Difference..

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WHATS THE DIFFERENCE???

Being a Muslim.. Pakistani did u ever find out whts the difference between us n the rest of the world??
Everything that is happening in other countries are also a part of our country and society now. Firstly, lets see what are the similarities, I m talking about:

As a Muslim firstly, do we perform our duties? Duties includes Namaz, Zakat, Haqooq-ul-Allah n Haqooq-ul-Ebad..

Secondly, wht is the difference between our ways of life and theirs? How many hours of the day, we listen to music and how many MINUTES we listen or read Quran?(other than ramazan)

Our way of talking, eating, sitting everything is now so called MODERN, who are we following and who should we follow??

Every bad crime is happening in our society, from stealing to murder, anyone who is taking step to stop this?? In Islam, punishment of stealing is to cut off the right hand of the person, nowadays our new generation is stealing for the sake of fun, to try something new, to bring a thrill in life?!? and the rest who have made their means of life through stealing, corruption, etc. Are we Muslims?

People in our society are making utmost efforts to make "jaidads" for their children, no matter they are earning from “Halal” or “Haram”, They don't care whether they have to take Rishwat or Sood.

In our society, small children are working in workshops, stores and other places. Aren't they supposed to study like us? What is their fault if they we born in poor families? Aren't we supposed to teach them or help financially or educationally so that they can study too?

One side there is extremely rich people, who often asks people where to spend their money? at the other side, people are dieing because of hunger, extremely cold or hot temperature, etc. Why don't we feel the pain?
In our society, vulgarity is so common often we have to think, are we Muslims?

Just visit our film industry, our models? Who are following?

Our Mosques aren't safe today and we live in an Islamic state.

Brother is killing brother for his profit, for any other worldly thing?

Why there is so jealously, hatred among us. What is the reason behind all this? Have u ever thought this way?
Are we going to ignore this again as we do.. or still the EMAN inside us is alive???

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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so true

Posted 06 Nov 2004

friend_16 says

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don't u think that there should b a difference b/t us MUSLIMS and the rest of the world??

simple hum saab agar apnay app ko theek ker lein .. bejaiy is kay kay hum doosroon par comments karein .. khud ko theek ker lia jaiy .. tu doosray khudhee hum ko deekh ker theek hoo jaiy ..

.. aksar hamain ye khayal aata hai kay us nay hamain ye kaha tu hum bhee agay say jawab dein kaheen wo hamain kamzoor na samjhay .. ya majority ye kaam ker rahee hai main kyun ye karooon .. ye saab waswasay shaitan hamaray diloon main dalta hai aur shaitan hum par itna galib hai kay hum us ki ziada baat maantay hein .. is liay aj hamaree society ka ye haal hai..

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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ya i agree but harkoi perfect tu nahin hoosakta lekin woh apni kuch kuch ghaltiyan theek karsakta hai ALLAh ney hamein sirf aik mitti sey nahin banaya hamein pata nahin kitni qisam ki mitti sey banaya hai aur isilea ham gunnah bhi kartey hain mafi bhi mangtey hain aur achey kam bhi kartey hain insan hai he ghaltiyon ka aik putla hum jitni bhi koushish karlein koi na koi tu kammi rah he jati hai ............!

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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yeh definatly hamari seprate identity hi

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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MY ANSWER IS

U CANT CHANGE ANYONE
ALLAH KHUDI CONTACT KERTA HEY BANDE SEY
JAB WOH CHAHE GA HUM MEIN DIFFERENCE PEIDA KERDEY GA!

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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that's the fact! we don't want to face HAKEKAT! agar hum apna, masharay ka, duniya ka ehtasaab kareen gey tu yehi sub kuch niklay ga.............................sadioon sei hota ayaa hai.........sadiyoon tuk hota rahay ga...................What should we do know ?????????

How can we change our lifs???? (yes i believe if we change our selves infact we are changing the society)

there are lot of realities if we think about .....hamaray sir sharam sei jhuk jayee..........

kuch mahool,kuch system he aesa bun geya hai .....agar koi ess sei nikalna chahiyee tu be duniyaa walay usay nikalnay nahi detay..............ore jo nikal jayeeee usay hum pagal.....dewana..bewakoof... kehtay hain .......kue kay phir uss ka duniyaa sei rishta hatam ho jata hai..........woe duniyaa sei aleeda ho jata hai ..ess system sei aleeda ho jata hai..............ore bilkul akeela ho jata hai................life uss kay leye bohot mushkil ho jati hai..........and we call him AN UNSUCCESSFUL MAN!

mera aik dost hai .....uss ki one year pehlay shaadi hoyee .....he was a great man woe kehta tha i will change the trand of shaadi beyaah........mein jaheez nahi loon ga ...........i don't have car.....mein apni dulhaan ko lanay kay leye car rent pay nahi loon ga balkay apni bisaat kay mutab ya tu apni bike pay lei kay aoon ga.....ya phir bus sei......ore jo pesay car kay rent paar harch honay hai un sei ghar ka aik month ka harcha chal jayee ga.......

shaadi pay sir 3 ghavaoon ore apni family ki elavaa kis ko nahi bolaoon ga..........loog kya karta hai ...aatay hain khatay hain mubarik detay hain ore chaleen jatay hain..........ore hum loog karzay utarnay mein umer guzar detay hain........

