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i don;t see it haram if the sperm used is actual husband's cuz at the end of the day..it is husband and wife...so i don;t see anything wrong with it...

in case of a sperm donor, i have no idea....haram or halal....but personally i probably won;t take that option...
Posted 23 Nov 2005

Topic: Dua

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shahrukh khan said:

non muslim ke liye dua kar sakte hain?



lemme sum it up...

remember how hazrat umer converted into islam? holy prophet (PBUH) prayed to God, (i dunno thre exact words, here's the summary)...

O God, umer ya abu-jehl mae se ek ko islam kabool kernay ke taufeeq farma...

what happened after...how did the dua worked...is different story and does not relates to the original topic...so i'll leave it here...

point is...holy prophet (PBUH) prayed for hazrat umer when he was non-muslim...

so...it is ok to pray for a non-muslim...
Posted 23 Nov 2005

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Posted 23 Nov 2005

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sab fazool hae
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dil to hae per dil mae shaytaan hae
Posted 23 Nov 2005

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SALL said:

astakhhhfirulllaaahhhhh !!!



typical desi woman
Posted 23 Nov 2005

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really?
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RITE
Posted 23 Nov 2005

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SALL said:

bazu,,
infact the guy talked to my friend to tell her that "this is" wot he expects from her



this tells me that the guy doesn't gives a rat's a** if his wife is respected at home or no...all he cares bout is his family and elders...
Posted 23 Nov 2005

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ye kya baat hoi
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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why not?
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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nah..i think i go get married..then come back marry again
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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ok, i have a girl here who wants to marry e too..what do i do?
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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no, i think i'll have to get married now to get over it
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Posted 22 Nov 2005

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i am sad now
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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on-line be-izti
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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i think imam sahib went over there for tableegh purpose, what do u think?
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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nah i want u to knit it for me
u'r my friend..rite?
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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well, i translated it for u
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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get someone to read it for u then
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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wow..can u knit me one too..plz..it;s more cold here then there
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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u can't read urdu?
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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they r cool..u;r just too young to understand what's in style and what not..u;ll grow up..worry not
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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SALL said:

my question is
aise bigre hue abba jii k saath kya karna chaiye ???
baat be baat pe jo aap ko daant dein, sirf apni manwana jante hon,, how can u respect such person



Sall, i have a very easy solution for u...

just tell u;r friend to ask her fiance...

offcourse he puts lots of respect in elders and expects same from her, but what will he do at his father's such behaviour towards her? what if it was "her" instead of his bhabi? what would he do?

the guys reply would tell u everything how he plans to keep u;r friend in her house...(gets his family members to respect her or no)
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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when a girl goes to her husband's house...it;s not only her responsibility to change, but it;s also her husband + in-laws responsibility to change to an extend too...as the girl comes from a totaly different family..different values, different home atmosphere...it's tough for girls..in-laws have to understand this and take it easy on such girls...

every senerio is different, but in case of sall's story..it was father-in-law's fault..as the girl obeyed him everytime he asked for tea..well, if she dunno how to make good tea..it;s not her fault is it? this girl did everything right...as a good daughter-in-law should..she obeyed her father-in-law...if i was dat girl husband..i won;t like what the father-in-law did as it;s an insult to that girl...and if she was my wife..her insult is my insult..and i ain't gonna like it...(especially when she didn;t do anything wrong to begin with)...

Sall - divorece is not an answer...i believe everything can be worked out with little bit of paitance, good timing and open communication...
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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LiL_DollY said:

Shahenshah said:

naah...i don;t wanna cheat on my wife [/
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u take everything the wrong way dont yah



nope..i take everything as a joke
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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hanji
Posted 22 Nov 2005

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maryam. said:

that's not as cool as a paperclip necklace bazi
staple pin bracelets were so yesterday
get with the program
sheesh kebabs!



chup ker..staple pins bracelet required more hard work..try it sometimes
Posted 22 Nov 2005