rather travel and have fun.


anti enjoy ur life.. but do have kidz later in life.. agar app ki taran ap ka sara haandaan soochay.. too u won't see da next generation...

abhi have fun.. but later in life.. time aye ga when u will want kidz.. wasay bhi.. jab insaan burha ho jata ha too u will need somone to rely on naa..
khush rahain:)
Posted on 2/8/2008 6:37:51 PM
n do remember.. bachay doo hi achay..

chahay bachay hoon 10 ya 15.. nikalny doo hi achay hein
Posted on 2/8/2008 6:40:47 PM
WAFA:
hey sunzz how old is ur baby??

wafa my son is 6 months
Posted on 2/8/2008 10:40:22 PM
no its not a sin
apni marzi se jeene ka haq sab ko hona chaiye
unless it doesnt hurt others
Posted on 2/9/2008 4:43:37 PM
Ashii:
no its not a sin
apni marzi se jeene ka haq sab ko hona chaiye
unless it doesnt hurt others

agreed
Posted on 2/11/2008 10:26:32 PM
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