Koi maeyoon ya taeel ,mehndi nahi karoon ga......balkay uss din quran ki talawaat karoon ga ore logoon ko be kahoon ga woe ye kareen............

Paar hoa kya ........jub uss nein apnay susraal waloon ko ye sub batyaaa tu unheen nein shoor macha dea.........aesa kabi hoa hai bhala.....agar aesa hona hai tu hum apni beti nahi dein gey..........larki nein ye shikayeet ki kay uss ki dost ussay tung karteen hain ......dekhoo tumhara dulhaa kesa pagal hai.......larkay ka baap apnay betay kay paoon paar geya beta aesa na karoo ye hamari izaat ka sawal hai........haam handaan mein kis mun sei jayeen gey agar ye sub hoa tu........behnoo nein ru ru kay asmaan sir pay utha leya kay taeel mehndi paar nach gana ho ga warna hum shirkat nahi kareen gey .........................aker uss becharay nein himaat haar dei ore vesay he hoa jesay uss kay ghar walay chahtay thay .......jesay duniyaa walay chahtay thay.............

Now tell me how can we change our life ????????

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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""whts the difference between us n the rest of the world??""

bohootttt bara difference hai
woh yeh k hum log akhrat pe aur kudrat k kanoon pe yakeen rakhte hein
aur apni marzi ki zindagi guzarne k bawajoood iss baat ka pakka yakeen hai k jannat sirf hamare liye bani hai, aur baki saare log ullu k pathe hein

hahaahahahhaaaa....

hum to itna jante hein k........
saaaaarrriii dunya aur hamare ghar waale aik taraf
aur hum aik taraf,, nahi maanta koi to na maane,, Khuda ka saath hona chaiye,, aur phir mera meenu bhi to hai na

acha na yarrr,, ab tang nah karo
ninu i hai

Posted 06 Nov 2004

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well jahaan taak app kay doost ki baat hai to aik daam say tu app kisi ko change ker nahi saktay .. ye kafee bara event tha .. theek hai us kay parents ..family.. inlaws .. nahi maan rahay thay .. tu wo un ko un kay shauk poray kernay daita .. aur khud wo saab na kerta ..

secondly .. sirf shadi kay event ko nahi theek kerna aur bohaat kaam hein hamaree society kay..

aur ye baat kay loog pagal .. bewafooq .. jo marzee kahein .. we aren't here to make people happy .. hamain Allah ko khush kerna hai .. n that should b our AIM in life ... apnay app ko aisa bana laina hai apnay ikhlaaq ko apnay app ko kay loog khudhee app ki taraf attract hoon .. like koi app say jhagra karay .. app us nay na jhagroo .. koi app ko bura kahay app us ko kuch na kahoo .. like ye bohaat choti cheezain hein .. par they so matter in our life ..

har koi agar sirf apnay apnay ko theek ker lay.. tu i don't think kay koi burayee is society main rahay..

Posted 07 Nov 2004

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agree f16

freddyy
apne dost se kehna tha kissi majboor gareeb larki se shadi kar leta
tab susral waale koi shor na machate

Posted 07 Nov 2004

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riwaaj nahi torna chahta...susraal kya shadi kar leta jese woh chahta tha

Posted 07 Nov 2004

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well! ladies and gentlemen's i didn't mean you give your opinion about what my friend should do.....

i gave that examples just because wana explain how much problems a person can face if he try to change something bad in society....

f-16 aik dum sei hum kuch change nahi kar saktay that's right okay then tell me if you want to change society ..from where you start ?

i didn't understand what does that means ye kafee bara event tha .. theek hai us kay parents ..family.. inlaws .. nahi maan rahay thay .. tu wo un ko un kay shauk poray kernay daita .. aur khud wo saab na kerta ..

that's quite amusing......you means usay apni shaadi mein shirkaat nahi karni chahiyee thi ???(tht is what i get from your answer)

secondly .. sirf shadi kay event ko nahi theek kerna aur bohaat kaam hein hamaree society kay..

agar woe koi ore kaam ko change karnay ki koshsih karta tub be tum yehi kehti ..sirf ess kaam ko change nahi karta ore be bohot sei kaam hai jin ko change karnay ki zaroorat hai........

uss nein apnay samnay jis cheez ko payaa........matlab jis cheez ko change karnay ka ehtieyaar usay hasil tha...jis cheez ko woe samajta tha kay change kaar sakta hai ..........usay uss nein change karni ki koshish ki........the good thing is he tried atleast! dosn't matter he successed or not.

aur ye baat kay loog pagal .. bewafooq .. jo marzee kahein .. we aren't here to make people happy .. hamain Allah ko khush kerna hai .. n that should b our AIM in life ... apnay app ko aisa bana laina hai apnay ikhlaaq ko apnay app ko kay loog khudhee app ki taraf attract hoon .. like koi app say jhagra karay .. app us nay na jhagroo .. koi app ko bura kahay app us ko kuch na kahoo .. like ye bohaat choti cheezain hein .. par they so matter in our life ..

har koi agar sirf apnay apnay ko theek ker lay.. tu i don't think kay koi burayee is society main rahay..

