sweetie:

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
hahahahha

ermm yeh kaho k .........

two aunties = sistas

OK jee, Auntie Behena!!

Lol, kidding!!

sweetie:

our probs r quite similar maa

Arrey!!

Allah Tallah aap dono koh haar buri nazaar sai bachay.

Ameen.

MISS SCORPIO:

sweetie:

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
hahahahha

ermm yeh kaho k .........

two aunties = sistas

OK jee, Auntie Behena!!

Lol, kidding!!

lolz no probs aunty wali behna

Thanx miss scorpio, it not too harsh its just so right.

hey kiran check ur pm.

~CHANDNI~:

sweetie:

oi im also aunty of jb. not a child
see my avatar title.. agony aunty

hello ma   shweeety   anti

hello ma chandni sis

MISS SCORPIO:

Lol auntie, I just remembered something, you used to call me 'stingy puttar' back in the day, do you still remember that?

Lolz.

hain did i? aahhhh i think ive lost my thinking machine again

sweetie:

MISS SCORPIO:

Lol auntie, I just remembered something, you used to call me 'stingy puttar' back in the day, do you still remember that?

Lolz.

hain did i? aahhhh i think ive lost my thinking machine again

Lol, not you silly qadoo!!
I was on about MAA!

This seems like a general problem for all pakis living in the west or ME. There are a ot of background to it. This can be argued in many different ways depending on how you look at it.

Thankfully, my parents and siblings in pak never demanded any support from me even when they needed it.

I am not surprised that this discussion is mostly between girls and some of the stories are really horrifying. I sure feel sorry especially for recently married and to be moms for having situations like that.

I think we need to look at the flip side as well.

I agree with you. I have seen all kinds of bums.
Yes there are greedy relatives and those who think they hit a gold pot if a relative of their's goes out of pak.

But there are also those who value their sons as their investment, especially the oldest one. In many cases I know, parents pooled all their assets to send their children to US for ed and for him to earn for the rest of the fam. His siblings don't get the same opportunity to go overseas and lead a better life. This son who went overseas is indebted for life for this sacrifice that his parents and siblings made. Then there is this moral responsibilty of supporting less fortunate relatives. There are multiple presures on guys to help his family. Family in Pak is under pressure from other relatives and friends taunting for how their son cares less about them....In this mess there are those opportunists and greedy relatives who are unhappy only because they just don't have a carte blanche.