Yes! naturally tu yehi hona chahiyee hamene logoon ko khush karnay ki koi zaroorat nai........paar kya wakeyee hum aesa kartay hain ????????? just take an example of yourself ........you will find we do a lot of unnessessery things just to make peoples happy..not for our inner satisfaction...

haameen apnay app ko aesa banana chahiyee kay loog humeen dekh kay sabak sekheen ya hamari examples dein....every one say that ......paar kitnay hai jo try be kirtay hain ore kamyaab be ho jatay hain ?????????

koi app sei jugra karay tu app ko nahi karna chahiyee ..........im agree on it...........ess ki aik clear example hamaray pyaree nabi (PBUH) hain........

freddyy
apne dost se kehna tha kissi majboor gareeb larki se shadi kar leta
tab susral waale koi shor na machate

woe khud aik gharib aadmi hai uss kay susaraal walay be ghareeb he thay.......hamaray yaha ess tarha kay kamoon mein amir gharib sub aik jesay ho jatay hain...........woe dosroon sei mukabaala karna chahtay hain kay hum be kisi sei kum nahi ...........chahieyee baki ki sari zindagi karzaa utarnay mein he guzar jayeee......

Posted 07 Nov 2004

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aray us ko shirkaat kernay say kis nay rooka hai? .. saab wo ye show kerta kay usay ye saab pasand nahi hai .. coz .. Hazoor (SaAllah-o-Wasalim) nay farmaya hai kay agar kaheen buree baat deekho tu usay rooknay ki koosish karoo agar nahi rook saktay tu usay dil say bura janoo.. wo apnay parents ko aram say samjha bhee sakta tha kay ye saab hamray deen main nahi hai .. ye saab fazool rasmein aur fazoool kaam hein .. i know kay itnee asaani say koi nahi samjhta .. par kosish tu ki ja saktee thee na ?.. khair .. kisi ko apni porani rawuyaaat aur rasmoon say hatana bohaaat mushkil hai par impossible nahi ..

society ko change kernay kay liay saab say pehlay apnay app ko change kerna hoo ga ... jaab loog app main achiyaan deekhein gay tu definately app ki taraf attract hoon gay... meri aik friend ki example hai .. us ki sis ki friend nay aik islamic institution join kia aur us main bohaat +ive changes aiyeen .. tu meri friend ki sis bhee us taraf attract huee aur aj MasAllah say wo kafee Islamic hai aur bohat see apnee friends ko is taraf layee hai .. jaab aik insaan burayee kay badlay achayee karay ,, koi ghagra karay koi jawab na day .. har kisi ki respect karay .. definately people will respect u.. people will luv u n care for u..

par Sabr kerna itnee asani say nahi aata .. coz yahaan hamain koi kuch zara say keh day .. aik sunain ga tu hum agay say teen suna dein gay.. SABR ye nahi raha hum main .. respect nahi rahee ..

sawal ye hai kay SABR aiyee kaisay?? ..
Sabr namaz say aata hai .. deekh lein namaz main app ko koi jo marzee kehta hai app apni namaz kaim rakhtay hein .. similarly koi aam waqat main bhee app ko jo marzee kahay app apna maulama Allah par choor dein .. kitnee dair bool lay ga?? .. khudhee bool bool kay chup hoo jaiy ga .. par shart ye hai kay saab kuch araam say bardast kerna hai ..

+ive thinking.. koi jo marzee kahay .. kisi kay baray main -ive thinking nahi hone chahyee ..

isee taraah bohat see qualties hein .. ye saab pehlay khud main laani hoon ge.. tu u'lll see for urself kay loog app ki khudhee respect karain gay ..

Posted 10 Nov 2004

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my friends we are beating around the bush.
I don't intend to lecture but I saw the main ingredient missing in the analysis you guys and gals have posted above. Though your assessment is quite accurate but I would like to draw your attention to something of paramount importance.

My dear friends, we are disturbed by the symptoms and trying to find a cure for that. As symptoms are indicators of disease hidden inside. I'm sur u'll agree wid me on that when a body is inflicted with cancer, cold, fever, & cough, doc will focus on cancer to save the life first and will ignore other minor diseases.

customs and culture are indicators, reflectors, symptoms, & mirrors of BELIEVES. You can't stop the growth of a tree by clipping its brances. They will grow back with more vigor. You got to go to the root of it.
Want to change a society, change the set of believes in one individual.

Prophet (pbuh) spent 13 years in Mekkah, only working on the set of believes ignoring all other societal issues. Who wants to follow Quran when they don't believe in what it says. People say they believe but negate it with thier action. So work on own Iman first, strengthen it first with worship and ibadah - it helps reinforce realationship with the creator.

Posted 11 Nov 2004

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